Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes:dahell:

Maybe it's your "nerves"...

Take a deep breath and walk SLOWLY around the whole club just vibin....

Don't ask me why...

But my body gets in fight or flight mode..

The adrenaline is "up"...

So yeah your body might be in fight or flight mode and it comes off in your delivery and tone
 
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I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes:dahell:
what are you into? what do you do? any hobbies?

ive always been of the mind that you find women doing what you normally do
 

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I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes:dahell:
Women can ALWAYS sense when a man is unsure of himself and it’s their number 1 turnoff. Your confidence levels are low and they know it. improving your self esteem should be your number one priority. Basically just focus on yourself and women will come.
 

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I’m like 0/100 lately.

I turn women off like a faucet. Makes zero sense tho, I stay clean, fresh breath, smelling good, dressed well, haircut, ect.

But as soon as I start talking women are like “nah”. Some get real disrespectful and standoffish too. Idk how tf that keeps happening cause I don’t have a disrespectful or confrontational energy. I usually approach at bars/clubs maybe outside the place too.

Think the problem is that I give off a corny vibe, I have kind of a monotone voice. Ngl, I say basic shyt like “yo how’s your night going”/ “you’re cute, I like your outfit”/ “yo I’m X what’s up” / “happy friday” shyt like that.

Like I’m a MASTER at turning women off, like if there was negative game I am an expert at that shyt.

I been going out for the past few months. Absolutely zero results.

I know a dude who pulls literally every time we go out. He pulls threesomes too and shyt. His entire game is going around and dancing with girls. That’s literally all he does. Other than that he doesn’t do anything special. Idk what it is about dude but women love him. I personally think he’s kind of annoying but hey I can’t hate the player.

I tried that shyt and women are like “nah” too. Like they don’t even wanna dance. And then a few mins later I see em dancing with random dudes:dahell:

Just be yourself. Stop trying to do stuff other people do that may work. Sometimes its like when you lose keys you look everywhere for it and can't find it then when you stop looking out of nowhere it was there all along. Same with women when you constantly looking and searching trying everything just constant failure. When you don't care and you're just yourself stuff happens.

Not every chick will feel you it's just life. What women may consider corny the other may consider cute. I'm literally the same with all chicks and I've gotten the "I'm just getting a friend vibe from you" from one chick and acting the same way around another chick and she on me like white on rice.
 

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exactly....no matter WHAT they say the majority of women will not be cool with casual sex for long....they gonna want commitment
Even when they say they are.

Women try to fukk their way into a relationship thinking they can change your mind.

That’s another reason why I only just fukk with attractive women I could see myself with lowkey.

It’s a standard more men should have, but i get it, dude be fielding for a nut, so they’ll take a low hanging fruit.

To me it’s not worth it because ugly and crazy chicks can / will blow up your spot. Or randomly get pregnant. Seen it happen too many times. As well as had ugly chicks think shyt was deeper than what it was to the point where they’re stalking.


If I miss out on consistent cooch, cool but the peace of mind of my dealings are everything.
 

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One thing I've noticed recently talking to a bunch of broads is many of them have never even had a relationship before :dahell: or just had one many years ago. And these are chicks in their late twenties, early thirties.
It’s definitely a thing.

A lot of young people aren’t dating or even hooking up like that.

The ones that are doing it, you can tell, but there’s still a decent portion of young / younger people with no dating experience.

I mean look at the coli.

It’s a lot of dudes that don’t get laid at all.
 

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Coli vets I need a second pair of eyes on this one

Shorty DM'd me first and was being apprehensive about me getting to know her. Thing is, this is not the first time I've experienced this exact same scenario

A girl will initiate contact with me and still act like I'm asking for her Social Security Number when I was just want to get to know her, even IRL

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I don't think other handsome gang dudes got this kinda of problem so it must be something I'm doing
 

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Coli vets I need a second pair of eyes on this one

Shorty DM'd me first and was being apprehensive about me getting to know her. Thing is, this is not the first time I've experienced this exact same scenario

A girl will initiate contact with me and still act like I'm asking for her Social Security Number when I was just want to get to know her, even IRL

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I don't think other handsome gang dudes got this kinda of problem so it must be something I'm doing

Are there no men over there....:patrice:..And you followed it up with reassuring when she told you it was..


And the fav artists thing....You kept forcing the issue...

Sounds like she far away, so no biggie..

But your text game might need to be crisper going forward...
 
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