Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes

what are you into? what do you do? any hobbies?

ive always been of the mind that you find women doing what you normally do

 

[bigde09]

I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes

Women can ALWAYS sense when a man is unsure of himself and it’s their number 1 turnoff. Your confidence levels are low and they know it. improving your self esteem should be your number one priority. Basically just focus on yourself and women will come.

 

[MikelArteta]

exactly....no matter WHAT they say the majority of women will not be cool with casual sex for long....they gonna want commitment

what are we

 

[MikelArteta]

Women are women.

If I’m going deal with bs. It might as well be from an attractive woman.

Less attractive have been way more problematic in my book, as well as had higher expectations

 

[MikelArteta]

I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes

Just be yourself. Stop trying to do stuff other people do that may work. Sometimes its like when you lose keys you look everywhere for it and can't find it then when you stop looking out of nowhere it was there all along. Same with women when you constantly looking and searching trying everything just constant failure. When you don't care and you're just yourself stuff happens.

Not every chick will feel you it's just life. What women may consider corny the other may consider cute. I'm literally the same with all chicks and I've gotten the "I'm just getting a friend vibe from you" from one chick and acting the same way around another chick and she on me like white on rice.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Happy Friday is crazy lmaooo

Soundin’ like a co-worker at a corporate job

 

[Serious]

exactly....no matter WHAT they say the majority of women will not be cool with casual sex for long....they gonna want commitment

Even when they say they are.

Women try to fukk their way into a relationship thinking they can change your mind.

That’s another reason why I only just fukk with attractive women I could see myself with lowkey.

It’s a standard more men should have, but i get it, dude be fielding for a nut, so they’ll take a low hanging fruit.

To me it’s not worth it because ugly and crazy chicks can / will blow up your spot. Or randomly get pregnant. Seen it happen too many times. As well as had ugly chicks think shyt was deeper than what it was to the point where they’re stalking.


If I miss out on consistent cooch, cool but the peace of mind of my dealings are everything.

 

[Serious]

One thing I've noticed recently talking to a bunch of broads is many of them have never even had a relationship before or just had one many years ago. And these are chicks in their late twenties, early thirties.

It’s definitely a thing.

A lot of young people aren’t dating or even hooking up like that.

The ones that are doing it, you can tell, but there’s still a decent portion of young / younger people with no dating experience.

I mean look at the coli.

It’s a lot of dudes that don’t get laid at all.

 

[360dagod]

Cinco de mayo "feeler" texts/calls already starting

Didn't even know they had Mexican in them

 

[The ADD]

Cinco de mayo "feeler" texts/calls already starting

Didn't even know they had Mexican in them

Legend

 

[Noriega]

Blew a phat load in my girl last week and she a few days late

 

[The ADD]

Blew a phat load in my girl last week and she a few days late

 

[Paradoxical Tiger]

Coli vets I need a second pair of eyes on this one

Shorty DM'd me first and was being apprehensive about me getting to know her. Thing is, this is not the first time I've experienced this exact same scenario

A girl will initiate contact with me and still act like I'm asking for her Social Security Number when I was just want to get to know her, even IRL

Spoiler: DM 1

Spoiler: DM 2

Spoiler: DM 3

Spoiler: DM 4

Spoiler: DM 5

Spoiler: DM 6

Spoiler: DM 7

I don't think other handsome gang dudes got this kinda of problem so it must be something I'm doing

 

[360dagod]

Coli vets I need a second pair of eyes on this one

Shorty DM'd me first and was being apprehensive about me getting to know her. Thing is, this is not the first time I've experienced this exact same scenario

A girl will initiate contact with me and still act like I'm asking for her Social Security Number when I was just want to get to know her, even IRL

Spoiler: DM 1

Spoiler: DM 2

Spoiler: DM 3

Spoiler: DM 4

Spoiler: DM 5

Spoiler: DM 6

Spoiler: DM 7

I don't think other handsome gang dudes got this kinda of problem so it must be something I'm doing

Are there no men over there......And you followed it up with reassuring when she told you it was..


And the fav artists thing....You kept forcing the issue...

Sounds like she far away, so no biggie..

But your text game might need to be crisper going forward...

 

[WIA20XX]

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Compared to your boy who's bringing the party, it's easy to see why you're failing.

If you can't engage these broads on an emotional level, all you can do is "be yourself" and hope some broad understands your story (c) Nas.
Cats who do that end up with the mediocre chicks they work with, or are in their classes. Not the hot ones they work with/school with, the mediocre ones that get a long time of exposure. And by get, I mean girlfriend, not straight up sex, but all the baggage that comes with being a boyfriend to a 6.

Newsflash - You're already "being yourself" - and you're not getting the results you want.

YOU HAVE TO CHANGE.

You have to change who you are as a person.

I know cats don't want to hear it.
I know cats just want to keep saying the same BS that society tells em.

But you HAVE TO BECOME A DIFFERENT AND MORE INTERESTING PERSON.

Cats always want tweaks, tips, tricks, hacks - naw B, you gotta do the deep work necessary to get with these broads reliably.

I don't mean putting on an act, I don't mean pretending - I mean CHANGING.

Reliably starting good conversations is not some God Given Gift. It's a skill set, one that you have to learn. It's not a skill set most people have, but a lot of people do.

I'll give you one insight - chances are that you are an interesting and engaging person - you just don't know when and how to convey that, or how to do deal with people's reactions when you start being real. It's why you stick with BS like "How's it going, and Cute shoes". That safety first steez is not good. If you see guys doing that boring stuff - they have something else going on that engages chicks. Tall, Handsome, Dancer, Great Voice, Status, "Vibe" (which is his nonverbal body language and its effects on those around him), etc.

If boring conversation worked, everyone would be swimming in hoes.

Without more data, analyzing your general approach

• Nothing is wrong with your first couple of words
• What is wrong is YOUR EXPECTATION THAT SHE'S GONNA BE FEELING YOU FROM JUMP, that she's gonna want to chat from jump.

That's like dude at the sales lot saying, "Hey you like Camry's?"

FOH

A few chicks might be polite, might be cordial, some might humor you a bit by responding a little - but what you're saying and how you're acting isn't ENGAGING. And that's why you're failing.

You're not emotionally engaging - because you are stuck in particular mindset, which results in boring behaviors and habits.