Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Gotta get this thread back on track....fellas if a woman your dating mother likes you more then the woman your dating its a bad sign. Some reason women love to go against their parents when it comes to relationships.

somewhat but younger women are dumb, older women realize that good men are scarce , ive had 3 relationships in my life that lasted more than a year, im still on good terms with all 3 of those mothers, they send me birthday n christmas cards and call me and email me from time to time, yet i have no contact with their daughters

 

[George Gooney]

somewhat but younger women are dumb, older women realize that good men are scarce , ive had 3 relationships in my life that lasted more than a year, im still on good terms with all 3 of those mothers, they send me birthday n christmas cards and call me and email me from time to time, yet i have no contact with their daughters

Can I share a fukked up story with you breh??? I remember when me and one of my exes(one before last) were dating and broke up. About 2-3 weeks after we broke up Me and her were hanging out(I was a simp and trying to get her back) at her mother's house(My first time meeting her mom too). Well I was talking to her family and they loved me, were very kind and considerate, even bought some liquor and shared it with me. Well while me and her mom and sister were talking and drinking I notice my ex on her cell talking to someone the whole night. I knew it was another guy but I was thinking "Hey they can talk all they want i'm gonna take her home with me anyway and make her forget about him"...

But as the night went on we got hungry so me and my ex went out to get food for everyone, we wound up getting Chinese food. I payed for her food(). On the way there and back we were kissing and holding hands and everything...Anyway we get back to the house and we're eating when my exes cell phone rung again and it was the dude from earlier. She says "Yea i'm ready just ring the doorbell". I'm sitting there like . So the doorbell rings and it's dude and she gets up from the table tells her fam and me goodbye and leaves I look out the window and she gets in his car and they pull off. Her sister is looking at me like and her mother just sighs and shakes her head(she was used to this behavior fom her daughter) So I get up and head towards the door and i'm tipsy from the alcohol (not a heavy drinker) and I head towards the door after saying my goodbyes.

I get outside and i'm fukked up breh I can't even remember the route we took to get her mom's place(That's because we took a cab) and i'm too embarrassed to knock back on the door and ask directions. Apparently I was standing outside longer then I realized because her mom comes outside to check on me after watching me wander around for 5 minutes trying to catch a cab. I suck it up and tell her i'm having trouble remembering where the station is in that area. And I kid you not Her Mom heads upstairs puts on some walking sneakers and walks with me 10 blocks to the train station. We talked about a lot of things(mainly her daughter) and she's like "i'm sorry she abandoned you like this" "I don't know why she acts like this" "You're such a nice guy too" And i'm feeling serious ether because her mom called her to yell at her but she didn't pick up(We can all guess why). Well anyway from that day forward I vowed to never forget the kindness her mom showed me and to this day I still consider her a friend... I'm sorry this story was so long I tried to cut it short but yea breh Women man...

 

[CASHAPP]

Can I share a fukked up story with you breh??? I remember when me and one of my exes(one before last) were dating and broke up. About 2-3 weeks after we broke up Me and her were hanging out(I was a simp and trying to get her back) at her mother's house(My first time meeting her mom too). Well I was talking to her family and they loved me, were very kind and considerate, even bought some liquor and shared it with me. Well while me and her mom and sister were talking and drinking I notice my ex on her cell talking to someone the whole night. I knew it was another guy but I was thinking "Hey they can talk all they want i'm gonna take her home with me anyway and make her forget about him"...

But as the night went on we got hungry so me and my ex went out to get food for everyone, we wound up getting Chinese food. I payed for her food(). On the way there and back we were kissing and holding hands and everything...Anyway we get back to the house and we're eating when my exes cell phone rung again and it was the dude from earlier. She says "Yea i'm ready just ring the doorbell". I'm sitting there like . So the doorbell rings and it's dude and she gets up from the table tells her fam and me goodbye and leaves I look out the window and she gets in his car and they pull off. Her sister is looking at me like and her mother just sighs and shakes her head(she was used to this behavior fom her daughter) So I get up and head towards the door and i'm tipsy from the alcohol (not a heavy drinker) and I head towards the door after saying my goodbyes.

