Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

I feel you breh. I just hit 30 this year, I’m trying my best to grab one of the rare 25 year olds with a decent head on her shoulders, or at least in a way where I can guide her into becoming a great wifey type. That’s what I meant when I said “build”. I’ve already set myself up well in terms of career, physique, life experience, etc.

That’s all I can really hope for at this point lol

I think part of the issue could be we live in big cities where the values are just different and not the most conducive to long term relationships

Everything in big cities is fast paced and about entertainment, pleasure, novelty, experiences etc. Whereas in long term relationships, monotony, stability and routine is a real thing.

 

[Ohene]

What I have started to wonder (for years now) is what is the point of relationships anyways in this current generation?

It would be nice, ideal to have a life time partner that you can experience life with. A partner that offers stability. It would be nice to escape the "game". But it seems more ideal than anything

People are so fukked nowadays in how they see and treat relationships that its like what is the point? Even the nikkas i know in long term ones, or married - they be cheating and all that.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I feel you breh. I just hit 30 this year, I’m trying my best to grab one of the rare 25 year olds with a decent head on her shoulders, or at least in a way where I can guide her into becoming a great wifey type. That’s what I meant when I said “build”. I’ve already set myself up well in terms of career, physique, life experience, etc.

That’s all I can really hope for at this point lol

I see bruh. They are still out there also depends on your area and also where you meet these women. You got your shyt together so you can get what you want. One thing about finding a wifey her mind and emotions must be intact,age is just a # but you can pull them.

 

[ViShawn]

I think with this last girl I got enmeshed with the high chemistry we have that it temporarily blinded me to our core differences and goals in life. I learned a lot in our brief time and maybe made me a little more malleable in my standards though. Also it made me feel validated which I guess I yearned a bit for that.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

What I have started to wonder (for years now) is what is the point of relationships anyways in this current generation?

It would be nice, ideal to have a life time partner that you can experience life with. A partner that offers stability. It would be nice to escape the "game". But it seems more ideal than anything

People are so fukked nowadays in how they see and treat relationships that its like what is the point? Even the nikkas i know in long term ones, or married - they be cheating and all that.

dawg stop talking like this. I’m only 22 and still have hope for my black wife with quadruplets in a suburban area possibly in Texas or North Carolina

 

[Ohene]

dawg stop talking like this. I’m only 22 and still have hope for my black wife with quadruplets in a suburban area possibly in Texas or North Carolina

Good friend of mine is going to colombia for the bachelor party

In the group chat its plenty of nikkas talking about coke and prostitutes. They cant wait

Same dude has fukked numerous girls hes worked with and all that. Been with his girl ten years

Another dude just proposed…sweet instagram proposal with the rose pedals, the big MARRY ME letters, photographer..used to tell me about his cheating escapades too.

Another nikka i know brought his shorty here from Ghana and they have two sons together now i think. At the first dudes engagement party he mentioned how he cheats to reset his brain and numb himself to his girls shyt

Most these dudes i know in long term relationships have cheated or continue to cheat bro. And i dont blame them

Its how they cope with their girls fukkery

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

She clearly doesn't respect him. This is his girl and he in the mirror talking about he nervous like he about to propose to her.

Stop putting these women on a pedestal. Be a man.

This gonna sound bad, but I bet you dude was raised by a single mom or grew up in a house full of women. That fairytale shyt does not work unless maybe if she's already deeply into you. And even then, you can't go overboard with it. Dude did way too much.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

The sick thing is this guy knew the vibe and still went out of his way to impress this bytch.

Doing all that for a chick screams let me impress you with monetary shyt. Knowing deep down this chick doesn’t respect you on any level. But you scared to lose something you dont even have.

Texting other men in your presence, and he’ll still fukk with her and she knows it.

Pathetic shyt. I pray this video is fake. But knowing this gen sees even humiliation as clout. It's probably all real.

I thought it was fake until dude said "I'm nervous". You can tell that was genuine lol.

 

[darius19]

What I have started to wonder (for years now) is what is the point of relationships anyways in this current generation?

It would be nice, ideal to have a life time partner that you can experience life with. A partner that offers stability. It would be nice to escape the "game". But it seems more ideal than anything

People are so fukked nowadays in how they see and treat relationships that its like what is the point? Even the nikkas i know in long term ones, or married - they be cheating and all that.

