Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

If you feel like you’re carrying a convo, just end it

It should be like tennis. Hitting the ball back and forth.

Carrying a convo with no type of response back or questions asked about you will have you looking like entertainment / a clown

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah, so I got out of a relationship, been a monk mode for a bit. Plus in a new city; so trying to adjust and get out of my comfort zone a bit. Going out to bars alone, just chatting & meeting new ppl.

I definitely hate crowded places lol, i enjoy more of a chill lounge / speakeasy type of situation

gotcha. a club is prob the worst place to go dolo and then folks may look at you like you're weird lol. Id look at hitting up museums and out door events too. I say this is because most indoor things women run in packs so that tosses a wrench because of hater friends (and it sounds like you may not be skilled enough to rock a group of people in order to reach who you want).

Biggest thing is getting in proximity of folks in an environment where you can strike up organic convo about said environment

 

[J.E.T.S]

diet and water figure that out first then worry about products

get you some vitamins, a solid face mask, and toner. I use the mist and I visit an esthetician once a month.

 

[Ahadi]

Do you think suburb type of guys vs hood type of guys is like House Nikka vs Field Nikka commonality.

Im a bit tipsy, but I think there’s a correlation somewhere lol with understanding, but also, parents raising and primping you for a certain “type” of woman

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Do you think suburb type of guys vs hood type of guys is like House Nikka vs Field Nikka commonality.

Im a bit tipsy, but I think there’s a correlation somewhere lol with understanding, but also, parents raising and primping you for a certain “type” of woman

House slaves, looked “presentable”, fraternized with the slave masters’ family, did domestic house work opposed to manual labor on the field, and they were trusted. Suburban brehs (vaguely based on generalizations) , interacted with peers and their environment which may of been mostly whites if they were unlucky, rarely interacted with illegal or legal activities that required manual labor/instincts, and are one of the good ones…

The main factor in both comparisons is the white man’s role. We obviously know how they’ve deconstructed the humanity of slaves and hood brehs, but what is there for them to gain from Suburban brehs?

as far as priming.. there are parents that condition their children to be doormats (in recent yrs men, prior to that: women) or dominant (in recent yrs women, prior to that: men)

 

[Apollo Creed]

Do you think suburb type of guys vs hood type of guys is like House Nikka vs Field Nikka commonality.

Im a bit tipsy, but I think there’s a correlation somewhere lol with understanding, but also, parents raising and primping you for a certain “type” of woman

Either you look good, have money, have clout, or none. All that other stuff dont matter lol

 

[Ahadi]

Either you look good, have money, have clout, or none. All that other stuff dont matter lol

Facts

 

[Ahadi]

House slaves, looked “presentable”, fraternized with the slave masters’ family, did domestic house work opposed to manual labor on the field, and they were trusted. Suburban brehs (vaguely based on generalizations) , interacted with peers and their environment which may of been mostly whites if they were unlucky, rarely interacted with illegal or legal activities that required manual labor/instincts, and are one of the good ones…

The main factor in both comparisons is the white man’s role. We obviously know how they’ve deconstructed the humanity of slaves and hood brehs, but what is there for them to gain from Suburban brehs?

as far as priming.. there are parents that condition their children to be doormats (in recent yrs men, prior to that: women) or dominant (in recent yrs women, prior to that: men)

Great breakdown. Definitely there’s something there between the two. But also parents making their sons more “safe”

It is an interesting question tho, but they do gain a level of security in a sense

 

[Bossyyyyy]

2 dates this wknd. 2 good experiences. 2 much money out my wallet.

 

[Ahadi]

2 dates this wknd. 2 good experiences. 2 much money out my wallet.

Yup. Been there before



Did you close on both?

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Yup. Been there before



Did you close on both?

2nd link ez

 

[Serious]

Its plenty of broke nikkas who have confidence when it comes to women

I hear ya on this but it’s a different type of woman you’ll.


Every one can definitely pull some type of chick, a decent mouth piece is needed but the terms and compliance will vary depending on where you are in life.

 

[Ohene]

I hear ya on this but it’s a different type of woman you’ll.


Every one can definitely pull some type of chick, a decent mouth piece is needed but the terms and compliance will vary depending on where you are in life.

You right but it depends on your age
If youre under 25 it dont take much

i just want dudes to stop overthinking it.

you see attractive women you want, step to them and build a tolerance for rejection. Eventuslly youll learn what they respond positively too.

in the background continue to work on yourself and become the best you can be. Thats really the thread in a nutshell

 

[J Money]

get you some vitamins, a solid face mask, and toner. I use the mist and I visit an esthetician once a month.

Interesting I'll look more into it. More helpful than this useless ass cac @Babyface

Fool said diet and water

 

[DJSmooth]

What you done to your skin? I only use a face wash and cream

CHANGE YOUR SHEETS OFTEN. I wash my sheets once a week and or if I beat the breaks off of a shawty a couple of times.