Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Braman

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Exactly, you know what it is. Its such a great way to set a baseline early and get real info to compare later in person. ( I swear women will rather tell a stranger their deepest secrets and thoughts before someone they know)
A gem. You will get some of the most pertinent info on a woman in the beginning. Bc feelings (and/or pipe game) aren’t involved yet and the fear of judgement isn’t there
 

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Brehs have any of your female friends confessed their feelings for you? How did you feel about it?

It happened to me recently but I don't know how to feel about it. I'm attracted to her but our relationship dynamic has pretty much changed overnight now. I'm kinda blindsided by the confession tbh.
 

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Brehs have any of your female friends confessed their feelings for you? How did you feel about it?

It happened to me recently but I don't know how to feel about it. I'm attracted to her but our relationship dynamic has pretty much changed overnight now. I'm kinda blindsided by the confession tbh.
If you want something serious long term in general id say to go for it

A true friendship is about the best foundation you can have

And if it dont work out, what you really have to lose
 

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Brehs have any of your female friends confessed their feelings for you? How did you feel about it?

It happened to me recently but I don't know how to feel about it. I'm attracted to her but our relationship dynamic has pretty much changed overnight now. I'm kinda blindsided by the confession tbh.
Yeah, a girl I was cool with for a few years randomly turned one of our convos super lusty out of nowhere.

I remember I said something like “I didn’t know you felt like that, you seem shy” and she said “just because I’m shy doesn’t mean I never thought about your dikk in my mouth.” I still have the texts saved cause of how random it was. I wasn’t feeling her in that way and we stopped talking after that. She got pregnant by another guy a year later

If you don’t reciprocate her feelings in a direct way, she’s going to feel rejected. So you might as well fall back from her to avoid the tension that will come when the rejection sets in
 

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A true friendship is about the best foundation you can have
Yeah that's what im thinking. But I value our friendship so I'm worried about that getting ruined.

Maybe I'm terrible at reading women but this came out of nowhere. She use to call me her big bro.

I even gave her relationship advice and shyt

EDIT: I used to jokingly flirt with her but I don't think she ever took it to heart .
 
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Get ahead of expectations. Have a lot of girl friends and I like the sexual tension, I am always willing to take things wherever.

Not going to solve every issue, but talk about mutual desires, what's acceptable, what's not, in terms of everything, there's a Seinfeld scene like that. But, like spending the night, texting, seeing each other, you have to get ahead of it, set mutual boundaries.

Mostly it's going to be sex that unravels people. What most people will do is just sleep together, and then revert instantly back to their old ways, which won't work, you have to try and manage that.

Have this theory that people who are attractive and attractive to each other, are always always weighing the possibility. Because of societal norms about friends, relationships and lovers and all that, people deceive themselves, "oh I would NEVER", but there's a reason that any woman I am friends with, I also think is attractive, it usually goes both ways.
 

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When you get the # and things are going smooth texting then she says ‘call me’

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How do y’all do it brehs?!? I fukking HATE talking on the phone. And chicks get so hooked with that shyt. Be on the phone fukin chit chattin dry af suck the life out your day /rant

It's all a game. I will bust these out if I need to talk to chick on facetime for an hour because she needs attention. This intermediate/advanced game. You will talk yourself out of p*ssy if you don't know what you doing with these cards.


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When you get the # and things are going smooth texting then she says ‘call me’

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How do y’all do it brehs?!? I fukking HATE talking on the phone. And chicks get so hooked with that shyt. Be on the phone fukin chit chattin dry af suck the life out your day /rant
Just tell her you don’t want too

Simple
 

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Would love to just call and have people call me, so much easier. I'm good on the phone, (and text) but just calling to me, is much more my style, straight to the point and efficient, active communication in real time, as opposed to passive, you can scale up scale down, a 45 minute convo or a 2 min check in, or logistic coordination.

Whereas with text, it's this ambiguous, ever changing, endless volley of emojis, memes, questions, with undefined interpersonal relationships, I would say it's the least efficient, but people like it's distance and premediated nature.

right now, this instant, I want to hit my homie and see if she wants to get tacos, I feel like calling her, because if I text she may hit me back 15 minutes from now, and I could already be at the spot.
 

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Brehs have any of your female friends confessed their feelings for you? How did you feel about it?

It happened to me recently but I don't know how to feel about it. I'm attracted to her but our relationship dynamic has pretty much changed overnight now. I'm kinda blindsided by the confession tbh.
Every girl is different but I don't really see the point. Everytime its happened for me they end up changing dramatically from what they started as and the whole dynamic has changed. Usually these type of girls are not offering much romantically and so they think confessing won't change much except now we're fukking which changes alot. Then if the sex isn't all that great you start to understand why they led with friendship in the first place.
 

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It's all a game. I will bust these out if I need to talk to chick on facetime for an hour because she needs attention. This intermediate/advanced game. You will talk yourself out of p*ssy if you don't know what you doing with these cards.


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I got these also, i think the sexual deck tho.. Ace got some of my money :snoop:
 
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