Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

@D’Lo Brown @Ohene Fellas. We men. Chill the fukk out. shyt ain’t that serious. Let’s continue to break bread peacefully

i think you seen me in here enough to know I aint on no fukk shyt breh. I drop my opinions as I see it and move on .

that dude mad sensitive for whatever reason though

woofing on the internet for what...

 

[Apollo Creed]

@D’Lo Brown @Ohene Fellas. We men. Chill the fukk out. shyt ain’t that serious. Let’s continue to break bread peacefully

Im giving practical advice for a modern world and this nikka stays getting in his feelings then pulls the reverse psychology to hide his hands.

That nikka is a whole p*ssy

 

[Ohene]

Im giving practical advice for a modern world and this nikka stays getting in his feelings then pulls the reverse psychology to hide his hands.

That nikka is a whole p*ssy

Nothing that I said implies I am in my feelings . You were the one who resorted to insults

You said you shouldnt be with a woman if youre not having enjoyment (whatever this means). I said, being with a woman is never going to entail 100% enjoyment. As a result, youre either going to be alone, or going from one woman to the next constantly unless you choose to at times compromise, be patient and work out kinks in relationships. The ones who choose to compromise, be patient etc. are not always acting out of pride or ego as @Lieutenant Daniels alluded to. Sometimes, they just value the relationship or the person they are with. Thats why I asked what does one mean by "fighting" ? Is it chasing a girl who is ending things or is it something else? If its the former then I agree that fighting is dumb...if it is the things i mentioned earlier then a relationship will never last or become a marriage with children without it.

Regardless...on the flipside, If one wants to be alone instead...great.
If one wants to gallivant with multiple women as I said this morning (or maybe last night)...great.

But to tell or imply to men to that they should only be with a woman who offers them enjoyment is just dumb, immature advice. It's the same kind of shyt women say.

It isnt that complicated.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Nothing that I said implies I am in my feelings . You were the one who resorted to insults

You said you shouldnt be with a woman if youre not having enjoyment (whatever this means). I said, being with a woman is never going to entail 100% enjoyment. As a result, youre either going to be alone, or going from one woman to the next constantly unless you choose to at times compromise, be patient and work out kinks in relationships. The ones who choose to compromise, be patient etc. are not always acting out of pride or ego as @Lieutenant Daniels alluded to. Sometimes, they just value the relationship or the person they are with. Thats why I asked what does one mean by "fighting" ? Is it chasing a girl who is ending things or is it something else? If its the former then I agree that fighting is dumb...if it is the things i mentioned earlier then a relationship will never last or become a marriage with children without it.

Regardless...on the flipside, If one wants to be alone instead...great.
If one wants to gallivant with multiple women as I said this morning (or maybe last night)...great.

But to tell or imply to men to that they should only be with a woman who offers them enjoyment is just dumb, immature advice. It's the same kind of shyt women say.

It isnt that complicated.

I agree. Relationship dynamics are nuanced. Life is ultimately about bend don’t break and the same can be applied to a relationship that is worth the effort or…fight.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Nothing that I said implies I am in my feelings . You were the one who resorted to insults

You said you shouldnt be with a woman if youre not having enjoyment (whatever this means). I said, being with a woman is never going to entail 100% enjoyment. As a result, youre either going to be alone, or going from one woman to the next constantly unless you choose to at times compromise, be patient and work out kinks in relationships. The ones who choose to compromise, be patient etc. are not always acting out of pride or ego as @Lieutenant Daniels alluded to. Sometimes, they just value the relationship or the person they are with. Thats why I asked what does one mean by "fighting" ? Is it chasing a girl who is ending things or is it something else? If its the former then I agree that fighting is dumb...if it is the things i mentioned earlier then a relationship will never last or become a marriage with children without it.

Regardless...on the flipside, If one wants to be alone instead...great.
If one wants to gallivant with multiple women as I said this morning (or maybe last night)...great.

But to tell or imply to men to that they should only be with a woman who offers them enjoyment is just dumb, immature advice. It's the same kind of shyt women say.

It isnt that complicated.

Here is the thing if you are not looking for marriage then you are always risking being alone or being with the next woman. Everything runs its course, so in the most elementary terms if you aren't married what exactly are you 'fighting for'?

nikkas are sitting not married for 5+ years with a woman. The shyt is going no where, so what exactly are you doing? Like I said you people conflate various different things which results in confusion. The simple fact I am telling people stop with this idiotic behavior and you find it alarming speaks to why this shyt is a shyt show.

nikkas end up in endless cycles of shyt with no plan in sight. I said before 90% of the nikkas in this thread are not even focused on marriage, they simply want stable sex with minimal headache.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I agree. Relationship dynamics are nuanced. Life is ultimately about bend don’t break and the same can be applied to a relationship that is worth the effort or…fight.

Lets stop being vague with terms.

If one is not seeking to create an institution of marriage with someone, you can not in any sensible manner expect an eternal 'relationship'. If you want something forever that can be maintained then you would get married, but nikkas aint doing that.

Like I said nikkas seem to love these situationships which results to nothing but confusion and depression.

