Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m having the same dilemma breh. Don’t have an IG, but I live a cool lifestyle in the sense that I travel a lot, eat at nice places, dress well etc. everyone tells me I need IG.

Apparently IG DMs are the new best dating app now. I’m also in my prime years (30) so this is my time to catch a younger shorty to build with. But man, the idea of putting my business out there is just opposite of how I move, like you said.
this is PRIME dating app material for men lol
 

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Women are never busy every time she’s not responding to you she’s responding to someone else.

Breh I used to talk to a gynecologist and she responded all throughout the day.
Hoes be working double shifts but will still answer the nikka that they kinda like/fukked already
 

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I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her
 

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I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her
Beat your meat and keep it moving.
 

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I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her
control your lust if you got a good girl on you
 

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I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her
Nothing is wrong with you :mjlol:You just sound like a regular man who is tryna mental gymnastic between short term and long term mating choices, variety and social construct of marriage.. Subconciously you know your slim girl is a good long term investment because even with father time she should still be fine because of her genetics. These women you use as examples have extreme proportions that get those animalistic juices flowing but we know unless they have incredible work ethics father time will be unkind to those body types. Great for a good time, not a long time.

Pretty sure also we have talked about threesome dynamics in past before on here. When it happened for me, wasnt planned, the girl made it happen, changed the dynamic and had a little fall out.. If thats your MAIN main, tread carefully..
 

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I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her
Going through this myself. My wife has the T&A but I think after all these years I'm just being tempted by the thought of new bodies. I just shove it down in a box, ain't worth losing a good one.
 

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Another thing with social media, is it is just devoured by people. They find connections, contacts, signs, San Diego isn't a small city, but I run into people frequently, and with instagram or something, there's no peace or privacy. People will see who follows you, oh he must be dating her, he's a player, or cross reference that person's feed, it's the kind of surveillance that should have higher stakes than who sleeps with who. It's like life or death stakes for these people. You can post no pics, but people will gain info from your followers, and what they post.
 

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Nothing is wrong with you :mjlol:You just sound like a regular man who is tryna mental gymnastic between short term and long term mating choices, variety and social construct of marriage.. Subconciously you know your slim girl is a good long term investment because even with father time she should still be fine because of her genetics. These women you use as examples have extreme proportions that get those animalistic juices flowing but we know unless they have incredible work ethics father time will be unkind to those body types. Great for a good time, not a long time.

Pretty sure also we have talked about threesome dynamics in past before on here. When it happened for me, wasnt planned, the girl made it happen, changed the dynamic and had a little fall out.. If thats your MAIN main, tread carefully..
Before I dated her I was on Hinge and got with a Houndouran with a phatty and an Ethiopian with nice proportions too. I hate both of them but want to hit once or twice and never speak to again and found myself looking at their gram. I guess it’s better to just beat off and not pursue of course
 

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Hoes be working double shifts but will still answer the nikka that they kinda like/fukked already

There are variables to every situation...

In general, when nikkas don't skyrocket to the top of a female list, it's already an abort mission for some...

She should be answering the nikka she fukked before you lol...

Everyone gotta know their risk tolerance and when to cut losses, but sometimes it can be a bit premature...

You got nikkas in here who think a female can't even be sleeping when they go hours without a response🤣
 

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There are variables to every situation...

In general, when nikkas don't skyrocket to the top of a female list, it's already an abort mission for some...

She should be answering the nikka she fukked before you lol...

Everyone gotta know their risk tolerance and when to cut losses, but sometimes it can be a bit premature...

You got nikkas in here who think a female can't even be sleeping when they go hours without a response🤣

risk tolerance comes in any situation in life but reading people isnt the easiest when you dealing with women and geting to know them initally

just recently i had a job take weeks to give a 2nd interview (they were the ones that recruited me btw)

when they finally came back, they were unorganized, gave little options to times to interview and mind you IM THE ONE that continually messaged them to followup.

point is if you dont catch her attention, no sense in overthinking, double texting, and coming here for advice just charge that shyt to the game. Chances are shorty is pre-occupied with:

-the nikka she fukkin (like you said, she gotta answer him first)
-the nikka she likes
-the nikka she can take advantage of (its usually only for food tho)
-a possible ex-bf she hasnt 100% gotten over
 

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Another thing with social media, is it is just devoured by people. They find connections, contacts, signs, San Diego isn't a small city, but I run into people frequently, and with instagram or something, there's no peace or privacy. People will see who follows you, oh he must be dating her, he's a player, or cross reference that person's feed, it's the kind of surveillance that should have higher stakes than who sleeps with who. It's like life or death stakes for these people. You can post no pics, but people will gain info from your followers, and what they post.
THIS!! I actually thought this but didnt post because I didnt think people would be able to understand. 6 degrees is real and the side affect or next level benefit of game is you begin to understand the value of being a "connector" (best way to describe come from malcolm gladwell tipping point) and how you can be connected with people from all walks of life. Also even if you have code you abide by, IG can still "snitch" on you because the dude you posted in video later doesnt wait til he leaves a venue to post where he is at, and that allows people to see wassup for future reference. I got a couple boys who been snitched on and had the wolves waiting for them. :demonic: Thats one extreme but there are others also on the other end. I like when people dont know I know people in really high places. I can use to my advantage like a chess move when needed.
 
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