Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

Do ya send voice notes on hinge/Instagram ?
I feel like it’s better
Better interaction or am I scaring women away?

I still rather texts, I'm the kind of person who listens to music regularly, I don't want that interrupted by some bird saying "yes" or "no" or some overdrawn out explanation. The feature is cute, if you can't spell, I'm a man of letters, I'll be fine. Also you're creating a ritual, that you'll eventually get tired of, so don't do that.

 

[Killigraphy]

Fuxking with a popular stripper from the city. Should I do it brehs

She solid. We both don't do relationships but she want a fwb type situation but I don't know

Just so you understand, no matter how cool you think she is...she's a stripper, and those fall under the scumbag tree. Don't trust anything she says, and always fukk her miles away from your house. Besides that, you should be fine.

 

[Krazy]

Step away from the opposite gender and focus on your self esteem/mental health if you have to bruhs. Prioritize yourself before anything else , bytches ain’t going nowhere. Hoping y’all start the next week off strong and in the right mind state!

This what im on trying to focus on now.

Chicks come and go.
Don't ignore your mental health for the sake of keeping chicks entertained.
Only so long until shyt hits the fan and it affects everything else.

 

[MikelArteta]

Anyways we both decided to end it. I was getting frustrated as she would write these long ass messages how she felt about me and I'd be like cool that's nice, and then she'd get angry that I wouldn't reciprocate what she was writing or saying. I already told her early on and kept saying over and over again that words don't really mean anything to me and I show I care by actions etc. I can say a,b,c,d,e,f,g yet i'm smashing every girl in site or I can say nothing and treat you well :kanye:

But it's all good I am who I am and she is who she is.

 

[The ADD]

Anyways we both decided to end it. I was getting frustrated as she would write these long ass messages how she felt about me and I'd be like cool that's nice, and then she'd get angry that I wouldn't reciprocate what she was writing or saying. I already told her early on and kept saying over and over again that words don't really mean anything to me and I show I care by actions etc. I can say a,b,c,d,e,f,g yet i'm smashing every girl in site or I can say nothing and treat you well :kanye:

But it's all good I am who I am and she is who she is.

Well damn

 

[VertigoKnight]

Anyways we both decided to end it. I was getting frustrated as she would write these long ass messages how she felt about me and I'd be like cool that's nice, and then she'd get angry that I wouldn't reciprocate what she was writing or saying. I already told her early on and kept saying over and over again that words don't really mean anything to me and I show I care by actions etc. I can say a,b,c,d,e,f,g yet i'm smashing every girl in site or I can say nothing and treat you well :kanye:

But it's all good I am who I am and she is who she is.

Damn breh, already?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

The girl I been talking to forever has been on one like no other. When I was home for spring break everything went well. We went out to eat, hung out with friends, I smashed etc. but ever since I been back where I’m living she’s been on bs. She was supposed to come a couple weeks ago, ditched me without any response. Finally got her to talk again and she’s blaming it on depressing and not “being there” recently. And ever since then it’s been hard for me to get her to communicate with me. I send these nice ass texts and go outta my way to help her in other areas even when I’m not in town to see her. Yet she’s been ignoring for the most part and when she does respond she’s real shytty. Talking about im not gonna make her feel bad for how she feels so she’s unapologetic. I’m like goofy ur not even respecting how I feel got me putting in this work this entire time and now I’m being treated like a scrub. U be all over social media and I know U be going out. I asked her last night is she still coming next week like she said she would. No response


But check this out. An old fling of mine from 6 years ago hit me up recently. Told me she caught her man cheating. And then she went into detail about how he’s been with her lately while she’s putting in all this work. Her story sounds exactly like mine. We over here bonding how both not shyt. I tell her it’s been years since I seen her and she could come visit whenever she wants. I even said this weekend. She straight up asked are we fukking cause she wants too. At first I’m like ehhh idk because I really like oh girl but man I’m at the final straw I’m tired of being treated like shyt when I’ve been a great dude.


So basically I’m getting some this weekend and rightfully so. Can’t keep treating nice people who genuinely care about u and put hella time and work in, yet do the minimum, and treat them like shyt then expect them not to move different.


I don’t feel bad about it at all

 

[Ahadi]

Anyways we both decided to end it. I was getting frustrated as she would write these long ass messages how she felt about me and I'd be like cool that's nice, and then she'd get angry that I wouldn't reciprocate what she was writing or saying. I already told her early on and kept saying over and over again that words don't really mean anything to me and I show I care by actions etc. I can say a,b,c,d,e,f,g yet i'm smashing every girl in site or I can say nothing and treat you well :kanye:

But it's all good I am who I am and she is who she is.

