Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NoirDynosaur]

Ill give it a crack..

"Nice guy" is a catchall term for many things but many associate with undesirable traits but the origin of the word is really dumb/stupid/naive/weak/needy/ignorant, so just keep that in mind. (if anyone calls you nice this is what they mean in other words, "oh u big dummy, I can take advantage of u")

Usually in today terms its someone who is seen as passive, someone who bends over backwards even to their own detriment, needy, indecisive, no boundaries, let people walk all over them, overly romantic, too agreeable with no boundaries who doesnt seem to have a backbone. They also seem to lack understanding of gender dynamics and dont realize they behavior is paradoxically unattractive..

For women in their 20s they have the are at peak attraction and have many suitors who give them options to choose who they want to deal with. Nice guy based on his behavior will basically be castrating himself out of selection. I wouldnt say they long for them in 30s, I will say their choices change due to circumstance they may have a rough go or OD in dating market and now looking for a shade tree rest haven gullible enough to pay inflated price for extremely damaged goods. If nice guy is still lost in sauce he will think his day has come not knowing he is just a lick.

Spot on

And just to capitalize on that

Women in their 20s go for a$$holes/bad boys because of the emotional rollercoaster these guys give them. In the hood we call em "Pookie and Ray Ray"

At this age women are going through their hoe phase.

Going from the block to block auditioning for the best cock

The problem with nice guys is they hide their sexual nature and play it safe

Nice guys know they want to fukk but too scared to make a move

Life favors the bold, assertive and confident

 

[Astroslik]

Y’all the shyt I’ve been hearing from women bruh our brethren got us down bad

A lot of lame dudes out here but women be embellishing the shyt out of stories

 

[Astroslik]

Nah not at this stage of the game..

I remember when I went near marcy projects years back for some internet p*ssy...

Did alot of dumb shyt

When i was younger, I drove all the way to 18st hood in la over some salvadorian p*ssy. Her brother had rank in that gang also. Was dumb as fukk to do especially considering they dont even fukk with nikkas i wa young, dumb and desperate

 

[Ohene]

A lot of lame dudes out here but women be embellishing the shyt out of stories

say it again
never believe the shyt that come out a bytch mouth when she talking about current or ex bfs

 

[Ohene]

When to Call?

Was on the bus and asked a shorty a question and she was "you may as well take my number.".

I didn't call the same day as that always backfired..but she bad and I want her..Was thinking I'll hit her up Friday? That ain't too soon ? I figured let today simmer and don't call I don't wanna give off clingy vibes.

any time i got a chick number unless it was very late at night, i messaged them that night

 

[Killigraphy]

Why do women resent nice guys in their 20s but long for them after their early 30s?



Research purposes

Nice is deemed as safe....which is fine, if that's all there was. However, the "bad boys" are the counter culture, they spit in the face of the norm, which both men and women admire. The reality/hard truth is that this small demographic speaks for the Id of the human psyche, the petulant child that does and says what it wants. That very notion is extremely attractive in a world wherein people tend to shut up and obey, or worse still; stifle things they'd say or do and live a very passive and ineffectual life.

Most people are living the ostrich life, tuck tail when confrontation is presented; this is where the rogue/bad boy thrives. Men enjoy their devil may care attiude, and women want to follow someone who represents "breaking the chain". All that would be amicable, if these men were actually leaders of men and actually dropped some knowledge. Instead, a lot of these kids are children who think saying "fukk everybody" is cool and fukk anything they see. Women being naturally curious and wanting to "fix" the issues, attach themselves to these giant red waves of toxicity and childhood trauma.

With all that comes (undeniably) some fun for women. They know its short lived, but like a shytty tattoo they got in their 20's...its a story, however pathetic it may be.

 

[skyrunner1]

Nice is deemed as safe....which is fine, if that's all there was. However, the "bad boys" are the counter culture, they spit in the face of the norm, which both men and women admire. The reality/hard truth is that this small demographic speaks for the Id of the human psyche, the petulant child that does and says what it wants. That very notion is extremely attractive in a world wherein people tend to shut up and obey, or worse still; stifle things they'd say or do and live a very passive and ineffectual life.

