Brehs I need input. Been with my girl for a little over a year and things are all right except sometimes she talks about herself a lot, in a way that it can comes across as bragging. My folks mentioned it, my homeboys mentioned it, and some of her friends mentioned it (even though I don’t know them and really don’t see them interact, the fact that they told her the same thing supports what I’m saying).
Problem is I’ve brought it up before to her, and she’s gotten defensive, and wanted to specifically know who said it..I’m not giving up names lol but it can get annoying. Like she’ll talk about a house she just bought or the perks of her job. Bear in mind everybody don’t got it, and some some ppl are grown, working in a target warehouse. But that’s life. They don’t want to hear about the square ft of your crib, or how you get $100 per day in per diem on business trips.
How can I bring it up to make her see how it’s making people feel, without it starting an argument?