Another issue with alot of men is that they play the game on defense.. They have the whole cool and laid back and let things fall on their lap and they'll cook mentality which is good but for the most part your Ws are too far and between.
Look at how the 85 Bears was busting everyone ass. It was mainly because of the defense. Look at what happened the following year.. They couldn't repeat and haven't seen a chip since.
Whereas the Patriots whom created a dynasty and won more because their team were offensive based.
You gotta play the game on offense in this game. The dating game itself is basically a numbers game so you have to go on offense. You'll take Ls but you'll win more.
You got to try a bunch of different methods and do what works for you and your type.
I went to a party 2 weeks ago and just stood there and had a shawty trying to shoot her shot at me. That's pretty normal for me.
Other dudes have to work the entire room that's just how things are.