I think people just want the sense that they got a partner in this game of life. How much of that is real vs imaginary feelings, or just societal shyt from the generations before us, idk.

But even speaking for myself, in my 20s I was very much like what’s the point of a relationship? Now, I’m starting to feel like it’d be nice to have someone to share life experiences with. But I haven’t found any suitable girl for that lol, these girls nowadays are for the streets.

 

[AStrangeName]

This gonna sound bad, but I bet you dude was raised by a single mom or grew up in a house full of women. That fairytale shyt does not work unless maybe if she's already deeply into you. And even then, you can't go overboard with it. Dude did way too much.

I don't know about that one, seems more like he wanted to do something big to show his love and it backfired badly. Considering I was raised in a single mother household and being the only guy (outside of the dogs I used to have) in house full of women, I was never taught to do that tbh, but I wouldn't be surprise if others were taught that.

 

[Ohene]

I think people just want the sense that they got a partner in this game of life. How much of that is real vs imaginary feelings, or just societal shyt from the generations before us, idk.

But even speaking for myself, in my 20s I was very much like what’s the point of a relationship? Now, I’m starting to feel like it’d be nice to have someone to share life experiences with. But I haven’t found any suitable girl for that lol, these girls nowadays are for the streets.

One woman is the ideal
I truly believe that

But i dont think this current crop of women (and men tbf) are built for that

Its like drafting a traditional C in todays NBA. Role players at best except for very special cases. Society has changed a lot

It’ll be interesting to see what happens in the future though. I don’t blame my homies and i don’t judge but a lot of this shyt is smoke and mirrors. Still, all it takes is finding one person lol

 

[NoirDynosaur]

What I have started to wonder (for years now) is what is the point of relationships anyways in this current generation?

It would be nice, ideal to have a life time partner that you can experience life with. A partner that offers stability. It would be nice to escape the "game". But it seems more ideal than anything

People are so fukked nowadays in how they see and treat relationships that its like what is the point? Even the nikkas i know in long term ones, or married - they be cheating and all that.

Social media killed relationships and monogamy

- The illusion of choice (The more choices a person has, the more paralyzed they are to choose just one)

- Digital simping (Average women 5's and 6's getting their ego inflated by desperate simps changed the game)

- Social media making women telling on themselves. Meaning brehs is on game about female nature. This is an advantage for men we avoid women with red flags.

You'll notice Gen Z is more HOH than previous generations but it's strange because they're also known as the incel generation.

Finding a woman with green flags is like looking for a needle out of a haystack. Takes a lot of vetting, reading body language and experience.

Nowadays, it's far easier to get a hookup than it is to be into a sustainable relationship

Like the famous Cyndi Lauper song, girls just wanna have fun.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Important rule: Treat a dime like she's a 6

A true dime like a 9 or 10 is very rare most people are average

Treating a dime like a 6 removes the pedestal. While most guys will validate her by commenting on her looks, just being cool and not giving her a lot of attention makes you stand out easily

The best thing about walking with a dime on your arm, it gives you preselection vibes

 

[darius19]

One woman is the ideal
I truly believe that

But i dont think this current crop of women (and men tbf) are built for that

Its like drafting a traditional C in todays NBA. Role players at best except for very special cases. Society has changed a lot

It’ll be interesting to see what happens in the future though. I don’t blame my homies and i don’t judge but a lot of this shyt is smoke and mirrors. Still, all it takes is finding one person lol

Agreed, all it takes is one, that’s what I always try to remind myself of even though I look at the dating scene and just shake my head lol.

I think with society just getting more and more expensive, especially if you live in a big city, people will be codependent on each other just to achieve financial dreams and stability more so than love. I wouldn’t be surprised if marriage and relationships go back full circle to what it started hundreds of years ago: a way for people to increase or grow their economic class vs the idea of marrying for love.

 

[The ADD]

Agreed, all it takes is one, that’s what I always try to remind myself of even though I look at the dating scene and just shake my head lol.

I think with society just getting more and more expensive, especially if you live in a big city, people will be codependent on each other just to achieve financial dreams and stability more so than love. I wouldn’t be surprised if marriage and relationships go back full circle to what it started hundreds of years ago: a way for people to increase or grow their economic class vs the idea of marrying for love.

Growing your economic class or reach remained one of the reasons for many. It’s just not something that can be romanticized.