Man I need a chick I can just fukk consistently without them catching feelings or wanting something serious from me.
chick I been seeing on/off for a while, ended up on the convo about the situation and long term etc.
She like she need to think…Which is fine but I was planning to have some fun again with her after a long break
Tbh It's impossible.
A woman is not going to give you her mind and body and not catch feelings at some point. Unless the woman is a paid whore, whose paid to come and go. What have you told this woman you want with her? Something casual?
I'd say you usually get 4 minimum and at a stretch 6 months, max before a woman you're consistently having sex with wants to know what's happening with ya'll.
That or she'll come to her own conclusions on your behaviour towards her and step away herself and slowly ghost. Or she'll come back for a while but then realize this is actually going nowhere and back all the way up for good.
The fact she's 'thinking' means she probably doesn't feel good about you and her current arrangement and doesn't want those feelings.
A female friend of mine had a similar situation with a guy she'd been seeing for a couple of months. He'd come over they'd cook, smoke up and fukk, rinse and repeat.
One day he was over and they were having sex and she said midway through her mind wandered what I'm I doing? She said the sex was fine just mentally it was no longer fun for her.
So she told him she liked him but didn't see a future for them together and that sex for sex's sake was not going to work for her.
It's why I like to lay it out for a woman. I want to see her and grow with her, but if at any point this doesn't work for her, or she feels she wants a traditional relationship I'm going to genuinely wish her the best.
Just makes your life so much easier.
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