Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had a great date on the weekend with the Egyptian chick.

She looks like a slighty thicker Zazie Beetz. Body is crazy. And she's a cool woman. Really connected talking about our experiences. And hearing about her life before she moved to Toronto.

After a cocktail I suggested we go dancing at this carribean club. They were playing dance hall and she backed it up on me.

Saw some old jamo guys on the side looking like :shaq::mjlit:

She invited me to her place as she had to take her dog out for a walk. And I ended up staying the night. Didn't have a condom no smashing. And I'm happy she didn't give in and suggest going raw. But we did pretty much everything else.

Having a beach date with her next week. She's been very active sending me messages which is good.
Need more positive drops like this :obama:
 

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“The convo is short with you because it’s longer with someone else”


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I usually narrow it down to 2-3 women who show high interest.

On my hinge I was talking to 5 ladies, I cut them down to 2, the rest were giving me one word answers or not asking me about myself.

This is a huge thing a lot of men overlook.
End up basically interviewing a girl when she is showing no interest in you, just enjoying the attention.
 

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At the end of the day youre kinda damned if you do, damned if you dont as men

Get a girlfriend, and be subjected to all her stupidity but you at least have some steady p*ssy and stability in life
Be single and be subjected to chasing p*ssy and a lot of women's stupidity but at least you get to do what you want

Despite never cheating, I honestly dont really judge men who do. Women dont understand a fraction of the shyt they put us through or make us deal with while being in relationships with them. Managing the relationship is a full time job, and its extremely unheralded.
 
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At the end of the day youre kinda damned if you do, damned if you dont as men

Get a girlfriend, and be subjected to all her stupidity but you at least have some steady p*ssy and stability in life
Be single and be subjected to chasing p*ssy and a lot of women's stupidity but at least you get to do what you want

Despite never cheating, I honestly dont really judge men who do. Women dont understand a fraction of the shyt they put us through or make us deal with while being in relationships with them. Managing the relationship is a full time job, and its extremely unheralded.

This really been one of the biggest mind fukks of my adult life. Actually seeing nikkas who cheat as rational men. :wow:
Cold perhaps, but rational. :wow:
 
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This really been on of the biggest mind fukks of my adult life. Actually seeing nikkas who cheat as rational men. :wow:
Cold perhaps, but rational. :wow:
I realized it a few years ago with one of my exes
I have a breh who cheats snd i had to tell him i understsnd it now

Also had a married couple tell me that threesomes was the key to their marriage success lol
 

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At the end of the day youre kinda damned if you do, damned if you dont as men

Get a girlfriend, and be subjected to all her stupidity but you at least have some steady p*ssy and stability in life
Be single and be subjected to chasing p*ssy and a lot of women's stupidity but at least you get to do what you want

Despite never cheating, I honestly dont really judge men who do. Women dont understand a fraction of the shyt they put us through or make us deal with while being in relationships with them. Managing the relationship is a full time job, and its extremely unheralded.

Yup women are mad fickle. One day they ready to have your children, next day they are silent and cold and planning their exit.

Even now in my life I don't mind being single at all. Less headaches. I can travel and do what I want to, spend on what I want without someone interjecting, save money because I don't have to take someone out, randomly date if I'm bored and have fun the way I want to. I'm planning on going to rwanda, uganda and kenya before the year is up and I'm going to canoodle and cavort with as many women as possible :blessed:

The last few relationships I have had all start off the the same great and then the chick just has to mess up instead of just sitting back and relaxing.

I've never cheated but as I got older even though I won't like you I don't blame men who do. Most men that cheat are driven into the arms of another woman. If most women were humble, appreciative, not aggressive, didn't let themselves go and were submissive most men wouldn't step out.
 

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This is a huge thing a lot of men overlook.
End up basically interviewing a girl when she is showing no interest in you, just enjoying the attention.

I used to try and push through that as I wanted the buns. But it would always end up the same, you chasing, her giving dry answers until she fades or her agreeing to a date and there being no chemistry.

These days I demand a back and forth. I want mutual interest and any woman with her head on right, wants to know more about you. And you about her.

I’m a lot better at it these days was talking to this chick recently on Tinder who liked my profile. She was sexy, but man the convo was bad, I would try to engage and she would give the driest answers. She also had no sense of humour. I unmatched her ass.

And that’s what I’ve done for a ton of chicks this year who dont fit what I expect from basic male/ female communication.
 

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Yup women are mad fickle. One day they ready to have your children, next day they are silent and cold and planning their exit.

Even now in my life I don't mind being single at all. Less headaches. I can travel and do what I want to, spend on what I want without someone interjecting, save money because I don't have to take someone out, randomly date if I'm bored and have fun the way I want to. I'm planning on going to rwanda, uganda and kenya before the year is up and I'm going to canoodle and cavort with as many women as possible :blessed:

The last few relationships I have had all start off the the same great and then the chick just has to mess up instead of just sitting back and relaxing.

I've never cheated but as I got older even though I won't like you I don't blame men who do. Most men that cheat are driven into the arms of another woman. If most women were humble, appreciative, not aggressive, didn't let themselves go and were submissive most men wouldn't step out.
its the bold for me. these women...especially black women are mad stubborn bro.
they operate with a guilty until proven innocent mentality and make you climb a mountain just to prove they should follow your lead.
 

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At the end of the day youre kinda damned if you do, damned if you dont as men

Get a girlfriend, and be subjected to all her stupidity but you at least have some steady p*ssy and stability in life
Be single and be subjected to chasing p*ssy and a lot of women's stupidity but at least you get to do what you want

Despite never cheating, I honestly dont really judge men who do. Women dont understand a fraction of the shyt they put us through or make us deal with while being in relationships with them. Managing the relationship is a full time job, and its extremely unheralded.
Woof. I got a good one, very few of those issues
 
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