Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I live in Americus, Georgia. I'm considering moving to Atlanta, Georgia or maybe Florida. Also, considering Arizona and Michigan.

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There are a bunch more similar to it, but it all depends on your goals. ATL & Michigan are cheaper vs Florida & Arizona.

then you also consider how much you can save, safety, weather, business, entertainment, type of women, etc. (you’ll most likely approach a negative on one of the factors above)

 

[WIA20XX]

* reads *
* thinks *
* re-reads *

Sees everyone else taking ol boy through it...

I'ma let y'all handle it.

 

[rabbid]

If my coworker who is 28 can do it, why can't I?

I would love to just smash a woman, but they want "something genuine" and want to "be took out on dates". I'm not #handsome gang or #tall gang. Unfortunately these are the cards I'm dealt in life.

its giving escort alligator breh. if u not gonna step outside of your comfort zone or have the confidence to start selling dreams, you may as well hit up some heauxs. u dont need to be tall or handsome. i see sloppy dudes waiting until 2am to make out at the club with drunk chicks all the time.

 

[Brandsdale]

staged

 

[Peter Popoff]

staged

 

[Balla]

She doesn't know ima virgin. But, I'll tell her when/if the time gets right. I'm winging it right now Breh. Fake it till you make it.

 

[Dave24]

its giving escort alligator breh. if u not gonna step outside of your comfort zone or have the confidence to start selling dreams, you may as well hit up some heauxs. u dont need to be tall or handsome. i see sloppy dudes waiting until 2am to make out at the club with drunk chicks all the time.

@rabbid how can I sell women dreams to get them to sleep with me? I want to step out of my comfort zone to do that.

 

[rabbid]

@rabbid how can I sell women dreams to get them to sleep with me? I want to step out of my comfort zone to do that.

vv

She doesn't know ima virgin. But, I'll tell her when/if the time gets right. I'm winging it right now Breh. Fake it till you make it.

this. if u really wanna Stunt 101 go ahead and rent an exotic for the night and valet to the club. Get you an nice airbnb that looks cozy and tell her that's your spot. It is what it is. Sometimes you gotta be Dr. Lipshytz. Get in where you fit in.

Honestly some girls dont even need that. I've had some female friends that tell me about their dates and you can tell the dude is capping. They still end up smashing. Just project and literally tell her everything a girl wants to hear.

 

[Ahadi]

vv

this. if u really wanna Stunt 101 go ahead and rent an exotic for the night and valet to the club. Get you an nice airbnb that looks cozy and tell her that's your spot. It is what it is. Sometimes you gotta be Dr. Lipshytz. Get in where you fit in.

Honestly some girls dont even need that. I've had some female friends that tell me about their dates and you can tell the dude is capping. They still end up smashing. Just project and literally tell her everything a girl wants to hear.

I used to tell joints i went to an Ivy in my 20s.The amount of box thrown at me in real life + apps. Gave me access to badder Asians & white joints.

 

[Black Excellence]

Got high as shyt yesterday and realized we really do make shyt hard on ourselves with women for no reason.

Become versatile & nuanced, it’s not easy as it sounds but it’s very much worth it to try.

Imagine if we as men just took the time to learn a language, pick up dancing classes, went to a workshop class, learned random facts, historical information, brushed up on our vocabulary, be more picky with the type of women we pursue and even when we pursue them we leave them wanting more. Stop beating off, take time off from fukking, read, visit places with historical meaning.

All this probably is Andrew Tate/Kev samuels shyt, but I just realized I been going in wide eyed, saying smooth shyt to win women over, trying to impress women and expecting certain results and it hasn’t been working so why not re-wire the brain, don’t be so eager, analyze people a bit more, shyt analyze myself more.

Sidebar, minus the born into royalty and height part, Hitch & Coming to America lowkey showed the blueprint.

I also went into a deep hole of researching the early parts of human civilization and the hunter/gather/economic nature of how we are and how we should use some of that instead of being so reliant on this modern way of dating/marriage (provide shelter/food/protection vs going 50/50, marriage should be used only as a business arrangement not for love). Assertively let a woman understand the conditions you’re laying flat out for her & make it abundantly clear you’re also fine being by yourself.

The key to this is being able to show how self sufficient you are and the problem is a lot of men aren’t able to show and prove that. Learning how to fish, plant, cook, build, is essential for this to work.

Another thing, stop listening to what society and women tell you to do. “You’ll look so nice if you dressed like this, looked more present, got a shape up, etc”.

fukk that, get yourself in shape, look like a beast and see if those same people give a fukk or if they’re just mirin at your chest, legs & arms.

Again all of this I’m sure has been said in a multitude of ways but to have that epiphany and really hit you is…different.

 

[WIA20XX]

Got high as shyt yesterday and realized we really do make shyt hard on ourselves with women for no reason.

It's not us that make things difficult.

WIA

 

[Action Mike]

fukk that, get yourself in shape, look like a beast and see if those same people give a fukk or if they’re just mirin at your chest, legs & arms.

Yep, this is it.

We're in the looks first era, better max out as much as you can.

My wardrobe is basic and I still get thirsty looks

 

[Black Excellence]

It's not us that make things difficult.

WIA

Respectfully, I think it is.

We lead, they follow.

If they aren’t following then we aren’t leading correctly. This mainly applies for the women where there is some mutual interest not just any ol thot, bitter chick, etc.

Yep, this is it.

We're in the looks first era, better max out as much as you can.

My wardrobe is basic and I still get thirsty looks

You see it.

I haven’t gotten a shape up in about a month maybe 2, I wear asics sneakers & regular cheap tees from the 99 cent store, the looks I get are wild as well lol

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Respectfully, I think it is.

We lead, they follow.

If they aren’t following then we aren’t leading correctly. This mainly applies for the women where there is some mutual interest not just any ol thot, bitter chick, etc.

There are Men who are strong leaders and Women simply don’t want to get with my the program.

Their choice, but this notion that Men need to do more or get better and Women do nothing is what got us here in the first place

 

[Black Excellence]

There are Men who are strong leaders and Women simply don’t want to get with my the program.

Their choice, but this notion that Men need to do more or get better and Women do nothing is what got us here in the first place

Again, I’m speaking on women where there is mutual interest, someone you’ve already vetted. In that situation it won’t be a issue for a woman to get on whatever time you’re on.

Not to mention even if a woman doesn’t, who cares, your purpose is for your purpose.

You bringing up women doing nothing and “men needing to do more” is a bit defeatist. Who is saying to go after women who do nothing? Why are you pursuing and vetting a woman who does nothing?

You being on your purpose and learning more gives you more options, that’s the entire point.

You’re hearing me but not listening.