I get outside and i'm fukked up breh I can't even remember the route we took to get her mom's place(That's because we took a cab) and i'm too embarrassed to knock back on the door and ask directions. Apparently I was standing outside longer then I realized because her mom comes outside to check on me after watching me wander around for 5 minutes trying to catch a cab. I suck it up and tell her i'm having trouble remembering where the station is in that area. And I kid you not Her Mom heads upstairs puts on some walking sneakers and walks with me 10 blocks to the train station. We talked about a lot of things(mainly her daughter) and she's like "i'm sorry she abandoned you like this" "I don't know why she acts like this" "You're such a nice guy too" And i'm feeling serious ether because her mom called her to yell at her but she didn't pick up(We can all guess why). Well anyway from that day forward I vowed to never forget the kindness her mom showed me and to this day I still consider her a friend... I'm sorry this story was so long I tried to cut it short but yea breh Women man...

Do you have any update on this harlot?(yes that is what she is)

Do you have any more details about how long ago or what year this happened? I feel your pain breh. These harlots will just disrespect you right in your face with no class at all.

If she tries to get back with you one day do not give her a chance and make sure to shut her down quick without any remorse

 

[George Gooney]

Do you have any update on this harlot?(yes that is what she is)

Do you have any more details about how long ago or what year this happened? I feel your pain breh. These harlots will just disrespect you right in your face with no class at all.

If she tries to get back with you one day do not give her a chance and make sure to shut her down quick without any remorse

Breh this happened 2-3years ago in the summer time... She's outta my life forever

 

[Turbulent]

Can I share a fukked up story with you breh??? I remember when me and one of my exes(one before last) were dating and broke up. About 2-3 weeks after we broke up Me and her were hanging out(I was a simp and trying to get her back) at her mother's house(My first time meeting her mom too). Well I was talking to her family and they loved me, were very kind and considerate, even bought some liquor and shared it with me. Well while me and her mom and sister were talking and drinking I notice my ex on her cell talking to someone the whole night. I knew it was another guy but I was thinking "Hey they can talk all they want i'm gonna take her home with me anyway and make her forget about him"...

But as the night went on we got hungry so me and my ex went out to get food for everyone, we wound up getting Chinese food. I payed for her food(). On the way there and back we were kissing and holding hands and everything...Anyway we get back to the house and we're eating when my exes cell phone rung again and it was the dude from earlier. She says "Yea i'm ready just ring the doorbell". I'm sitting there like . So the doorbell rings and it's dude and she gets up from the table tells her fam and me goodbye and leaves I look out the window and she gets in his car and they pull off. Her sister is looking at me like and her mother just sighs and shakes her head(she was used to this behavior fom her daughter) So I get up and head towards the door and i'm tipsy from the alcohol (not a heavy drinker) and I head towards the door after saying my goodbyes.

I get outside and i'm fukked up breh I can't even remember the route we took to get her mom's place(That's because we took a cab) and i'm too embarrassed to knock back on the door and ask directions. Apparently I was standing outside longer then I realized because her mom comes outside to check on me after watching me wander around for 5 minutes trying to catch a cab. I suck it up and tell her i'm having trouble remembering where the station is in that area. And I kid you not Her Mom heads upstairs puts on some walking sneakers and walks with me 10 blocks to the train station. We talked about a lot of things(mainly her daughter) and she's like "i'm sorry she abandoned you like this" "I don't know why she acts like this" "You're such a nice guy too" And i'm feeling serious ether because her mom called her to yell at her but she didn't pick up(We can all guess why). Well anyway from that day forward I vowed to never forget the kindness her mom showed me and to this day I still consider her a friend... I'm sorry this story was so long I tried to cut it short but yea breh Women man...

have a little bit of drink in me and i can't front, reading this story, it's so much in it at the same time....shyt makes me angry and sad at once. but her fam is so cool too. sometimes i really hate this world man...

 

[kevm3]

It's time to shift the focus of this thread. We can't control what no garbage women do, only what we do... and if you don't have the right filters and choose to deal with a woman with a trash mentality, you will get trash results.

Let's get back to getting on track with the productivity and self-improvement. I'd like to hear some of the ways in which ya'lls mentalities have changed and improved for the better upon getting this knowledge that has been shared in this thread and from living life in general.

Me, I'm much more aware of what's going on and it's caused me to make several improvements mentally and physically. You've got to enjoy women but never come weak, which will put you in a situation to get victimized. My mentality now is much flyer and smoother than it used to be. I'm slowly but surely knocking off a lot of the edges off of my methods of operation.

