Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That’s why, and it sounds petty, if I get left on read ONCE and she hasn’t responded in 6-7hrs I bush. If she comes back around I do the absolute MINIMUM. And I mean minimum :mjlol:

Yeah yeah I’m probably losing out on p*ssy being that strict but fukk it I’d rather keep it pushing. These hoes ain’t slick. I got lady friends that put me on game so my tolerance is LOW.
I'm the same. It's not petty, just basic pride and dignity in one's self.
Who is she that I gotta double text her? She's not my mother, relative, or wife.
Leaving me on read and/or ghosting is bird language for FOH, so I act accordingly and delete her number.
 

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aye listen,

if worst comes to worst, I can deal with being alone at 45 with nothing but my cat and my bread

shorties gotta be mindful of what their future may look like and if they can truly handle it :manny:
no sense of delayed gratification for a lot of women.

its some who want a dude to come out the gates swinging - giving them 100%. meanwhile they cant even show up to a date on time or return a text promptly lol.

fam, i was just about to tell you a story and then i remembered you and this chick used to work at the same place together. Remember Sybil? Tell me how one day I was at Chotto Matte with some former colleagues of mine. Chick came in the restaurant and sat down at the table beside me. Guess who it was beside? An 80 year old looking ass white sugar daddy. Same girl was flaking on me/playing me to the side a year prior.

These women have no shame. Would rather get with a sugar daddy, then spend a few years building with a nikka. Fast forward 4 years later and I make 100s of thousands a year and could low key afford the lifestyle these women are selling their souls to sugar daddies for. its a weird game out here
 
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no sense of delayed gratification for a lot of women.

its some who want a dude to come out the gates swinging - giving them 100%. meanwhile they cant even show up to a date on time or return a text promptly lol.

fam, i was just about to tell you a story and then i remembered you and this chick used to work at the same place together. Remember Sybil? Tell me how one day I was at Chotto Matte with some former colleagues of mine. Chick came in the restaurant and sat down beside me. Guess who it was beside? An 80 year old looking ass white sugar daddy. Same girl was flaking on me/playing me to the side a year prior.

These women have no shame. Would rather get with a sugar daddy, then spend a few years building with a nikka. Fast forward 4 years later and I make 100s of thousands a year and could low key afford the lifestyle these women are selling their souls to sugar daddies for. its a weird game out here
Like others mention on here, they want the end result and not sit around or assist on the building phase. With the building phase, every man is different, some finish sooner, some finish later either with an consistent pace or inconsistent pace. This means, she can't tell on the outcome at all and doesn't want to stick around if it doesn't finish on her time, ignoring that it'll be finish on your time, not hers.
 

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Like others mention on here, they want the end result and not sit around or assist on the building phase. With the building phase, every man is different, some finish sooner, some finish later either with an consistent pace or inconsistent pace. This means, she can't tell on the outcome at all and doesn't want to stick around if it doesn't finish on her time, ignoring that it'll be finish on your time, not hers.
no risk no reward
one of lifes basic principles
 

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no sense of delayed gratification for a lot of women.

its some who want a dude to come out the gates swinging - giving them 100%. meanwhile they cant even show up to a date on time or return a text promptly lol.

fam, i was just about to tell you a story and then i remembered you and this chick used to work at the same place together. Remember Sybil? Tell me how one day I was at Chotto Matte with some former colleagues of mine. Chick came in the restaurant and sat down beside me. Guess who it was beside? An 80 year old looking ass white sugar daddy. Same girl was flaking on me/playing me to the side a year prior.

These women have no shame. Would rather get with a sugar daddy, then spend a few years building with a nikka. Fast forward 4 years later and I make 100s of thousands a year and could low key afford the lifestyle these women are selling their souls to sugar daddies for. its a weird game out here

The modern woman is a prostitute at this stage and we don't want to have an honest discussion on it.
 

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The people who "come hardest out the gate" are usually going to be unhealthy and unhealthily attached or discard as soon as they get bored, ironically. Male or female.

Also, losing interest rapidly, or devaluing a person rapidly. Someone said to me recently there are two types of people, (cliche but whatever)

Those who meet someone, anyone, a friend, lover, a business associate, and instantly thinks they are great, and loves everything about them, and then very quickly is disillusioned and starts tearing them apart in their mind, bit by bit.

and those who mostly withhold a lot of judgement, and bit by bit build that person up realistically, until they have a solid foundation based in reality.

One easy example, one of my boys, was infamous for the former, that's how every single one of his relationships of ANY kind went.
 

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That use of "intentional" is misused, or mischaracterized, but totally social media engineered.

if any of my boys ask for advice, I usually do say something about intentionality. Like what do you want from her? What do you want from this? Lead with that.
 
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Ran into one like this, joint I’m messing with currently.

“Haven’t been in a relationship for 3 years” did some snooping. Turns out she was talking to someone & ended it the day she met me.

Best believe somebody is always fukking.

The relationship label is for men they’re “highly attracted to”
yep they love to holler that theyre single....that doesnt mean she not smashing....
 
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$100 and Skully up for Simp of the Year

White car up for a gold medal at the begging ass games

No wonder broads run laps around dudes with ease...mothefukkers begging, double texting, sending bread...all to end up with a utility nickname

It's fukked up and hilarious at the same time
most men have no self respect....and will do anything in the hope of smashing....and women know this

stop caring and having expectations is all you have to do
 

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no sense of delayed gratification for a lot of women.

its some who want a dude to come out the gates swinging - giving them 100%. meanwhile they cant even show up to a date on time or return a text promptly lol.

fam, i was just about to tell you a story and then i remembered you and this chick used to work at the same place together. Remember Sybil? Tell me how one day I was at Chotto Matte with some former colleagues of mine. Chick came in the restaurant and sat down at the table beside me. Guess who it was beside? An 80 year old looking ass white sugar daddy. Same girl was flaking on me/playing me to the side a year prior.

These women have no shame. Would rather get with a sugar daddy, then spend a few years building with a nikka. Fast forward 4 years later and I make 100s of thousands a year and could low key afford the lifestyle these women are selling their souls to sugar daddies for. its a weird game out here

Alot of chicks in toronto are on seeking.com
 
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