Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Damn brehs Hinge ain’t for me anymore :francis:

Downloaded that shyt a week ago and haven’t gotten any likes or matches. Tinder is the same thing.

Guess I’m washed out here in my area, algorithm prolly got to me for having my old accounts since 2020, gotta move away if I want this online shyt to work out for me :yeshrug:
or maybe you could just interact with women in real life?
 

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Went to get my bloodwork done and saw this :damn:thick ass african milf waitin to get her blood work done too. Finished before her and chilled in my car and waited till she came out. She walked out and i stepped out my car with some caution mixed in with alittle rookie doubt and slurred speech due to the fact that i had no blood flow going to my brain. :lupe:

Said fukk it and approached her as she was goin to the driver side.

she was pleasant :ehh: not rude or anything like that…and told me she was married. Chopped it up for about a minute or so.

She was from cameroon and overheard her tellin the nurse she was born in 1978.

Ngl i got to work on my game…:shaq2:
what matters is that you gave it a shot my brother

ppl will clown you for waiting for shorty but if you had nothing else to do at the moment who cares? I've done similar shyt myself.

ppl act like you cant shyt and piss at the same time. one doesnt have to always be driven/focused on building and working. it is important to make time for gallivanting every now and then if you ask me
 

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How much money do I need to make to get that confident aura? Also what are other things I can do to get that confident aura?
You dont need money

you need experience, desentitization and success with women which can only come from rejection and trial and error

you only need enough money to take a chick out on a couple dates and be able to cover the bill
 

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Went out by myself to eat for my bday yesterday and this waitress was extra friendly but I paid it no mind then when I got the check I seen this


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Was kind of feeling down cuz I broke up with my shorty the day before but summer aka free agency is coming up :mjgrin:
How was goin to fogo solo? Did you sit @ the bar or ?
 

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No doubt! For now, Since we’re in spring / summer, get

Dior Homme Eau for men.

Prada Luna Rossa Carbon

Dolce Gabanna Light Blue - For Summer

Start with 2 fragrances per season. Then when you start getting comfortable, experiment with new ones & research blending

If you’re on a budget, you can cop on some sites for half the bottle / a certain amount of juice
That Prada Luna Rossa is fire!!!

i also recommend Dylan Blue and Margiela Jazz Club
 

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Brehs if you're no good in clubs, aren't on the gram ( have low following) and no good on apps

Where do you find jawns :what:

Not opposed to taking some pics with a photographer or something but still want to hear any suggestions
Grocery stores. I have a few I shop at in my city and sometimes approach women to start up short, casual conversations with. I usually start the convos with items they're carrying in their buggies, or start talking about something they're currently looking at.

The next time you go grocery shopping, try it.
 

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Grocery stores. I have a few I shop at in my city and sometimes approach women to start up short, casual conversations with. I usually start the convos with items they're carrying in their buggies, or start talking about something they're currently looking at.

The next time you go grocery shopping, try it.
second this. I always engage in small talk while waiting for my sub. You can even scan carts and throw out a remark:
“Looks like you got a party popping off tonight. Where’s my invite?” or if there’s poultry “I see you about to throw down in the kitchen tonight haha”

As natural as you can possibly get.
 

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you hate crowded places or have a fear or something?

my feeling in American clubs is more that of annoyance cause they are trash

Yeah, so I got out of a relationship, been a monk mode for a bit. Plus in a new city; so trying to adjust and get out of my comfort zone a bit. Going out to bars alone, just chatting & meeting new ppl.

I definitely hate crowded places lol, i enjoy more of a chill lounge / speakeasy type of situation
 
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