Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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Cause it’s all dependent on holidays / other events (F1, World Cup, Playoffs, etc)

The badder your joint is, the most likely you’ll hear crickets from her until THAT weekend is over with the guy who provided her access or with her girlfriends.

Long weekends / Holidays such as “Memorial Day” could be an invitation on someone’s boat, or lake house, celebrity party, etc.

You just keep those plates spinning.

“Fake arguments” are bound to occur as well.
 

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Went out/knew a woman from Ghana for a few years, and without going into like ugly criticism, I'll just say when I met her, she was a Trump supporter/build the wall, and the last time I saw her, was a full on activist, fund raising for black causes.

She was born in London, and went to school in the US, and, in all fairness, seemed to lust after me pretty hard, and was at times, really really bad, but I always kept my distance. Always kept things cool and open, I remember this exchange, from 2019, she texted me out of nowhere and said

"Do you want to take me out to dinner for my birthday?"
and I was like "Where were you thinking?"
and she said something like "if that;s your response, than you don't want to go",
and I just never replied, I had no idea what she was talking about. But, now I kind of get it, my casual question was interpreted like a qualifier, which it was, but I just was only down if it was a good place. (because my tastes are much more refined and expensive, in all honesty)
 

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few pages been West African women slander :mjpls:
"Do you want to take me out to dinner for my birthday?"
and I was like "Where were you thinking?"
and she said something like "if that;s your response, than you don't want to go",
and I just never replied, I had no idea what she was talking about. But, now I kind of get it, my casual question was interpreted like a qualifier, which it was, but I just was only down if it was a good place.
I don’t get it

A better way of stating her want would of been “I would enjoy to spend my birthday with you”, but that would of require vulnerability
 

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Was talking to this chic, everything was going great, we was having nice text convos and nice on-the-phone convos... Last Wednesday, I told her that I might be in her part of town Thursday cause I had a mtg with somebody.

This is her text: "Let me know. We can have tea or coffee!"

I'm like, bet. I'll let you know.

I reach out to her early Thurs. Radio silence.

:dahell:

I'm over thinking to myself, chic... I wasn't even sweating you like that. I was just telling you where I was gon be at. You told ME you wanted to meet up, and then you gon ghost me?

:dahell:

These hoes :skip: :mjlol:

maybe she didn't see it :troll:
 

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Was talking to this chic, everything was going great, we was having nice text convos and nice on-the-phone convos... Last Wednesday, I told her that I might be in her part of town Thursday cause I had a mtg with somebody.

This is her text: "Let me know. We can have tea or coffee!"

I'm like, bet. I'll let you know.

I reach out to her early Thurs. Radio silence.

:dahell:

I'm over thinking to myself, chic... I wasn't even sweating you like that. I was just telling you where I was gon be at. You told ME you wanted to meet up, and then you gon ghost me?

:dahell:

These hoes :skip: :mjlol:

I would of had more joints lined up lol.

I remember I had a DC business trip, matched with about 8 who were down to link. On the day of, I only 3 got back to me.
 

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I would of had more joints lined up lol.

I remember I had a DC business trip, matched with about 8 who were down to link. On the day of, I only 3 got back to me.

I already have stuff set up in kenya, rwanda and uganda :blessed:
Even got this dime piece kenyan whose a tour guide to take me on a safari

nukka we made it :blessed:
 

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Something that influences some of that "flaky" behavior is actually the wellness industry, I think, and the kind of therapy speak that has bled into our everyday convos.

People will avoid anything that seems "stressful" or "not serving me", so people will cancel plans, or just not respond, under the guise of "mental health"

and also of course, our glorification of business. (meant busy-ness)

but also, if you are planning with anyone, outside of like close people, day before/night before is probably the most considerate/reasonable.
 
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