Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Oh I get it, its just the grass is greener type effect.

When I was out this weekend, I dont think I been asked soo much for social media first than ever before and the reaction to not having any was that much more visceral.. Lol.. I see the benefits of social media and countless people who know me and how I move around have told me I would kill it on there because the whole thing is basically brand marketing at this point.. But how I was raised and where Im from, posting your business just seems against my religion, I been tryna hold out for sooo long. I dont wanna cave in but mannnnn


Right, on the social media thing, I think I made my decision years ago and stand on it, but I do have the tastes for all the luxury spots, and I travel a decent amount, I'm in Beverly Hills, I'm in Miami, always at the best places and that's all that social media feed would be. It's just not who I want to be, but when I show people my pics, they are always like you need an IG. The thing for me, is it's a part of my life, but just showing the best parts, for likes and follows is just not me. it's all about ego and the opposite of how I want to be.
 
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A buddy of mine used to live down in Miami but that was 20 years ago and a nasty divorce ago. Lol.
Don't you have to speak at least some Spanish to hang out down there or am I sadly misinformed?
 

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A buddy of mine used to live down in Miami but that was 20 years ago and a nasty divorce ago. Lol.
Don't you have to speak at least some Spanish to hang out down there or am I sadly misinformed?

It would help.

That’s their “Atlanta”
 

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Not at all. A lot of the Mexican people in Miami, (from D.F) speak excellent english, went to better schools than I ever will. Mostly everyone speaks English, Cubans, Venezueleans, Dominicans, Argentinians, Colombians.

You could party at a club that was almost all black if you wanted to, and go to a latin bar afterwards, or go somewhere really mixed. I was walking back to my hotel from in South Beach, like around 12th, Esme, and there was a few guys shooting dice and playing Kevin Gates, I love that kind of shyt, I feel right at home, some girls twerking in front of cars.

But, you walk a few blocks up and you are away from anything even close to that, like 30th and Collins. It's a gorgeously diverse place for women, but for everything.
 

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Oh I get it, its just the grass is greener type effect.

When I was out this weekend, I dont think I been asked soo much for social media first than ever before and the reaction to not having any was that much more visceral.. Lol.. I see the benefits of social media and countless people who know me and how I move around have told me I would kill it on there because the whole thing is basically brand marketing at this point.. But how I was raised and where Im from, posting your business just seems against my religion, I been tryna hold out for sooo long. I dont wanna cave in but mannnnn

I’m having the same dilemma breh. Don’t have an IG, but I live a cool lifestyle in the sense that I travel a lot, eat at nice places, dress well etc. everyone tells me I need IG.

Apparently IG DMs are the new best dating app now. I’m also in my prime years (30) so this is my time to catch a younger shorty to build with. But man, the idea of putting my business out there is just opposite of how I move, like you said.
 

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I’m having the same dilemma breh. Don’t have an IG, but I live a cool lifestyle in the sense that I travel a lot, eat at nice places, dress well etc. everyone tells me I need IG.

Apparently IG DMs are the new best dating app now. I’m also in my prime years (30) so this is my time to catch a younger shorty to build with. But man, the idea of putting my business out there is just opposite of how I move, like you said.

Yeah I don't do social media as well and sometimes people think you are hiding something :mjlol: . I've always just been a quiet and reserved person I have a flickr for my travel photography but that's about it. I don't even have a linkedin
 

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I’m having the same dilemma breh. Don’t have an IG, but I live a cool lifestyle in the sense that I travel a lot, eat at nice places, dress well etc. everyone tells me I need IG.

Apparently IG DMs are the new best dating app now. I’m also in my prime years (30) so this is my time to catch a younger shorty to build with. But man, the idea of putting my business out there is just opposite of how I move, like you said.

Get out of your comfort zone.
 

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Yeah I don't do social media as well and sometimes people think you are hiding something :mjlol: . I've always just been a quiet and reserved person I have a flickr for my travel photography but that's about it. I don't even have a linkedin
I know what you mean, thats where having a good wing woman comes in handy, they automatically jump in and tie it to your zodiac sign or something :mjlol: (Yes I have had that happen multiple times)
 
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