Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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It's not like she was tryna talk to me. It was more like "how is he single?". But like I said, she's been going through this shyt for a while. If she is talking to other guys I don't blame her

If I could go back 5 years ago I would've started talking to other girls after the shady shyt my ex did instead of waiting months holding out hope. I really would've blocked her. Can't gaslight yourself into staying with someone who doesn't want you. She's legit invested into this nikka. She showed me his picture and tried to say he was ugly. But ended up saying the opposite. Just in her feelings about the shyt
Bro I ain’t denying that homie may be on some fukk shyt. He might be

But it doesnt mean she isnt doing anything wrong and its not fair for you to assume the reason shes acting up is because of shyt he did. Thats coddling 101. come on fam

And to be honest, kudos to her man. Nothing wrong with a man keeping around some backups/satellites because women are liable to leave us at the drop of a dime with nothing. And when they do, best believe they got multiple dudes they can call on for some dikk, attention, etc.
 

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Bro I ain’t denying that homie may be on some fukk shyt. He might be

But it doesnt mean she isnt doing anything wrong and its not fair for you to assume the reason shes acting up is because of shyt he did. Thats coddling 101. come on fam

And to be honest, kudos to her man. Nothing wrong with a man keeping around some backups/satellites because women are liable to leave us at the drop of a dime with nothing. And when they do, best believe they got multiple dudes they can call on for some dikk, attention, etc.
It's not right for anyone to have a backup man or woman. None of that shyt is ethical. I just need an answer man. Was my advice harsh or not? shyt I asked the OG and my other homeboy at work for advice about these bytches at work. And I'm not doing any foul play. I'm going off of energy. And after that last girl played those games last month I've been giving these bytches fist bumps
 

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It's not right for anyone to have a backup man or woman. None of that shyt is ethical. I just need an answer man. Was my advice harsh or not? shyt I asked the OG and my other homeboy at work for advice about these bytches at work. And I'm not doing any foul play. I'm going off of energy. And after that last girl played those games last month I've been giving these bytches fist bumps
Was your advice harsh. Not at all to be honest

But i feel like low key you want her for yourself and may be dirty macking. Like the big homie ADD said it dont really matter
 

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Sounds like she’s got you fooled.

Harsh, no but she knows the deal. If she’s that violated and needs an acquaintance to advise her she’s not to bright.
Aight that's all I needed to hear. I didn't want to hurt her feelings. She's a woman and I'm a man and we work together. That type of advice would probably be received differently if it was another woman

I don't care if she's in the wrong or not. I just care man that's it. Had a patient tell me he was angry at God. Had a 15 minute conversation with him about it. After we talked he did what I said. An hour later he said he was alot better and thank me. That's what I do it for. I don't judge where I work. I'm at a mental hospital. I can't suppress my empathy because I have preconceived notions
 

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Was your advice harsh. Not at all to be honest

But i feel like low key you want her for yourself and may be dirty macking. Like the big homie ADD said it dont really matter
I don't want any of these women fr. It feels good to know that I get attention from women. But she's one of many who do at work. And she's not even the baddest one. I call the 3rd most beautiful one my little sis because thats what she is to me

There's p*ssy outside of my job. I can't lose this opportunity for that. Not even gonna lie to yall if I get famous in 10 years after the shyt I'm about to do in my field imma let it be known on here in some way

Not sure how yet because nikkas might expose my old posts
:patrice:
 

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The question you asked doesn’t even matter.
It doesn't matter to you. You can't talk to women like you talk to men about relationship drama. It has to be said in a delicate way. Especially at work. That's the only reason I asked that's it. Yall overanalyzing shyt that doesn't matter
 

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Imma leave yall with a quote I just thought of and made myself

"Assumption is the enemy of understanding"

I gotta wake up in 6 hours to go back in so I'm going to sleep
:hubie:
 

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Everyone else pointed out the herd of elephants in the room. We're not "red pill", we're experienced.

As to your question

What he's doing is making her feel insecure. Whether he's doing wrong or right, doesn't affect her insecurity.

And now that her faith is shaken, the best part of the relationship is done. It would be best if they broke up. She should date gumps and not live men.

We both know that guys that worship women do so well with them.
 

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I would be trying to get with her probably, if she's bad, sounds like both of you are heading that direction whether you know it or not.

But, to speak to the question, everyone is going to have different belief systems here, I don't blame anyone for keeping options around, I think it's reasonable, all in the game to me. I don't want or need to know who she still talks to, to me, it's healthy for people to have those outlets, both ways. Many will disagree.

i think there are parts of the traditional relationship structure that make it impossible to be human, and hold people to these insanely high standard of behavior, and analysis, and importance that could never live up to expectations. Anytime someone told me about an exchange they had with a former lover or partner, I was kind of the mind that you don't even need to tell me, do your thing. But men, think that kind of stuff shows loyalty or respect, or something like that, and it probably does, it's just not that important to me.
 

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What does it mean if a girl rejects you but still be looking at a nikka? Church broad
Attention. Trying to see if you still going to pursue her or just move on to the next woman.

Follow her actions, her energy, not her words. At the same time, keep it moving and see if she comes back to you.

Why did she reject you? She may just be testing you to see if you really want to get with her or just looking to fukk :yeshrug: .
 

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Attention. Trying to see if you still going to pursue her or just move on to the next woman.

Follow her actions, her energy, not her words. At the same time, keep it moving and see if she comes back to you.

Why did she reject you? She may just be testing you to see if you really want to get with her or just looking to fukk :yeshrug: .
She was the one giving me heavy choosing signals and she seemed bout it as far as being an actual Christian woman. I took my time, didn’t want to rush it.

One day before the second service. She was in the foyer/common hall. Weren’t that many people cause service was beginning. I kept it G and asked her if she not busy later today I’d love to take her out and get to know her more.

She took a pause and then said I think we should stay friends. I said no hard feelings, have a good day. Took my ass to service. I’m not waiting for any woman to have a change of heart.
 

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What does it mean if a girl rejects you but still be looking at a nikka? Church broad

Usually regret, sometimes embarrassment, sometimes she's getting the hands laid on her by someone at church already, but they gotta keep it on the hush.

And sometimes church girls been ran through, often by someone at church, so she's "testing" you.

Suffer no fools.

It means bring a younger hot girl to church next Sunday. And a few different ones in the next couple of months. Extra points if you bring a Becky and sit a few pews in front of her.
 
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