Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

@WIA20XX sir any thoughts surrounding why roster pieces slowly fade away? Lack of effort?

(Ex. Not receiving resources, still loves ex / sex with ex, mentally not on the same page)

 

[Apollo Creed]

The bolded is interesting because at first glance you're asking for the impossible. We were created this way. Thirst is a real thing because we're hardwired to spread our seed everywhere until the end of time.

We can't stop it, but we can try to manage it. I remember reading Iceberg Slim back in the day and the part where he bags Chris, he was thirsty for her but in his mind he had to make it a power play: "you gotta back up from them fabulous pussies...pretend you don't have a dikk" Basically flipping the script on her.

The vast majority of men have never ever turned down p*ssy. Because of thirst. I've done it a couple of times and that shyt is liberating. It's like unlocking a cheat code. Once you realize p*ssy is not the holy grail end all be all and if you don't get it you're not going to die or be less of a man it brings women down from the pedestal and gives you even more confidence...which is what women crave in a man therefore they want you even more.

turning down p*ssy isn't tied to thirst. Thirst is the over anxious seeking of something lol.

"Thirst" is minimize when men focus on self and productivity, the avg man IS NOT productive hence the time for an idle mind which results in carnal thoughts which yields thirst.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This could easily be twisted into a meme or one of those divisive questions, but it's a mildly amusing story

Was just in my area, and a car pulls up, window down, and this BAD girl I know is waving at me, she is really sweet and cool, and looks exactly like a South Florida instagram model, she had like 50k followers at some point.

Loved that she full on hopped out of the car, and ran up and hugged me, like three times, in front of her boyfriend, who she introduced, but he just stayed in the car. We caught up for like 5 minutes, I put her onto some spots back when, and we just talked, but eventually, even I was thinking you can't leave this dude sitting there, so I was like lets catch up soon.

Anyway, I hope they have a solid ass relationship and are doing well, would like to think my ego would be ok with something similar, On one hand, love that she was so open and not acting weird, but also, I can see why people would just rather wave lol

She don't got respect for that nikka or dude is a hoe lmfao

A wave plus "hey mike hope all is well" is all that is needed,.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

@WIA20XX sir any thoughts surrounding why roster pieces slowly fade away? Lack of effort?

(Ex. Not receiving resources, still loves ex / sex with ex, mentally not on the same page)

its simple....

no matter what you do YOU will NEVER be able to give multiple women the attention they desire....its impossible...theres only one you and eventually you will fall off....

only way you can pull it off long term is if you have NOTHING else going on in life but juggling women....




and who wants to live like that?

job...hobbies...building a business....gym...you should be too busy for a roster....

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Nothing in particular, just a random thought I had when thinking about the whole dating discourse out here and how women are complaining about the lack of good dudes.

And how all women just assume that they're good women off rip. It's crazy how they assume you'll want them however they are

too true...ive never met one that didnt think she was a great woman....i blame us for that actually....

they think they're good women because they dont cheat....they thing thats all thats req'd to be a good woman....

just disregard the disrespect...they're boring...can't fuq worth a damn...gossip all the time....way too invested into social media....did i mention boring?

but hey they dont cheat....so in their mind thats all it takes

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

They have all of these suitors, but they aren't getting the results that they want.

Women are constantly and consistently complaining about their dating options.

The main problem (from both sides) is that she's optimized herself for looks and only looks, when it comes to men. Some of them have a sexual skill set, but that in and of itself is a trap.

She may have leveled up in other areas - education, finances, hobbies? (usually none) etc - but those aren't the things men care about. It's not like she's spending the money on dudes, and most good dudes would not be happy to have her spend lavishly on him. (there are pimps and hobosexuals that want to drain pockets of course, much love to y'all)

So that's part of the puzzle. She's over-optimized on looks, and spending the rest of her resources on things that don't matter to men.
Non-looks factor ain't cooking, cleaning, nursing, caring for kids. That's assumed in the package.

That leads to the current situation.

