Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If you've been eating on bumble, you'll be eating like goku at dinner on hinge

Hinge is 100 times better than bumble

Literally the only app you can filter by race, only thing crap about it is they hide the top chicks behind these stupid roses.
I’ll check them out. Good looking out.
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas
What happened with the break-up?

Either way she’s clearly not interested so it’s that simple.
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas
hit the gym and hit these apps. you will find someone else you broke up for a reason. just gotta be a man about it and move on. find a new hobby too.
 

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What happened with the break-up?

Either way she’s clearly not interested so it’s that simple.

Honestly we were off and on for 4 years but always bounced back. Last February we had a big fight but we were still fukking and doing relationship stuff. At some point during that summer she met another guy. Ended up dropping the bomb on me day after Halloween that she was seeing someone. Naturally I spent the next few weeks trying to “win her back”. Obviously that didn’t work.

:yeshrug:

Lesson learned. You’re right. She moved on and I need to do the same NOW. shyt just wild to me how anytime I was gonna leave her she would beg and cry and I kept the relationship going. Roles reversed and I might as well have been a can of paint.
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas

Here's the thing, and I know I'm parroting myself at this point, what you read on here even from guys like me, is a very tiny percentage of men who know how to talk to and have sex with women....there's an even lower percentage of men, who get the women they actually prefer. You can't live your life like mine or anyone else, if you first haven't trained. The problem with game and everything pick up is that it requires you to develop a new mantra, a work ethic if you will, its not just the musings of guys getting laid, its a structured platform you need to ascend to...

Or don't, the reality is that most men are fine with being squares and simping for women. Its the norm, the minority here, are the men actually getting women on the regular and doing what they want. With that posted, getting over someone is about the space you create, go outside, talk to women, read, workout, invest your time in a hobby, a real hobby, that consumes your time, hang around different neighborhoods, walk around, get into listening to music, etc. All this comes with a mantra, your thoughts of her have to be comparative to your greatness, she's only given value by you, she's not adding anything to your greatness.

Now...you have to be brutally honest with yourself....could you very well be a simp? Are you not fit to actually be out here talking to countless women, working out on your form, body and mind? Do you just want to be normal and try to win back, ex after ex? These questions you need to ask yourself repeatedly, because my advice may be top tier, but many men out there still won't touch the platform even if they know it'll make them better.
 

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Honestly we were off and on for 4 years but always bounced back. Last February we had a big fight but we were still fukking and doing relationship stuff. At some point during that summer she met another guy. Ended up dropping the bomb on me day after Halloween that she was seeing someone. Naturally I spent the next few weeks trying to “win her back”. Obviously that didn’t work.

:yeshrug:

Lesson learned. You’re right. She moved on and I need to do the same NOW. shyt just wild to me how anytime I was gonna leave her she would beg and cry and I kept the relationship going. Roles reversed and I might as well have been a can of paint.
Makes sense. She begged and cried because she didn’t have a better option. “Off/On” and she found a better option for just On apparently.

Sounds like it wasn’t that serious for you. Just gotta move on, it’s like that some times.
Here's the thing, and I know I'm parroting myself at this point, what you read on here even from guys like me, is a very tiny percentage of men who know how to talk to and have sex with women....there's an even lower percentage of men, who get the women they actually prefer. You can't live your life like mine or anyone else, if you first haven't trained. The problem with game and everything pick up is that it requires you to develop a new mantra, a work ethic if you will, its not just the musings of guys getting laid, its a structured platform you need to ascend to...

Or don't, the reality is that most men are fine with being squares and simping for women. Its the norm, the minority here, are the men actually getting women on the regular and doing what they want. With that posted, getting over someone is about the space you create, go outside, talk to women, read, workout, invest your time in a hobby, a real hobby, that consumes your time, hang around different neighborhoods, walk around, get into listening to music, etc. All this comes with a mantra, your thoughts of her have to be comparative to your greatness, she's only given value by you, she's not adding anything to your greatness.

Now...you have to be brutally honest with yourself....could you very well be a simp? Are you not fit to actually be out here talking to countless women, working out on your form, body and mind? Do you just want to be normal and try to win back, ex after ex? These questions you need to ask yourself repeatedly, because my advice may be top tier, but many men out there still won't touch the platform even if they know it'll make them better.
wait

Are you saying that not talking to countless women equates to being a simp? Legit asking
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas


You not the only one breh, broke up with my ex end of January.

I fukked up last night & looked at he IG. Some breh in her IG stories video called her "babe" :to:
 

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You not the only one breh, broke up with my ex end of January.

I fukked up last night & looked at he IG. Some breh in her IG stories video called her "babe" :to:

That's how women are breh the moment they are done with you they are ready for the next guy.
A chick will break up with you today and be on Hinge tomorrow.

Stop looking at social media, all it will do is hurt, can't let a broken leg heal if you always walking on it.
 

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Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex

:mjcry:

She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson

:ufdup:

I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas

We've all been there breh. It's hard when you love a woman and she doesn't want to be with you it's one of the worst feelings ever. What I've learned through life when a woman breaks up with you no matter how you feel just accept it, cut contact and move on and never look back.

She knows your number, she knows where you live, she knows your email. Never reach out and move on. Life is short imagine dying today and you spent the last few months of your life holding onto hope over someone that doesn't want you? Majority of time a woman breaks up with you it's because someone else caught her attention and she thinks she can do better than you. So let them!

Yes I know it's hard I've been there, on numerous dates and thinking of my ex. I'd even sabotage chances with women in case my ex would come back :mjlol:

It's all in our mind that's it. There is nothing at all special about our exes, if they were special they'd still be with us. Giving birth to our children, sticking by us through thick and thin but they aren't right?

Everything your ex will tell you she left you for, she will stay/overlook/forgive for the one she really wants to be with.
 

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Honestly we were off and on for 4 years but always bounced back. Last February we had a big fight but we were still fukking and doing relationship stuff. At some point during that summer she met another guy. Ended up dropping the bomb on me day after Halloween that she was seeing someone. Naturally I spent the next few weeks trying to “win her back”. Obviously that didn’t work.

:yeshrug:

Lesson learned. You’re right. She moved on and I need to do the same NOW. shyt just wild to me how anytime I was gonna leave her she would beg and cry and I kept the relationship going. Roles reversed and I might as well have been a can of paint.

Never try to win back anyone. All you do is lose your dignity.


And that's how (some) women are, you can save a woman from a burning building. Save her from an abuser, support her through a cancer battle, always be there for her . And she'll still have that talk if she ain't feeling that spark. Women don't think like men. As the breh Kevm3 says its better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver.

That's why honestly I don't feel anything when a woman tells me a sob story nowadays because I know behind every sob story there was a guy with good qualities they tossed in the trash.
 
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