Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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COTDAM ya boys COOKING in here last couple days.. I tried to pop in earlier but got case of mondays and still in recovery mode from weekend.. shyt soo bad I was telling someone cinco de mayo kicked my ass since Thurs but it fell on fri, shyt was all a blur..

Alot of good convo to hop in on, I dont know where to start.. Soo much fukkery :pachaha:
 

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COTDAM ya boys COOKING in here last couple days.. I tried to pop in earlier but got case of mondays and still in recovery mode from weekend.. shyt soo bad I was telling someone cinco de mayo kicked my ass since Thurs but it fell on fri, shyt was all a blur..

Alot of good convo to hop in on, I dont know where to start.. Soo much fukkery :pachaha:

Haha, you doing it right!
 

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Last week she was talking about having kids with me and how much she likes me.:ehh:

This week she is ignoring my calls and giving me one word answers and flaking on me:ehh:

I would be upset but I know how the game go :ehh:

Man ignore anything a woman says that is about anything more than 4 hours from the present.
 

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COTDAM ya boys COOKING in here last couple days.. I tried to pop in earlier but got case of mondays and still in recovery mode from weekend.. shyt soo bad I was telling someone cinco de mayo kicked my ass since Thurs but it fell on fri, shyt was all a blur..

Alot of good convo to hop in on, I dont know where to start.. Soo much fukkery :pachaha:

Some dudes won last weekend. Others lost. Everyone need to get back in the lab before MDW lol :pachaha:
 

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I can't even call it. I think a lot of dudes I know in good marriages (or at least stable ones with kids, growing and what not) - they got married EARLY, (like college/right after college), wasn't in these streets heavy, the girls wasn't really in the streets heavy, and they just grew together as a couple.

I got theories, but it don't really help folks not in that situation.
Like anything in life I think there are many "paths to victory" (Spread offense vs. ground and pound).. But one that has been a constant for decent shot at it is they were "marriage minded" early.. Now the degenerates I be around alot of them put up numbers early and/or have gotten caught some multiple times with other chicks.. Maybe its the demographics (alot of island boys) but its kinda shrugged off and they get a probation period and keep it moving.. I guess also they locked one in early and basically had to be dragged down the alter kicking and screaming.. and these savages get their "guy trip" card yearly, lol..

Also the thing I think you look for in a women that their girl has, seems to be non existent nowadays, that generation of being married being a priority and family seems to have dwindled at a rapid rate. I have seen the transition upfront and personal and I tell these dudes it aint the same from even 10 years ago, dont even get fomo.. you got a good one, who gave you 2/3/5 kiddies.. just focus..

So I would say get you had to see the vision young, sell it to someone who wanted you and go from there. But one of my associates recently popped up and he was probably locked in with his girl longest in circle we in.. I actually known his girl longer than him and I would say he got a good one, extremely low body count, yada yada, he was taking care of her, she popped out the kids, she did the mommy thing, then I guess she got bored, he put her thru nursing school, next thing you know she doing good, covid happpens, now she clearing 200k+, things kinda broke their way with market, bought house for 300k, market goes crazy now worth a milli, they get a couple airbnb, now I hear she broke bad and she tryna take EVERYTHING. :francis: Dude is to point he is happy just to keep his pension she can have everything else, back at his OG while still paying house.. I heard she turned savage and I have partied with nurses so I kinda know how it goes.. 15 years down, I tell dudes as long as you had kids, you had a good run.. Its tough though because he actually never did dirt, was putting in work while working on the "we plan" evidently she had her "Me plan" Soo Im like the designated guy in the friend group who is go to guy to hang out but sheesh.. I will say for a guy been out the game 15+ year he doin work on apps and I am happy because I know he hurtin.. Hate seein dudes get torn out the frame..
 
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Women are a roller coaster ride man, now she is okay with not moving after wanting to end our relationship because of it. Also this provider non sense she is trying to push onto, I am not going for, this is team work. After our call with our therapist she says, our relationship do not have to look like that. Why do someone women think men are going to sign up for misery just to keep them happy? She makes great money herself and who knows, she can potentially surpass me one day and become vp of finance or some shyt. I view relationship as team work from finances, to cooking etc. I just don't give a fuk about the traditional non sense, dream house...etc. You want it, you will contribute to it.
This is what I was alluding to in prior post, YOU thinking team work, she thinking "this nikka got me workin!" She letting you know her mindset ahead of time and you cant change it, she could end up resenting you cuz she think you got her slaving in these streets while you thinking of the "we" plan. My guy invest in his girl, she making good money now she like why I need you, when Im around doctors who can retire me and she got the looks and personality to pull it off.. In this game you got to look at it from all perspectives because no one got your back but you and the wya the game is rigged you can play perfect and still come out takin the L.

She may be okay with it now because she recalibrated her plan to cash out down the line, I am just a guy reading between what you posted and can be in completely wrong zip code but when you say she tryna push provider nonsense and not on same page, thats what I kinda see..
 

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This is what I was alluding to in prior post, YOU thinking team work, she thinking "this nikka got me workin!" She letting you know her mindset ahead of time and you cant change it, she could end up resenting you cuz she think you got her slaving in these streets while you thinking of the "we" plan. My guy invest in his girl, she making good money now she like why I need you, when Im around doctors who can retire me and she got the looks and personality to pull it off.. In this game you got to look at it from all perspectives because no one got your back but you and the wya the game is rigged you can play perfect and still come out takin the L.

She may be okay with it now because she recalibrated her plan to cash out down the line, I am just a guy reading between what you posted and can be in completely wrong zip code but when you say she tryna push provider nonsense and not on same page, thats what I kinda see..

I say in the “community” threads men the only idiots talking about we and us lmfao. Only time you see a woman championing men building is cause she dont wanna work lmfao
 

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I say in the “community” threads men the only idiots talking about we and us lmfao. Only time you see a woman championing men building is cause she dont wanna work lmfao
Dudes be believing in what steve harvey be tellin em or something.. They play on that programming to invest/provide, but they dont tell you the whole picture..
 

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Had a good weekend one before too

strip club strippers, bottle service girls

trying to have my fun and not suffer the consequences, ex. had one stripper outside my house, she left with me at 3:00 AM, and I was legit trying to drop her off in the Lyft, but she's drunk/high and we end up outside my building, she was bad, but I could just see the next 2 hours of chaos, (her on the phone, trying to do more coke, trying to drink more, and before you know it, the sun is coming up) and I sent her on her way. Felt like it was the smart call. Said you can come stay the night, but this is not that night lol

She looked pretty dejected, but I am sure found her way back to the party
 

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Had a good weekend one before too

strip club strippers, bottle service girls

trying to have my fun and not suffer the consequences, ex. had one stripper outside my house, she left with me at 3:00 AM, and I was legit trying to drop her off in the Lyft, but she's drunk/high and we end up outside my building, she was bad, but I could just see the next 2 hours of chaos, (her on the phone, trying to do more coke, trying to drink more, and before you know it, the sun is coming up) and I sent her on her way. Felt like it was the smart call. Said you can come stay the night, but this is not that night lol

She looked pretty dejected, but I am sure found her way back to the party

My rule is if I ask a woman a question and she can't put together complete sentences I'm not sleeping with her. That's blacked out levels, I'm not catching a charge because you can't remember last night.
 
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