Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Malik1time

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Do ya send voice notes on hinge/Instagram ?:patrice::patrice:
I feel like it’s better:patrice:
Better interaction or am I scaring women away?
 

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For you brehs just wanting to fukk but finding chicks are playing games making you wait remember this these chicks are going on trips, having one night stands, nikkas they've met through an acquaintance, workmates, Uni guys etc all smash after a short time. The question is why should you wait, if she aint with it then keep her on the back burner or dead it.

I say this to say I spent the weekend with my Boy and we talked about chicks we hit or other brehs have:dame: and most times they weren't even in relationships it just happened they smashed with minimal effort and after a short period. For example theres a group of chicks we both know and he's fukked 3 and Ive done 2, all with minimal effort just proximity and getting them comfortable all while never being in any kind of relationship and these chicks go on like its nothing.

To add these chicks arent super strong willed and chaste as society portrays, they're just as or even more carnal than us which can easily be exposed.

Trust and believe these chicks are fukking, why not let it be you just gotta get out you own head and proceed.

Now for you ignorant negroes wanting to fall in love, buying a bytch chawklat, flowerz and treating her better than the carnal chick she is:hubie:
 

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For you brehs just wanting to fukk but finding chicks are playing games making you wait remember this these chicks are going on trips, having one night stands, nikkas they've met through an acquaintance, workmates, Uni guys etc all smash after a short time. The question is why should you wait, if she aint with it then keep her on the back burner or dead it.

I say this to say I spent the weekend with my Boy and we talked about chicks we hit or other brehs have:dame: and most times they weren't even in relationships it just happened they smashed with minimal effort and after a short period. For example theres a group of chicks we both know and he's fukked 3 and Ive done 2, all with minimal effort just proximity and getting them comfortable all while never being in any kind of relationship and these chicks go on like its nothing.

To add these chicks arent super strong willed and chaste as society portrays, they're just as or even more carnal than us which can easily be exposed.

Trust and believe these chicks are fukking, why not let it be you just gotta get out you own head and proceed.

Now for you ignorant negroes wanting to fall in love, buying a bytch chawklat, flowerz and treating her better than the carnal chick she is:hubie:

1000%

That’s why if I’m not meeting with a woman the same day / or a few days after. I’m dubbing it.

Same with replies, if the replies aren’t consistent. I’m talking 3-4 hours / 1-day later. I’m dubbing it. All that “I don’t check the app or phone” is cap.

Women out here are fukking and brehs gotta know their worth. Just think back on the last time you smashed, it was never this complex or jump through many hoops.

Never wait. There’s an abundance of women.
 
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Do ya send voice notes on hinge/Instagram ?:patrice::patrice:
I feel like it’s better:patrice:
Better interaction or am I scaring women away?

Get the number.
Call her
Speak on the phone no longer than 5-10 mins
Then YOU end the call & set up a time to meet in real time.

If your voice is weak, lay down while speaking to women or hire a vocal coach.
 

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Fuxking with a popular stripper from the city. Should I do it brehs :patrice:

She solid. We both don't do relationships but she want a fwb type situation but I don't know :picard:

I'd just enjoy my time with her till things run it's course. It won't ever turn into a real functioning relationship and she will still be fukking people on the side from time to time.
 

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As well as wins have to post the L's although I don't really see this as one.

So me and one of my OG roster called it time today. I switched up how I dealt with the women in my life back in 2021, openness and honesty were how I was going to deal with the relationships in my life. I tell women upfront when I meet them how I'm living my life and they can decide if that's for them or not. As I was done leaving damaged women for other guys to bare the brunt of.

Our agreement like with all the women I see was that if either of us felt that our arrangement was no longer serving us we should leave things as respectfully as possible. Been seeing her since just before covid locked everything down in 2020.

I know she was dating recently, but her friends are all getting married and engaged rapidly and I know she was pining to. Started dating her when she was 25, now she's a good age to begin to get serious with someone.

I'd already been upfront and told her I could never see myself getting married again. But I told her I enjoyed our time together. She's a great young woman, very caring, decent and I hope she finds what she's seeking with this guy. I also told her it's probably best we not be messaging each other for a while. If she wants to make a real serious go of it.

I'll miss her as the sex was top-notch and I was her first time for a lot of things :shaq:. But sometimes things can't stay like this forever, and new me is not in the business of wasting someone's time.

EDIT: found the first post I made about her back from March 2020

:lolbron:

Had two new ones added to my team

First a half jap chick, she's fun but had her period, so sucking only. Seeing her again later this week at her place.

But the one I met on Saturday:wow: Been talking to her for a week but we arranged for the weekend to finally meet.

She liked me on Tinder and as I still had gold, so I checked out her profile. She was a bit mysterious at first, none of her pics showed her face clearly. She's a 25yr old PAAG (a proper one, her booty is juicy) very sexy but looks prim, proper and respectable, she's like 5'3.

Whole week we were back and forth, usually I try to keep communication to a minimum before a date but she was engaging enough with enough hints that she was a bit of a wildcat. Anyway Saturday evening comes we meet up go for dinner, then drinks, kissed her at the cocktail place and told her lets go back to mine. Pretty much got into it. Her head skills are phenomenal.

She was wearing tights and through them I could feel how wet she was. She told me she had been wet for me since we were at dinner.

We smashed then cleaned up and got into bed. At 4 in the morning I wake up and she's pushing herself against me. I feel her puss and she was crazy wet, smashed again. Smashed twice more before she left at 3 in the afternoon yesterday.

She's off work this week so she said she should come round and have dinner at my place.
 
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