Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think fukking younger females 21 - 29 is starting to come to an end.

First off they think “old” is 35+ (I’m 37).

Secondly, they play too much.

Lastly, they be having all them damn kids & baby daddies!

Women my age be cool. & having like 1 kid. I’ve came across more 35+ women with no kids than the younger broads.

Also older women be having houses and shyt.

So many young broads in Atlanta be having kids but no car. p*ssy be ran through too. 🤦🏾
 

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I think fukking younger females 21 - 29 is starting to come to an end.

First off they think “old” is 35+ (I’m 37).

Secondly, they play too much.

Lastly, they be having all them damn kids & baby daddies!

Women my age be cool. & having like 1 kid. I’ve came across more 35+ women with no kids than the younger broads.

Also older women be having houses and shyt.

So many young broads in Atlanta be having kids but no car. p*ssy be ran through too. 🤦🏾

It's a level of intimidation(when not around a friend) mixed with "fleeting" feelings..

I've had a few slip thru...some which were a result of my inflexibility...

Some might have expected "higher interest" to be shown after a flake, but I pretty much cut my losses and kept it moving...

One randomly called me months later and the why is this bytch calling me awkwardness that I gave pretty much put the nail in that coffin🤣....

Point is, if you gotta push the envelope QUICKLY(in real time) and see what happens...
 

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I think fukking younger females 21 - 29 is starting to come to an end.

First off they think “old” is 35+ (I’m 37).

Secondly, they play too much.

Lastly, they be having all them damn kids & baby daddies!

Women my age be cool. & having like 1 kid. I’ve came across more 35+ women with no kids than the younger broads.

Also older women be having houses and shyt.

So many young broads in Atlanta be having kids but no car. p*ssy be ran through too. 🤦🏾
Should always be an option if they are available :manny:
 

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Top game. I usually try & break the touch barrier with a quick hug when we greet each other at the start of the date, so it removes any awkwardness of the first touch

Yep, I usually go for the hug, with that chick we started touching early as she was showing me her nails and I took her hands to look. Once a woman is fine with you both touching it's all good. As she’ll reciprocate.

It's funny one of my boys went on a date last weekend with the opposite result. His very bad at reading a woman's vibes.

His a white boy she is a Chinese chick he used to work with at a company. According to him, she contacted him and they decided to go to watch a movie. In the early afternoon.

:francis:

I warned him about movie first dates especially if you haven’t warmed a woman up. They can go sideways very quickly and the worst you both have to sit there without talking.

I asked him if she was brought up here or in china. He said in China. He showed me a picture. Cute woman. I told him when you meet a ‘traditional' Asian chick like this don't go for the hug at the beginning, you need to take it initially slow with these kinda chicks or they’ll clam right up. Touching hands is OK once you find a reason to, anything else unless you know for sure she’s into you is going to be a fail.

Anyway, he goes on his date. I message him later to see how it went.

He told me, pretty badly. She got there and he went for the hug and she tensed up, and wouldn’t take her mask off for the entire movie. At the end, she was outta there. She had already pre-prepared him with an excuse that she needed to get back to walk her dog. I told him ways around that earlier in the week but by then he’d already blown any chance that day of extending their hang.

This is why I’ll advise against cinema dates for a first date, for me cinema dates are once you and her have broken the touch barrier and she's comfortable in your presence.
 
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Yep, I usually go for the hug, with that chick we started touching early as she was showing me her nails and I took her hands to look. Once a woman is fine with you both touching its all good. As she’ll reciprocate.

Its funny one of my boys went on a date last weekend with the opposite result. His very bad at reading a woman's vibes.

His a white boy she is a Chinese chick he used to work with at a company. According to him she contacted him and they decided to go to watch a movie. In the early afternoon.

:francis:

I warned him about movie first dates especially if you haven’t warmed a woman up. They can go sideways very quickly and the worst you both have to sit there without talking.

I asked him if she was brought up here or china? He said in China. He showed me a picture. Cute woman. I told him when you meet a ‘traditional' asian chick like this don't go for the hug at the beginning, you need to take it initially slow with these kinda chicks or they’ll clam right up. Touching hands is OK once you find a reason to, anything else unless you know for sure she’s into you is going to be a fail.

Anyway he goes on his date. I message him later to see how it went.

He told me, pretty bad. She got there and he went for the hug and she right tensed up, and wouldn’t take her mask off for the entire movie. At the end she was outta there. She already pre prepared him with an excuse that she needed to get back to walk her dog. I told him ways around that earlier in the week but by then he’d already blown any chance that day of extending their hang.

This is why I’ll advise against cinema dates for a first date, for me cinema dates are once you and her have broken the touch barrier and she's comfortable in your presence.
Solid game right here if Your going to do cinema you should at least meet before for a drink or something of that nature. Also good about touching even though I like verbal escalation first you still have to open with some type of touch when you first meet. if a woman isn’t comfortable with you hugging her or touching her 9/10 she doesn’t see you in that way and she might not ever From my experience.
 

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Voice notes over text messages. I think women respond to hearing a voice much more than text. If your going to use text more than to set up dates or meeting than use voice messages.
I'd personally only advise this if you got a deep voice on some James Earl Jones or Barry White type shyt :hubie:


Last thing you want is to send a chic a voicenote thinking you sounding sensual but in reality ya voice is Mike Tyson
 

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I'd personally only advise this if you got a deep voice on some James Earl Jones or Barry White type shyt :hubie:


Last thing you want is to send a chic a voicenote thinking you sounding sensual but in reality ya voice is Mike Tyson
nah. Just record your voice note while you talking into a fan.

works every time
 

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I'd personally only advise this if you got a deep voice on some James Earl Jones or Barry White type shyt :hubie:


Last thing you want is to send a chic a voicenote thinking you sounding sensual but in reality ya voice is Mike Tyson
A woman will eventually need to hear your voice and get used to it anyway this is a way to warm her up to you
 
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