Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My wife got childhood abandonment issues and anger management issues. I’m not perfect, but this why we be beefing sometimes. For the most part, we been good for the last month.
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
Can anyone explain this to me…

I’m getting back into the casual dating thing after a while off. But I don’t really vibe with women like that. Idk, maybe I’m autistic or some shyt but…

I don’t have that natural man/woman vibe, sexual tension isn’t there. Shyt feels platonic even when I’m speaking to them online.

Maybe it’s just weird times right now but damn if it ain’t a pattern. It’s like the more I talk the more they get turned off.
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Sounds like they can smell desperation on you. I would just enjoy life, if it happens it happens. Make conversation without the goal of sex, just make convo to make convo. Learn something new about her, try out different activities outside of your comfort zone. Once you close and get over that hump of smashing one woman, you’ll slowly get the ball rolling.

Keep hitting the gym & focus on building yourself.
 
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semicko82 said:
Who said that
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Ole girl I matched on hinge :mjlol: We had great convo.. back and forth voice notes and everything:ehh: I asked for her number and I told Imma call her last night.. she said cool:ehh: I ft her and she don’t pick up she at thenail salon at 8pm:ehh::mjlol::mjlol: yeah right lmaooo..I was expecting a text or something on why she never called back:hubie: should Ido a follow up text or leave her be?
Maybe I’m overacting…
 
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Malik1time said:
Ole girl I matched on hinge :mjlol: We had great convo.. back and forth voice notes and everything:ehh: I asked for her number and I told Imma call her last night.. she said cool:ehh: I ft her and she don’t pick up she at thenail salon at 8pm:ehh::mjlol::mjlol: yeah right lmaooo..I was expecting a text or something on why she never called back:hubie: should Ido a follow up text or leave her be?
Maybe I’m overacting…
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Do whatever you want but she saw the notification that you called and she has the ability to call or text you back… if she wanted.
 
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Bashbarti said:
Do whatever you want but she saw the notification that you called and she has the ability to call or text you back… if she wanted.
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After I called.. she immediately text me she’ll call me back later.. she in the nail salon…. I said ok… she had read recipes on and saw my text at like 4in the am:hubie:
Idk if I should make a sly funny joke to her or just leave her be..
 
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Malik1time said:
Ole girl I matched on hinge :mjlol: We had great convo.. back and forth voice notes and everything:ehh: I asked for her number and I told Imma call her last night.. she said cool:ehh: I ft her and she don’t pick up she at thenail salon at 8pm:ehh::mjlol::mjlol: yeah right lmaooo..I was expecting a text or something on why she never called back:hubie: should Ido a follow up text or leave her be?
Maybe I’m overacting…
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I wouldn't even stress about it.
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
Can anyone explain this to me…

I’m getting back into the casual dating thing after a while off. But I don’t really vibe with women like that. Idk, maybe I’m autistic or some shyt but…

I don’t have that natural man/woman vibe, sexual tension isn’t there. Shyt feels platonic even when I’m speaking to them online.

Maybe it’s just weird times right now but damn if it ain’t a pattern. It’s like the more I talk the more they get turned off.
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Looks you might need to study how to flirt with Women
 
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semicko82 said:
Let her start contact. If she's interested she'll let you know
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Yeah no response by her all day.. no excuse or anything why she hasn’t called back.. I’m assuming some other guy got her ear:francis::francis:
As Omar once said “All in the game yo”:francis: damn shame.. that girl had crazy potential
 
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Malik1time said:
Yeah no response by her all day.. no excuse or anything why she hasn’t called back.. I’m assuming some other guy got her ear:francis::francis:
As Omar once said “All in the game yo”:francis: damn shame.. that girl had crazy potential
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All women got multiple brehs, in her DMs, texting her, calling her, FT her etc.

Charge it to the game, breh. That's why it's promoted that you should be getting to know many women at a time, till one wants to be exclusive.
 
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The ADD said:
Looks lame to who? Her?

Don’t let internet terms dictate your life on some pride shyt. Like no offense breh, you took the time to ask a message board advice but sending one more singular text is a bridge to far……..

I’m not saying chase her to the end of the earth but one text is not worth walking away from someone you had a good time with. Chick has a life and y’all ain’t together. At worst she doesn’t respond and you keep it pushing. At best she was actually busy with family and y’all meet up again.
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Terrible advice :mjlol:
 
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Malik1time said:
After I called.. she immediately text me she’ll call me back later.. she in the nail salon…. I said ok… she had read recipes on and saw my text at like 4in the am:hubie:
Idk if I should make a sly funny joke to her or just leave her be..
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Call her out and then block and delete
 
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