Most people are living the ostrich life, tuck tail when confrontation is presented; this is where the rogue/bad boy thrives. Men enjoy their devil may care attiude, and women want to follow someone who represents "breaking the chain". All that would be amicable, if these men were actually leaders of men and actually dropped some knowledge. Instead, a lot of these kids are children who think saying "fukk everybody" is cool and fukk anything they see. Women being naturally curious and wanting to "fix" the issues, attach themselves to these giant red waves of toxicity and childhood trauma.

With all that comes (undeniably) some fun for women. They know its short lived, but like a shytty tattoo they got in their 20's...its a story, however pathetic it may be.

This article link fits in well with what you say, I always forward to confused people to help them who need help with these types of things

Psychologists Say That Converting a Bad Boy Into a Nice Guy Is a "Generally Impossible Situation"

Why can't we quit the guys that are so wrong for us?

www.goodhousekeeping.com

Tried to spoiler the article but keep getting error..

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Brehs, I'm uglygang to the max but I may have finally won at something


An old distant foreplay buddy of mine does amateur porn now


She showed it to me and asked me what i thought of her skills. Its crazy to see someone I messed with back in the day in legit amateur porn scenes with good HD lighting and all

I can't link it because she was always nice to me and I wouldn't feel right doing that especially with the wolves on here

She not even super hood or trashy either. Her sweet charm is surprising good for the camera. She has that relatable porn personality simps would eat up.

I think she's just doing this as a bucket list thing while shes still somewhat young then get with a simp down the line in her 30s (won't be me)


This is surreal for an ugly nikka like me. All the years i tugged at porn and i never thought id see someone i been intimate with in one of the scenes with real pornstar lookin nikkas.


I can honesty say "I hit it 1st" when she was younger and tighter on some Ray J shyt.

 

[Astroslik]

Brehs, I'm uglygang to the max but I may have finally won at something

An old distant foreplay buddy of mine does amateur porn now

She showed it to me and asked me what i thought of her skills. Its crazy to see someone I messed with back in the day in legit amateur porn scenes with good HD lighting and all

I can't link it because she was always nice to me and I wouldn't feel right doing that especially with the wolves on here

She not even super hood or trashy either. Her charm is surprising good for the camera. She has that relatable porn charm simps would eat up.

I think she just doing this as a bucket list thing while still somewhat young then get with a simp down the line in her 30s (won't be me)


This is surreal for an ugly nikka like me. All the years i tugged at porn and i never thought id see someone i been intimate with in steamy scenes with real pornstar lookin nikkas ⏸


I can honesty say "I hit it 1st" when she was younger and tighter on some Ray J shyt.

What did you win? Distant memories?

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

What did you win? Distant memories?

She truly was like a naive girl when I knew her. She was like 22 and didn't have almost no miles on her and we bonded.

Now, she morphed into a porn star and gettin ran through (although it seems they all having fun) and im like...

"Yall porn wolves can have the scraps, I had the prime meat 1st"

 

[Astroslik]

She truly was like a naive girl when I knew her. She was like 22 and didn't have almost no miles on her and we bonded.

Now, she morphed into a porn star and gettin ran though although it seems they all had fun filming and im like...

"You can have my scraps, I had the prime meat 1st"

So you’re not even smashing her anymore right?

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

So you’re not even smashing her anymore right?

Naw I'm on a drought and just workin on me

The feeling I got from her was she respected me for truly bonding with her when she was young and not fully taking advantage of her

similar to a "teacher student" bond like when Dukie came back to visit Presbo in "The Wire"

 

[Astroslik]

Naw I'm on a drought and just workin on me

The feeling I got from her was she respected me for truly bonding with her when she was young similar to a "teacher student" bond like when Dukie came back to visit Presbo in "The Wire"

She was checkin in on someone she respected because them new nikkas don't lol

She’s a porn star

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

She’s a porn star

Not a real porn star like on xvideos and big money

Just a side hobby with some new male friends I guess

It's funny I mentioned Dukie and Presbo because he became a druggie with some male friends and she is a "porn star" with some male friends and im like presbo I'm older and moving away from all that Goofy shyt and being on my purpose but I'll entertain a quick chat with a former fling

That scene is accurate

 

[Astroslik]

Not a real porn star like on xvideos and big money

Just a side hobby with some new male friends I guess

It's funny I mentioned Dukie and Presbo because he became a druggie with some male friends and she is a "porn star" with some male friends and im like presbo I'm older and moving away from all that Goofy shyt and being on my purpose but I'll entertain a quick chat with a former fling

That scene is accurate

You can prolly smash her for $100 flat without tax