 

[kevm3]

I want us to shift gears because while there are a lot of trashy women out there, slam dunking on them all day will do little to improve us or even improve them, and will in fact do little but ruin our own moods. In reality, life is too short for miring in negativity and we need to make most of this little bit of life we do have. So then, let's shift our focus onto the mentality and methods necessary to attract the kind of women we DO indeed want. Let's focus on those things that will improve our mood and leave the trash in the trashcan... unless they are willing to be pulled out and to rise with you. As Jesus says, you lay down with dogs, you get fleas. So let us instead focus on elevating to higher ground.

 

[winb83]

There's plenty of people here who disagree with that, me included.



If you're so bitter at these females then why on earth are you in this thread? Why do you spend your time talking about these people you dislike so much?

This is a thread for helping dudes establish positive relationships with females. It doesn't serve any purpose if all your posts are saying is "look at these females and their ratchet behavior." When I mention ratchet behavior, I'm specifically bringing it up to help dudes avoid those types and direct them to something better. Some of the posts here seem completely obsessed with that though without actually offering any real advice.

i'm not bitter at all. i look at it in this light if the average person found a bag with a million dollars in it they'd zip that bag up and take it for themselves.

the fact that that million might have been mine doesn't mean they intended to steal money from me they just found some money and didn't care who it belonged to it was a chance for them to gain and that's all that matters to them. the thing is no good person would take and keep that money because it isn't their money.

you have people in this thread saying things like "a woman will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated" those type of women aren't good people. a good person has integrity and just because they know they can get away with something doesn't mean they do it. good people treat people independently of how they see that person allows themselves to be treated because they treat them according to a personal code.

what i'm getting at is if you're gonna deal with women you have to step out there knowing that most of them aren't good people, they have sliding ethics that vary depending on the situation and they'll do whatever they can get way with because they lack integrity and a personal code of honor. can you find a good woman? of course but you could also win the lottery.

its a cold world out here full of cold people who only put themselves first and will use and take advantage of anybody they see the opportunity to do so with.

 

[winb83]

It's time to shift the focus of this thread. We can't control what no garbage women do, only what we do... and if you don't have the right filters and choose to deal with a woman with a trash mentality, you will get trash results.

Let's get back to getting on track with the productivity and self-improvement. I'd like to hear some of the ways in which ya'lls mentalities have changed and improved for the better upon getting this knowledge that has been shared in this thread and from living life in general.

Me, I'm much more aware of what's going on and it's caused me to make several improvements mentally and physically. You've got to enjoy women but never come weak, which will put you in a situation to get victimized. My mentality now is much flyer and smoother than it used to be. I'm slowly but surely knocking off a lot of the edges off of my methods of operation.

To me the only mental standpoint to come from is this mantra:

I'm a quality male and I'm looking for a quality woman. I know what I deserve and what I'm worth and I'll accept no less than that. If I can't find what I'm looking for again I'll accept no less and i'm perfectly fine with walking away with nothing if that isn't attainable.

Women don't fill a void in my life. My life is complete without them they are a spice to season it. they are my support but i don't need them. I would prefer to have a woman around but it isn't required. I'm perfectly comfortable riding solo.

I'm willing to be nice to people I care about but I won't allow myself to be taken advantage of by anyone. I will help people within reason if it makes sense but I won't carry anybody else's weight.

I live my life on my terms and anyone in is had better accept that or there's the door. They can exit it and they won't be missed. I don't allow myself to become attached to anything to the point where I couldn't get rid of it at a moment's notice if necessary. I won't compromise myself or change for anyone but myself and I always come first.

I enjoy vagina and sex but I could take it or leave it and not be affected at all. Getting vagina or the opportunity to get it doesn't affect my behavior in the slightest. I don't need any woman's approval because I have my own and in the end that's all that matters to me."

