Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

I literally said these are gauges not definite, they just allow you to gauge, everyone does get different results, but again it’s just to semi know where they are coming from, also your notion assumes they can’t properly gauge themselves, would you not sooner believe her than be like i don’t believe you or i can change you, it’s up to each man or women to gauge things because exceptions are always made, i love light skin women, but will date a dark chocolate women without hesitation, again free will/choice, i like to fukk if a woman says i have a low sex drive that makes me pay attention, and things may not progress far if that’s how they play out

Understand. There are various ways to evaluate your potential partner.

I am just not a proponent of these strict questionnaires I see people post online.

 

[Byronml]

BPD... I always chalked up alot of her shyt to both her lack of experience and my lack of experience but looking at this more it looks like it could be. I'm not sure tho, think I may get the last of my things from her house fukk her one more time then break up with her?

When you get a chance, look up some stories on folks who've been in relationships with that type.

Chalking it up can be a way of rationalizing the flashes of crazy, not holding her accountable and trying to keep the peace. I promise she knows what she's doing. Dub that before you get burned and end up in the friendship break up category or worse.

 

[rabbid]

One this is she's passive aggressive and can be condescending. To be fair I mentioned them both to her and she apologized and was happy I mentioned them and claimed she would "work on it", also is SUPER sensitive! The thing that freaks me out the most is she's definitely mirroring me. It's like she's obsessed with me in a way and almost wants to turn into me. It's like she has flashes of crazy but then will come back and tell me how much she loves me and will be super compassionate and relatable to me. Shyt really confuses tf out of me. It's almost like she's playing with me but I'm not sure.

Shes had what she calls friendship break ups with several friends. Won't go into detail about them when I ask why but I'm sure it's some of the same shyt I've noticed.

Its not worth your sanity. I thought you meant she's on the spectrum as well but the stuff you've mentioned is emotional manipulation. Nothing you've said is unrelatable. Lots of women do what she's doing and continue to do it because men put up with it. She's got you playing chips in the casino of her emotions. The ultimate goal of any casino is to keep players playing by any means necessary. The more you play the more you lose.

 

[NotThatGuy]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

here are my matches today, they all liked my profile first and i haven’t even bothered to talk to any of them yet:

 

[skyrunner1]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

Take it for what its worth as I havent used apps in awhile and never used Hinge but I do know they take the approach of giving you a taste of supply and getting you hooked to then take it away and have you pay for the same high.. Thats essentially their business model..

Also I wouldnt burn thru 7 leads like that because its a numbers game and one is too close to zero, double book if you have to but you are setting yourself up for failure because flakes happen..

Last why you waiting til next week? I would try to set up asap because time is of the essence and a hot lead turns cold on dating apps easy as the next best thing is a swipe away.. While you waiting a week for your 1 date, a dude like me sliding tonite/tomorrow..

Just food for thought, hope it helps

 

[Apollo Creed]

Hinge fukking exploding with christmas around the corner

 

[Ahadi]

Hinge fukking exploding with christmas around the corner

Yeah lol, the roses, the likes, there’s a lot of panicking.

 

[Brandsdale]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

here are my matches today, they all liked my profile first and i haven’t even bothered to talk to any of them yet:

Nunes tho

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah lol, the roses, the likes, there’s a lot of panicking.

breh I'm pretty checked out, i really just get on hinge in the morning while on the toilet lol. It's chicks that messaged first who look good but I know how this all ends lol.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

here are my matches today, they all liked my profile first and i haven’t even bothered to talk to any of them yet:

say nizzy

 

[Apollo Creed]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

here are my matches today, they all liked my profile first and i haven’t even bothered to talk to any of them yet:

You on vacation or something? England is still a western country so the bullshyt still gonna be there

 

[Ahadi]

damn hinge is crazy here in london, i just started using the app 3 days ago and already have 26 matches 20 of them are girls who liked my profile first

as a guy with a body count of 4 i’m a lil overwhelmed. i got 7 dates planned next week but i have no intention of going to more than 1.

here are my matches today, they all liked my profile first and i haven’t even bothered to talk to any of them yet:

Anaya the East African joint

 

[Ahadi]

breh I'm pretty checked out, i really just get on hinge in the morning while on the toilet lol. It's chicks that messaged first who look good but I know how this all ends lol.

Same. That’s the only time I check. In my head I’m like - These women are focused on the “look” than the actual man.

 

[BandOfGypsys]

When you get a chance, look up some stories on folks who've been in relationships with that type.

Chalking it up can be a way of rationalizing the flashes of crazy, not holding her accountable and trying to keep the peace. I promise she knows what she's doing. Dub that before you get burned and end up in the friendship break up category or worse.

Just bushed her, thanks for all the advice.

I honestly just want to get a new girl now. First I need to get my money back up and improve my verbal and communication skills. Thinking about joining toastmasters.

 

[Ahadi]

Just bushed her, thanks for all the advice.

I honestly just want to get a new girl now. First I need to get my money back up and improve my verbal and communication skills. Thinking about joining toastmasters.

Just focus on yourself, don’t worry about a new girl. Just enjoy being alone and improving yourself as much as possible.