Y’all should talk it out lol. I don’t think you should of ended it like that. Writing messages / notes could be a love language of hers. Besides physical touch, you should express to her what languages you enjoy.

You both should honestly sit down and figure out a dynamic that works. Seems like she put in a lot of effort from when you were sick, to ordering you pizza.

 

[The ADD]

The girl I been talking to forever has been on one like no other. When I was home for spring break everything went well. We went out to eat, hung out with friends, I smashed etc. but ever since I been back where I’m living she’s been on bs. She was supposed to come a couple weeks ago, ditched me without any response. Finally got her to talk again and she’s blaming it on depressing and not “being there” recently. And ever since then it’s been hard for me to get her to communicate with me. I send these nice ass texts and go outta my way to help her in other areas even when I’m not in town to see her. Yet she’s been ignoring for the most part and when she does respond she’s real shytty. Talking about im not gonna make her feel bad for how she feels so she’s unapologetic. I’m like goofy ur not even respecting how I feel got me putting in this work this entire time and now I’m being treated like a scrub. U be all over social media and I know U be going out. I asked her last night is she still coming next week like she said she would. No response


But check this out. An old fling of mine from 6 years ago hit me up recently. Told me she caught her man cheating. And then she went into detail about how he’s been with her lately while she’s putting in all this work. Her story sounds exactly like mine. We over here bonding how both not shyt. I tell her it’s been years since I seen her and she could come visit whenever she wants. I even said this weekend. She straight up asked are we fukking cause she wants too. At first I’m like ehhh idk because I really like oh girl but man I’m at the final straw I’m tired of being treated like shyt when I’ve been a great dude.


So basically I’m getting some this weekend and rightfully so. Can’t keep treating nice people who genuinely care about u and put hella time and work in, yet do the minimum, and treat them like shyt then expect them not to move different.


I don’t feel bad about it at all

Just my opinion for LDRs simply do not work unless your were truly together and it's a temporary situation

 

[The ADD]

Y’all should talk it out lol. I don’t think you should of ended it like that. Writing messages / notes could be a love language of hers. Besides physical touch, you should express to her what languages you enjoy.

You both should honestly sit down and figure out a dynamic that works. Seems like she put in a lot of effort from when you were sick, to ordering you pizza.

^^^

 

[MikelArteta]

Y’all should talk it out lol. I don’t think you should of ended it like that. Writing messages / notes could be a love language of hers. Besides physical touch, you should express to her what languages you enjoy.

You both should honestly sit down and figure out a dynamic that works. Seems like she put in a lot of effort from when you were sick, to ordering you pizza.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Just my opinion for LDRs simply do not work unless your were truly together and it's a temporary situation

The thing is I’m moving back within a month. Lol.


All I’m asking from her is more communication. I know people are depressed out here and it’s a struggle. But her ass be going out and doing gods know what. I ask for the bare minimum. Yet I’m getting no response. They say no response is a response but I’m not taking that from someone I put hella work in with and I’ve treated nicely for the most part. Like we been talking FOREVER hooking up and going out together. I deserved at least a i no longer wanna talk text i could somewhat deal with that but this no response shyt legit got me heated


So now I’m fukking someone else this weekend

 

[The ADD]

The thing is I’m moving back within a month. Lol.


All I’m asking from her is more communication. I know people are depressed out here and it’s a struggle. But her ass be going out and doing gods know what. I ask for the bare minimum. Yet I’m getting no response. They say no response is a response but I’m not taking that from someone I put hella work in with and I’ve treated nicely for the most part. Like we been talking FOREVER hooking up and going out together. I deserved at least a i no longer wanna talk text i could somewhat deal with that but this no response shyt legit got me heated


So now I’m fukking someone else this weekend

Gotcha. Sounds like she doesn't want to move forward knowing you will be back soon.

To be clear are yall a couple or not?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Gotcha. Sounds like she doesn't want to move forward knowing you will be back soon.

To be clear are yall a couple or not?

What do you mean by that statement bruh?



and we aren’t dating but we made it clear that we were “exclusive” and only talking and hooking up with each other. Everyone we knows we got a thing going on.

but it’s not official

if that makes sense

 

[The ADD]

What do you mean by that statement bruh?



and we aren’t dating but we made it clear that we were “exclusive” and only talking and hooking up with each other. Everyone we knows we got a thing going on.

but it’s not official

if that makes sense

You have been talking forever and now within a month of you being back to her location she's starting to grow distance. Sounds like the prospect of you being back and staying in the situation isn't what she wants anymore.

Also it sounds like you are putting in a lot of work for essentially a FWB