Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
Good insights here. She even agrees when I said we are gonna have great sex but if it doesn’t happen tomorrow I’m moving on. Not jumping through hoops for anyone.
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If you comeback in here waffling
So logging out and in to Hinge deletes your matches ? 
Just matched a baddie about 1hr ago aswell
Edit: We back
Just matched a baddie about 1hr ago aswell
Edit: We back
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
I got abundance mindset so never that. that's why im not jumping through hoops for some ass. cause someone else out there isn't gonna put up these hoops.If you comeback in here waffling
Brandsdale
Big Yella
why wouldnt she reach out when she had a bf?Yeah they mostly are though there are solid chicks who do actually want to be friends not want a man to give them attention 2 examples.
Chick I used to see we stopped talking back in summer 2021, didnt hear a peep from her until a month ago, when she popped up saying hi randomly one night.
I asked her what’s up long time no hear etc, she's like she wants to be friends etc she misses me. Not sure why we stopped talking yada yada
I’m like are you still with your BF, she won’t even fully answer that question. Anyway I keep her at a distance as I know how she goes, a few messages for a week then she will disappear again and as I suspected she has low energy and barely reaches out but really want to be ‘friends’. Not going to even make an effort.
Another chick I used to see as a FWB we stopped as she met a guy, I stepped back so she could do what shes doing.
Then her and her man split after a few months and she got in contact and told me she missed me etc, the usual but she has shown through effort that she wants to make this friendship work, checking in on me, giving me heads up on freelance work she's heard of looking for particular people, pushing work from her business towards me, taking me out for dinner and us doing activities together, we had a conversation and both agreed, if we were not going to be honest with each other and also return energy this was never going to work.
Friendships are like romantic relationships you have to put in the upkeep and effort to keep things going well and it requires both people to want to make the effort.
Women like that I’m happy to have in my life. That first chick though she canshe cant even be honest with herself.
i understand that your female friend helps you out and yall have an agreement but wouldnt you assume she might leave you once she finds a bf? (serious question tbh)
Just seems weird for a woman to ONLY hit u up once the coast is clear of nikkas, and i say this cause I witness it sometimes and its literally happened to me more than once (once a homegirl, the second my dumbass virgo cousin)
Brandsdale
Big Yella
blind confidence >>>>>>
Action Mike
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Forced myself out a lazy dry spell now I've got four women I'm trying to remember what I said to each one
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I'd rep you but they won't let me. Thanks for giving actual advice.
Notes app is your friend. Even if it’s just 1 or 2 things to casually bring up like you remember what she says. Goes a long wayForced myself out a lazy dry spell now I've got four women I'm trying to remember what I said to each one
I think most men are good in their 30s but once the late 30s and 40s hit and all their other friends are married and have children they start really looking.