Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Krazy
Rifle weh taller dan palm tree
Lmao.You gonna have to spend somelol
Nah I had two options could’ve sold her a dream and kept her around or just keep it playa and reconfirm I have no intention of anything serious.
I chose the later, balls in her court.
We been here before she’ll be back, deep down she respects my honesty and fukks with me a lot and we actually good friends.
Hence why even we agree to stop being sexual give it a few months and we ducking again
I just ain’t looking for nothing serious right now and don’t see anything serious with her. We get along but future wise? I don’t see it in working in a relationship
Just potential ruined my plans for a dirty December
Cuz the sex we had the other week was *chef kiss*
DropTopDoc
Smokin my Opps like Patrick Mahomes pops
Each of the 7 things on a scale 1-10
BandOfGypsys
All Star
Serious question from an autism breh with not that much experience.
Are all women crazy?
I honestly can't get a full read on this girl. Sometimes I do honestly think she's crazy and has a completely different person inside her. Other times it seems we have so much in common and she actually genuinely cares about me. I'm super conflicted tbh. We met on an app for people who are neurodivergent so we have so much in common that "normies" can't relate to.
Are all women crazy?
I honestly can't get a full read on this girl. Sometimes I do honestly think she's crazy and has a completely different person inside her. Other times it seems we have so much in common and she actually genuinely cares about me. I'm super conflicted tbh. We met on an app for people who are neurodivergent so we have so much in common that "normies" can't relate to.
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What is she doing specifically that makes you think she's crazy?
One thing I typically think about is, 1) is there anyone else in her life with as much access as me that is also dealing with her, like longtime friends or family, even exes if they're still cordial. Go ask them and see what they say. If there is no one else, she's crazy. 2) if y'all just starting out, does she recognize her problems early on? If so, then most likely someone else was in your position and she never learned or cared how to be better.
If you're conflicted tho you have to always give yourself credit. You wouldnt be feeling that way for no reason. You're aware enough to see that something is amiss.
BandOfGypsys
All Star
One this is she's passive aggressive and can be condescending. To be fair I mentioned them both to her and she apologized and was happy I mentioned them and claimed she would "work on it", also is SUPER sensitive! The thing that freaks me out the most is she's definitely mirroring me. It's like she's obsessed with me in a way and almost wants to turn into me. It's like she has flashes of crazy but then will come back and tell me how much she loves me and will be super compassionate and relatable to me. Shyt really confuses tf out of me. It's almost like she's playing with me but I'm not sure.
Shes had what she calls friendship break ups with several friends. Won't go into detail about them when I ask why but I'm sure it's some of the same shyt I've noticed.
This sounds like a lot. Find peace and leave this woman alone.
Sounds like borderline personality disorder. She's confusing you, but isn't confused herself, is she?
Better find an older single monther lol
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Smashed the white chick on Friday.
Got to her place and she was wearing this very form-fitting tight black dress.We watch this corny Christmas movie which was fun whislt we drank Gin and Tonics.
Then got down to it.
Sex-wise she is very good. One thing I was really taken aback by was her booty. 
I'll reiterate it once again picking a woman up when she's sitting on top of you on a sofa and carrying her to her bedroom is the goat move.
Straight-up scrambles a woman's brain and activates something primal in them. A mix of passion and fear that you may drop them. Once you make it clear it's light work lifting them up they love it.
Just like the last few women I've met they all say a man has never lifted them up like that and they loved the feeling of being thoroughly dominated.
If you not dealing with the big, big girls who could collapse your back.
I would highly recommend putting it in your repertoire of tricks Brehs.
Got to her place and she was wearing this very form-fitting tight black dress.We watch this corny Christmas movie which was fun whislt we drank Gin and Tonics.
Then got down to it.
Sex-wise she is very good. One thing I was really taken aback by was her booty. 
I'll reiterate it once again picking a woman up when she's sitting on top of you on a sofa and carrying her to her bedroom is the goat move.
Straight-up scrambles a woman's brain and activates something primal in them. A mix of passion and fear that you may drop them. Once you make it clear it's light work lifting them up they love it.
Just like the last few women I've met they all say a man has never lifted them up like that and they loved the feeling of being thoroughly dominated.
If you not dealing with the big, big girls who could collapse your back.
I would highly recommend putting it in your repertoire of tricks Brehs.
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VertigoKnight
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Tbh It's impossible.
A woman is not going to give you her mind and body and not catch feelings at some point. Unless the woman is a paid whore, whose paid to come and go. What have you told this woman you want with her? Something casual?
I'd say you usually get 4 minimum and at a stretch 6 months, max before a woman you're consistently having sex with wants to know what's happening with ya'll.
That or she'll come to her own conclusions on your behaviour towards her and step away herself and slowly ghost. Or she'll come back for a while but then realize this is actually going nowhere and back all the way up for good.
The fact she's 'thinking' means she probably doesn't feel good about you and her current arrangement and doesn't want those feelings.
A female friend of mine had a similar situation with a guy she'd been seeing for a couple of months. He'd come over they'd cook, smoke up and fukk, rinse and repeat.
One day he was over and they were having sex and she said midway through her mind wandered what I'm I doing? She said the sex was fine just mentally it was no longer fun for her.
So she told him she liked him but didn't see a future for them together and that sex for sex's sake was not going to work for her.
It's why I like to lay it out for a woman. I want to see her and grow with her, but if at any point this doesn't work for her, or she feels she wants a traditional relationship I'm going to genuinely wish her the best.
Just makes your life so much easier.
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Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
If a man is paying attention he can notice when that shift starts to happen where she wants more from the situation. If the situation has just been what you described, she’ll start dropping subtle hints or make comments like “we got invited to a couples dinner or my friend asked how my boyfriend was doing, I told her you were doing great” to gauge how you respond to those key words (couple, boyfriend) in those statements. Guys make it complicated like they ain’t see it coming when she decides to walk but women show their hand before they make a decision ESPECIALLY if they are invested in the situation. Listening and watching behavior is key.
That’s why if all a man wants is a casual relationship he shouldn’t do relationship things, calling and texting every day, going out to eat/laying up at the crib watching movies, eating and fukking all weekend every weekend, long pillow talking after sex. It should be a once or twice a week sexual relations with no communication besides linking up kinda transactional type of vibe.
Anyway, I’ve learned in relationships/situationships to always leave them before they leave me. Seems to catch them off guard.