thats not even a rookie mistake. thats a junior varsity mistakeYep, I usually go for the hug, with that chick we started touching early as she was showing me her nails and I took her hands to look. Once a woman is fine with you both touching it's all good. As she’ll reciprocate.
It's funny one of my boys went on a date last weekend with the opposite result. His very bad at reading a woman's vibes.
His a white boy she is a Chinese chick he used to work with at a company. According to him, she contacted him and they decided to go to watch a movie. In the early afternoon.
I warned him about movie first dates especially if you haven’t warmed a woman up. They can go sideways very quickly and the worst you both have to sit there without talking.
I asked him if she was brought up here or in china. He said in China. He showed me a picture. Cute woman. I told him when you meet a ‘traditional' Asian chick like this don't go for the hug at the beginning, you need to take it initially slow with these kinda chicks or they’ll clam right up. Touching hands is OK once you find a reason to, anything else unless you know for sure she’s into you is going to be a fail.
Anyway, he goes on his date. I message him later to see how it went.
He told me, pretty badly. She got there and he went for the hug and she tensed up, and wouldn’t take her mask off for the entire movie. At the end, she was outta there. She had already pre-prepared him with an excuse that she needed to get back to walk her dog. I told him ways around that earlier in the week but by then he’d already blown any chance that day of extending their hang.
This is why I’ll advise against cinema dates for a first date, for me cinema dates are once you and her have broken the touch barrier and she's comfortable in your presence.
who goes to movies for first dates? only do it if its with a woman you know is boring and cant hold a conversation.
what you said about the hug/mask is grade A+ game though lol.