Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[africngiant]

Sounds like a lot of excuses or if it’s that unpossible what is the point of the post.

my original point still stands

 

[360dagod]

LOL i mean i would still talk to her but she literally sits on the opposite side of the classroom. it’s not like im purposely trying to avoid her. i just thought it was funny. i was like “wow of course this nikka follows her”. it just gave me more of a reason to not overplay my part where im at in that class and just mind my business until otherwise

Fam...Your self-sabotaging yourself..

I know this cuz I've been guilty of it..

There is always gonna be someone cuter/wealthier/more status...

That's just life and you shouldn't base your thoughts on it

 

[The ADD]

my original point still stands

It stands on shoulders of low self esteem and self pity but stand it does

 

[RaspberryFitted]

from my position, there’s still some things i need to work on to level the field to approach someone with that type of attention. i still gotta chase a bag and improve my style. im still meek with the braids atm in that respect lol. i can’t wait till i grow economically then ima feel like you

I’m broke as fukk and living in a dorm breh. I’m in the same boat as you and I’ve had thoughts like you. I’m no better than you.

Next time you see the woman, just simply approach her breh. fukk your braids, Miles Sanders, her friend… whatever intrusive thoughts you have.

 

[africngiant]

It stands on shoulders of low self esteem and self pity but stand it does

i actually see what you mean. another lightskin girl from my past went out of her way to sit next to me all semester, open seats yet wouldn’t even follow me back on the gram. so i just always expect some bs

 

[africngiant]

I’m broke as fukk and living in a dorm breh. I’m in the same boat as you and I’ve had thoughts like you. I’m no better than you.

Next time you see the woman, just simply approach her breh. fukk your braids, Miles Sanders, her friend… whatever intrusive thoughts you have.

you probably got more natural sauce and network than me

 

[RaspberryFitted]

i actually see what you mean. another lightskin girl from my past went out of her way to sit next to me all semester, open seats yet wouldn’t even follow me back on the gram. so i just always expect some bs

Man fukk a follower notification if the chick is LITERALLY SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO YOU

you probably got more natural sauce and network than me

Eh. I’m ight. Not Mr. bytches but I’ve made some shyt shake. it sounds like a mix of social media and your own internal insecurities have created a false reality of what your romantic life should be.

You more than welcome to hit my line breh. We are relatively the same age and I saw myself in you… once

 

[africngiant]

Man fukk a follower notification if the chick is LITERALLY SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO YOU

Eh. I’m ight. Not Mr. bytches but I’ve made some shyt shake. it sounds like a mix of social media and your own internal insecurities have created a false reality of what your romantic life should be.

You more than welcome to hit my line breh. We are relatively the same age and I saw myself in you… once

yeah some of my woes are insecurities and old traumas but a lot of these girls aren’t on shyt they act weird and they’re dumb as fukk so nah that’s disrespectful if she’s gonna follow my friends who she doesn’t even know but not me but be omd in person. that doesn’t even make any logical sense to me. if i degraded her she’d probably been on her knees though

 

[RaspberryFitted]

yeah some of my woes are insecurities and old traumas but a lot of these girls aren’t on shyt they act weird and they’re dumb as fukk so nah that’s disrespectful if she’s gonna follow my friends who she doesn’t even know but not me but be omd in person. that doesn’t even make any logical sense to me.

I agree, but you can’t control that. You can control your insecurities and old traumas.

if i degraded her she’d probably been on her knees though

brehs be absolute with this shyt lmao. You either a super simp or a punisher… no middle ground

You can be a stand up dude and still lay plywood

 

[africngiant]

I agree, but you can’t control that. You can control your insecurities and old traumas.

brehs be absolute with this shyt lmao. You either a super simp or a punisher… no middle ground

You can be a stand up dude and still lay plywood

i would’ve gotten much farther disrespecting her than wasting my time tryna gentleman her. in fact i seen her walking at night from afar surrounded by like 5 darkskin nikkas walking towards her dorm


fukkin slut

 

[RaspberryFitted]

i would’ve gotten much farther disrespecting her than wasting my time tryna gentleman her.

you ain’t got to be neither — just a regular stand up dude who doesn’t tolerate nonsense.

in fact i seen her walking at night from afar surrounded by all darkskin nikkas walking towards her dorm

unless they crash dummies or got STDs, what do a bunch of darkskin nikkas got to do with your pursuit of fukking this chick?

 

[africngiant]

you ain’t got to be neither — just a regular stand up dude who doesn’t tolerate nonsense.

unless they crash dummies or got STDs, what do a bunch of darkskin nikkas got to do with your pursuit on fukking this chick?

you ain’t got to be neither — just a regular stand up dude who doesn’t tolerate nonsense.

unless they crash dummies or got STDs, what do a bunch of darkskin nikkas got to do with your pursuit on fukking this chick?

she’d rather cling to the fast life. i’m a standup dude in the classroom she just falls on the spectrum of being trash and rather get trains ran on her (who knows) than fw a scholarly man with potential. that chick can beat it. they’re all on the same flakey bs wasting your time but will get behind negativity much quicker till they’re worn out. smdh


im playing dumb unless a hoe is bonafide literally on my dikk. all this shyt is a waste of time there’s clearly something that attracts them but im not going out of my way to try and keep it strong anymore. im stunting all the way now

 

[RaspberryFitted]

she’d rather cling to the fast life. i’m a standup dude in the classroom she just falls on the spectrum of being trash and rather get trains ran on her (who knows) than fw a scholarly man with potential. that chick can beat it. they’re all on the same flakey bs wasting your time but will get behind negativity much quicker till they’re worn out. smdh

who knows? yeah you don’t know.. you just created the scenario in your head to justify your reasoning for not approaching her. That reeks of self esteem and carrying your trauma on your sleeve.

I am telling you… you WILL lose out on an attractive woman with a good head on her shoulders who is attracted to you because of this mindset

Like I said, my PMs are open breh.

I'm playing dumb unless a hoe is bonafide literally on my dikk. all this shyt is a waste of time there’s clearly something that attracts them but im not going out of my way to try and keep it strong anymore. im stunting all the way now

I Understand this line of thinking. “The juice ain’t worth squeezing” is common in our age group. The balance of putting yourself out and analyzing the cost benefit is something I’m still trying to master.

 

[360dagod]

she’d rather cling to the fast life. i’m a standup dude in the classroom she just falls on the spectrum of being trash and rather get trains ran on her (who knows) than fw a scholarly man with potential. that chick can beat it. they’re all on the same flakey bs wasting your time but will get behind negativity much quicker till they’re worn out. smdh


im playing dumb unless a hoe is bonafide literally on my dikk. all this shyt is a waste of time there’s clearly something that attracts them but im not going out of my way to try and keep it strong anymore. im stunting all the way now

It's pretty clear you just gonna not listen to anyone here lol..

I hope you eventually see what your CLEAR flaw is

 

[africngiant]

It's pretty clear you just gonna not listen to anyone here lol..

I hope you eventually see what your CLEAR flaw is

ive agreed with you and dude who dapped your post. my added notions have been shared by many about female nature which aren’t invalid talking points and reflect my direct life experience. obviously there’s some trauma i can acknowledge but do you really think im gonna waste my time pursuing this chick in this improbable tacky setup i laid out

i don’t see the problem with falling back in this scenario because it makes even less sense to engage in than the last one.


im not acting all desperate and wet behind the ears like last time and have decided to mind my own business and do what i came there for until something happens naturally