At this point (like I said before) I don't feel sorry for dudes anymore. They refuse to be men and define their terms and instead just let chicks take them on roller coaster rides of emotion them come in hear and cry.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

I think the point is that in order for a relationship to progress towards marriage it has to start off as... Well...a relationship. Unless your strategy is to have an arranged marriage off the bat (which I don't oppose). And even then, you'll still have to get to know the woman in order to see if y'all are compatible, what compromises y'all are willing to make in order to make things work and what are red lines that you will not compromise on etc.. There are bound to be conflicts and disagreements either way.

I think the key is to be clear about what you want and what compromises you're not willing to make, and then move accordingly. If you want to get married and live the family life you can't go about it the same way you would a casual relationship.

I don't think marriage in the modern age is as doomed as some of you make it. I think most ppl are immature and choose life partners based on the wrong set of criteria which is reflected in the stats. It's no different than the fact that majority of Americans are overweight. All it reflects is that majority of ppl make terrible decisions.

I've said this before, a 50% divorce rate says nothing about your individual chances of having a successful marriage. That is a complete misuse of statistics. You need to account for too many factors before you can even begin to estimate your individual odds: your cultural background, values, mindset, upbringing, whether your parents are married or not, are your families and lifestyles compatible, do you have the same views on gender roles/how to raise kids/money management/etc.... And the list goes on and on. A couple who has made those considerations is going to have an infinitely higher chance of success than a couple who got married because the ass was phat and she liked his watch collection. I mean, this is not rocket science. Generic stats don't mean shyt.

 

[Ohene]

I think the point is that in order for a relationship to progress towards marriage it has to start off as... Well...a relationship. Unless your strategy is to have an arranged marriage off the bat (which I don't oppose). And even then, you'll still have to get to know the woman in order to see if y'all are compatible, what compromises y'all are willing to make in order to make things work and what are red lines that you will not compromise on etc.. There are bound to be conflicts and disagreements either way.

I think the key is to be clear about what you want and what compromises you're not willing to make, and then move accordingly. If you want to get married and live the family life you can't go about it the same way you would a casual relationship.

I don't think marriage in the modern age is as doomed as some of you make it. I think most ppl are immature and choose life partners based on the wrong set of criteria which is reflected in the stats. It's no different than the fact that majority of Americans are overweight. All it reflects is that majority of ppl make terrible decisions.

I've said this before, a 50% divorce rate says nothing about your individual chances of having a successful marriage. That is a complete misuse of statistics. You need to account for too many factors before you can even begin to estimate your individual odds: your cultural background, values, mindset, upbringing, whether your parents are married or not, are your families and lifestyles compatible, do you have the same views on gender roles/how to raise kids/money management/etc.... And the list goes on and on. A couple who has made those considerations is going to have an infinitely higher chance of success than a couple who got married because the ass was phat and she liked his watch collection. I mean, this is not rocket science.

Well said

 

[skyrunner1]

The idea that relationships have a life of their own and might just "run their course" is bullshyt because it implies a lack of agency. If a relationship simply dies out it's due to neglect and lack of investment by one or both ppl involved.

Thats the thing with everything evolving now new info makes people adjust. You can do "everything right" and still get torn out the frame so to speak. You cant make a person stay. When that is the reality and you are the investing party and with most to lose its a very hard sell for some. People who advocate for marriage have no answers for men when they been torn to shreds..

 

[Apollo Creed]

Thats the thing with everything evolving now new info makes people adjust. You can do "everything right" and still get torn out the frame so to speak. You cant make a person stay. When that is the reality and you are the investing party and with most to lose its a very hard sell for some. People who advocate for marriage have no answers for men when they been torn to shreds..

Bro let these nikkas hold on to their disney fantasy. I'm roasting the shyt outta them when they come back in here in a few months with another sob story
fukking dummies

 

[The ADD]

Bidness picked up in here

 

[skyrunner1]

Most of "game" was essentially short term mating strategies. When people talk about what their attracted to what often goes overlooked in all the studies is that those are different things to the same women. Between short term and long term, game leaned heavily on the short term mating cues and hacked the system. But even the best game guys struggled to KEEP a girl. We know the online game guys literally scienced labbed marketing, sales techniques, evo psych, nlp, pimp books, positive thinking, convo, comedy, and more all together. But that was all for the beginning stages, even the guys like pimps answer is to have more options and let that chick walk. Thats a hard sell for a married guy staring down the barrel of divorce rape

 

[skyrunner1]

Bro let these nikkas hold on to their disney fantasy. I'm roasting the shyt outta them when they come back in here in a few months with another sob story
fukking dummies

Bruh I cant knock a dude for trying to figure out a path to victory and trying to thread the needle, I just know its TOUGH AF out here and you got to make sure you getting a good situation and not getting a buzzer beater. I was talking to my attorney during covid and this was a party girl and she was converting to jewish religion JUST IN CASE she met a jewish guy she was ready to go, lmaooo.. She was in it to win it.. Ended up meeting a guy who wasnt jewish and got knocked up quick.. Baby shower was nice, good luck to them..

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I wish my city had more asian women

 

[skyrunner1]

maybe this can help someone