Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Ah that was in the past man, next time though I'll try.
Yeah tbh, we all take them losses I swear. fukked up thing is when you meet them they angels then they turn all retarded n you wanna go upside that bytches head after a few weeks.
Lol thank you for the advice on this one, but this woman was in the store (I was a sales associate working for Adidas) shopping with her husband and younger son I think. Lol they were elsewhere and her and I were talking. I dunno if I had that much of a chance with her with her husband being there and all.
not saying that you should have if she's married + has a son. but if she waited for her husband to be gone to say that she'd hook you up with her daughter, you DEFINITELY had an opening.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Can you explain this thing with older women though? What is it that makes them carelessly approach me? Do they see me in a more mature manner than guys my age, or do they get off on talking to younger guys? I can't figure them out. I get a wanted feeling from them, but sometimes I get a motherly feeling from them and even if they're clearly coming onto me I'm too scared to ask for the digits. Is this normal? And if so how do I get over it? It seems like most guys my age don't get hit on by older white women like me
Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 6 (By KevM3) - http://tinyurl.com/ar47o3g
could be a lot of things, could be she's attracted to you physically, could be the "taboo" forbidden fruit effect of it, could be the ego boost for her, could be that she's unhappy in her marriage or bored, needs attention etc, etc. be careful that she's not just trying to play you for attention. best way to protect yourself against that is to not act out of character. You'll never know what she's thinking or if she's playing a game but if you remain yourself, she could never play you because you're not even playing her game or even worried about her game. your attention is yours to give freely just like her puss is hers. your time, kindness and attention is like "your p*ssy" as a man. if you give it up easy she'll then try to smut you like a cheap slut and she'll even brag to her homegirls about your simping like we would brag about fukking young dizzy hoes. keep your focus on what you want and desire, be real about it, be respectful and if she wants the same thing you'll get cooperation.
also more often then not they don't even realize that they're doing it, let alone "why?". that woman that approached you about her daughter, it's very possible that in her mind she sincerely wants to hook you up with her daughter. doesn't have to be that she planned to use that as an excuse. don't even worry too much about what she's really thinking or why cause you'll never know for sure. it doesn't even have to be a logical thing, it could be visceral on her part.
Worry more about being you and bettering yourself. being comfortable and relaxed. be secure and real about what you want and desire. Then once you're relaxed and at peace, observe. If you're scared to ask for the digits because you're scared that she will reject you that means that 1.you're not very confident that she wants you. 2. even if she does reject you, you think that her rejecting you would somehow redefine who you are (maybe you think it redifines you as a loser?)
if a chick you think is feeling you rejects you it could mean 3 things
a: you misinterpreted the info and she wasn't choosing you like you thought. in that case you need to re-evaluate how you observe analyze and interpret.
b: she was feeling you but she's playing games/fronting on you. in that case it's on her, on to the next one until she gets her mind right
c: she subconciously wants you but isn't ready to fully admit consciously to herself that she wants you. in that case she'll also come around eventually.
again, my advice is to be yourself, be relaxed and wait for her to give you signs that she's choosing. after she chose you, you just need to work out the "issues" but the more she chooses you, the more she'll cooperate and help you solve those very "issues". the tricky part is to make your intent known to her without falling into her game. the main thing she has to feel (not necessarely think conciously but at least feel, there is an important nuance there) is that you want ________(insert whatever you want here, could be sex, companionship, getting to know her more, her number, etc) but you,re not willing to sacrifice your convictions, your soul or your identity to get that from her. if she's down great, if not you could be dissapointed but either way you know where you want to go and you will get there. the only question is, does she want to join the ride or not? if she gets that feeling from you, and if she's attracted...
Gotta give credit to Kidd. his material definitely inspired this post.
CrossBones
Louder than words
easy.
1) tell her upfront, Im not looking for a relationship.
2) talk to other women. build up a roster so youre not stressed over one girl and her playing games, or putting any pressure on you. you wont be depending on her for a thing, so she cant cancel shyt on you either. you can go around and pursue get yours somewhere else. or, get better, and more fulfilling hobbies. just push her to the side. make sure shes not your main chick and dont let her take up a lot of your time.
3) dont cupcake with a bytch. no hugging, and kissing and talking sweet shyt to her. no pillow talk either.
at that point, it doesnt matter what she thinks. youre doing your thing and shes either with your "no-relationship" program or not. then cut her off if shes out of line and trying to get serious. its on you to set the pace from the start and say what it is.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Yeah good point, basically the point is to not try and read their minds. I think I'm gonna work on my first approach and such. Thanks for the advice though.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
What's pillow talking?
T-K-G
Veteran
basically pouring out your soul to a bytch, you'd be surprised how many nikkas do this after they get comfortable then whenever they end up having an argument ole girl louds him out with the
and there aint nothin he can do about it 
keep your innermost feelings to yourself or it's gonna turn into ammo in the long run
CrossBones
Louder than words
mostly when youre laying with your girl after sex, and shes gossiping to you, or youre telling her secrets about yourself or other people, or maybe you sweet talk to her, telling about how wonderful she is and happy you are etc. a lot of that goes down due to the p*ssy high, and men might say things they dont really mean at that time - even make empty promises to her. theres no need for that. you already got her to give it up. so and play out your hand, revealing yourself as being more into her than she is to you. this goes down a lot more than people would like to admit.
i don't know if you play chess. but something i thought of. Usually in chess, you're not necessarily trying to read in your opponent's mind. and you don't really have a super intricate plan. the reason for that is that if you had a super intricate plan on how to checkmate someone, all it takes for them to fukk up your plan is to not do what you thought they would do at any step of the plan and you're fukked.
instead what you,re trying to do in chess is to try to anticipate possibilities of your opponent trying to do A, B or C that could harm you. The more you anticipate the more you can set your pieces to close down those possibilities for your opponent (defense). At the same time, you,re also trying to set your pieces to have as many options as possible to attack and provoke the checkmate (offense). See if you do this successfully, you don't even need to know what your opponent's next move is cause you're setting it up so that he only has the choice between a bad option or an even worse option. Whatever they do, you don't need to intricately plan the whole game. The checkmate will draw itself on its own, you'll just need to train your eye to recognize the opportunity when it presents itself.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
basically pouring out your soul to a bytch, you'd be surprised how many nikkas do this after they get comfortable then whenever they end up having an argument ole girl louds him out with the
keep your innermost feelings to yourself or it's gonna turn into ammo in the long run
So true, on the radio this brotha was saying that he once told his long term girlfriend he was sexually molested as a child. She was sympathetic at first, but when they broke up she threw it back in his face and used it to taunt him.
There's some things that just shouldn't be said to anybody unless you're talking to a professional. I've been burnt in the past that way (not no sexual molestation
) and have learned the hard way that people just can't be trusted and you should never get too comfortable with anybody unless maybe your mother.