For all you dudes that have pumped and dumped - you wouldn't be so quick to dump if she had something going for her other than her looks and sex skills (or lack thereof). Very few times in my life I've said, "I really do enjoy talking to this chick, picking her brain".

How many of these chicks do you want to talk to BEFORE you sleep with em? What about after?

And that's what's missing. At best a lot of these chicks are empty vessels.

A lot of cats, imo, wrongly assume a chick can't be interesting and engaging when it comes to her company and conversation.
And looking back on my dating history, that's not a wrong assumption to make. The chick you want to talk to, that offers something other than sex, - far and few inbetween.

Meanwhile, my exes periodically want to call me up to chat and catch up and get my thoughts on things.

breh...me and you have lived mirrored lives...

this is exactly my thinking when it comes to women....theres no substance...its all about looks....

as a man...once you get a handle on your sex drive....you really begin to SEE women for who and what they are....and its not pretty.

 

[Apollo Creed]

breh...me and you have lived mirrored lives...

this is exactly my thinking when it comes to women....theres no substance...its all about looks....

as a man...once you get a handle on your sex drive....you really begin to SEE women for who and what they are....and its not pretty.

you can either love women or understand theml lol.

If you choose the path of understanding you realize how stupid we are as men for overcomplicating things.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Is he really though?

yes....he is

a lot of men dont fit this category....ask just about any single woman and see what she says....

and the men that fit this category...know that they do....and have almost NO incentive to settle down

 

[RaspberryFitted]

yes....he is

a lot of men dont fit this category....ask just about any single woman and see what she says....

and the men that fit this category...know that they do....and have almost NO incentive to settle down

none of the requirements he listed were anything extreme

 

[skyrunner1]

Feels like summer is already here brehs, cotdam.. Im still like 6-8 weeks away from ideal body goals These last couple weeks been madness but this weekend is shaping up to be a movie, starting with cinco de mayo, got a domestic bachelor party, heat playoffs, Grand Prix, and that dont even include the brunch or club runs..

Lets see if we still got it in us to do a solid Thurs-Sun run..

 

[MikelArteta]

as a man...once you get a handle on your sex drive....you really begin to SEE women for who and what they are....and its not pretty.

I forgot who said it but the quote was something like if you knew you couldn't sleep with her could you still tolerate being around her?

 

[Ahadi]

Feels like summer is already here brehs, cotdam.. Im still like 6-8 weeks away from ideal body goals These last couple weeks been madness but this weekend is shaping up to be a movie, starting with cinco de mayo, got a domestic bachelor party, heat playoffs, Grand Prix, and that dont even include the brunch or club runs..

Lets see if we still got it in us to do a solid Thurs-Sun run..

Might as well prep for next summer lol

But cinco should be crazy.

any tequila recs?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Feels like summer is already here brehs, cotdam.. Im still like 6-8 weeks away from ideal body goals These last couple weeks been madness but this weekend is shaping up to be a movie, starting with cinco de mayo, got a domestic bachelor party, heat playoffs, Grand Prix, and that dont even include the brunch or club runs..

Lets see if we still got it in us to do a solid Thurs-Sun run..

Intermittent fasting during the day so you can relax at night lol

Legit Fast and do an AM workout and then 2-3 scoops of protein around 12-3

 

[re'up]

She don't got respect for that nikka or dude is a hoe lmfao

A wave plus "hey mike hope all is well" is all that is needed,.

On one side, it shouldn't be a big deal. She should be able to catch up and say whats up to me, just the way it went down, she full on got out of the car, Ran up on me lol---she hit me a few hours later and wants to get together soon. That's what I like to see actually, is people being real, and not like awkwardly waving, but I get it.

The guy is for sure a nerd, but that's my assessment, which means he's a normal guy.

 

[Apollo Creed]

On one side, it shouldn't be a big deal. She should be able to catch up and say whats up to me, just the way it went down, she full on got out of the car, Ran up on me lol---she hit me a few hours later and wants to get together soon. That's what I like to see actually, is people being real, and not like awkwardly waving, but I get it.

The guy is for sure a nerd, but that's my assessment, which means he's a normal guy.

If your girl did that in front of you, youd be ok?