If all men internalized that attitude and approached the game from that standpoint they'd be good. the problem is many of us as men don't. we approach the game with this sold thought

"I want some p*ssy how can I get it?" and that's it and from that point everything done is an attempt to get p*ssy. its like Wild E Coyote chasing the Roadrunner. the plans are made and revamped all in an attempt to catch that bird with elaborate plans that typically backfire and get modified and re-ran to get it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Can I share a fukked up story with you breh??? I remember when me and one of my exes(one before last) were dating and broke up. About 2-3 weeks after we broke up Me and her were hanging out(I was a simp and trying to get her back) at her mother's house(My first time meeting her mom too). Well I was talking to her family and they loved me, were very kind and considerate, even bought some liquor and shared it with me. Well while me and her mom and sister were talking and drinking I notice my ex on her cell talking to someone the whole night. I knew it was another guy but I was thinking "Hey they can talk all they want i'm gonna take her home with me anyway and make her forget about him"...

But as the night went on we got hungry so me and my ex went out to get food for everyone, we wound up getting Chinese food. I payed for her food(). On the way there and back we were kissing and holding hands and everything...Anyway we get back to the house and we're eating when my exes cell phone rung again and it was the dude from earlier. She says "Yea i'm ready just ring the doorbell". I'm sitting there like . So the doorbell rings and it's dude and she gets up from the table tells her fam and me goodbye and leaves I look out the window and she gets in his car and they pull off. Her sister is looking at me like and her mother just sighs and shakes her head(she was used to this behavior fom her daughter) So I get up and head towards the door and i'm tipsy from the alcohol (not a heavy drinker) and I head towards the door after saying my goodbyes.

I get outside and i'm fukked up breh I can't even remember the route we took to get her mom's place(That's because we took a cab) and i'm too embarrassed to knock back on the door and ask directions. Apparently I was standing outside longer then I realized because her mom comes outside to check on me after watching me wander around for 5 minutes trying to catch a cab. I suck it up and tell her i'm having trouble remembering where the station is in that area. And I kid you not Her Mom heads upstairs puts on some walking sneakers and walks with me 10 blocks to the train station. We talked about a lot of things(mainly her daughter) and she's like "i'm sorry she abandoned you like this" "I don't know why she acts like this" "You're such a nice guy too" And i'm feeling serious ether because her mom called her to yell at her but she didn't pick up(We can all guess why). Well anyway from that day forward I vowed to never forget the kindness her mom showed me and to this day I still consider her a friend... I'm sorry this story was so long I tried to cut it short but yea breh Women man...

ive been there breh


mothers want whats best for their kids, you know how many times in my life my mom told me dont date that girl dont mess with her and you did anyways thinking you knew more only in the end to be like damn mom your right

same with these chicks out there, more times than not these moms are in horrible relationships or single mothers, thy looked as fly as their daughters did at that age and are letting em know the truth but they screw it up anyways

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

It's funny that you guys mention mothers. My ex fiancee's mother still loves me after years of us being apart. She always asks for updates on how I'm doing, where I've traveled, etc. My ex called me a few months ago and she got upset because the first thing I said was tell your mom I said hi and she ended up taking the phone haha.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I got a question. I look good, I can dress well also. But for some reason I fall out when it comes to getting girls. Maybe not exactly, like I can get a number but I can't make the full transition especially if we're texting. On top of that I never seem to find a chick that I'm highly attracted to so I settle for less. Is that my problem?

 

[MikelArteta]

It's funny that you guys mention mothers. My ex fiancee's mother still loves me after years of us being apart. She always asks for updates on how I'm doing, where I've traveled, etc. My ex called me a few months ago and she got upset because the first thing I said was tell your mom I said hi and she ended up taking the phone haha.

and how is your ex fiance doing?

i dont talk to my ex fiance but i still talk to her mom, hell i picked up her mom at the airport a few months ago and we went out to lunch

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

and how is your ex fiance doing?

i dont talk to my ex fiance but i still talk to her mom, hell i picked up her mom at the airport a few months ago and we went out to lunch

Last I heard she was on her way to becoming a nurse. She got pregnant about a year after we broke up by a guy the family dislikes. Every few months she reaches out to me. I remember when I was a few days away from leaving for basic military training she sent me a letter saying how she wishes things were different and that she's still in love with me, and doesn't love the man she's with. All this, while carrying his baby. I just chuckled.

 

[MikelArteta]

Last I heard she was on her way to becoming a nurse. She got pregnant about a year after we broke up by a guy the family dislikes. Every few months she reaches out to me. I remember when I was a few days away from leaving for basic military training she sent me a letter saying how she wishes things were different and that she's still in love with me, and doesn't love the man she's with. All this, while carrying his baby. I just chuckled.

karma stays undefeated