Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Doin2Much Williams]

Standard, your superbowl story was truly really super duper awesome...


but that Oxytocin burst story you shared more than made up for it.


The contemporary jezebel is as frequent in society as birds on a wire. You just have to keep an eye out and literally engage with as many women as possible to find the quality makes of the world. *sighs* Sounds like quite a daunting journey tbh.


Joe hit the nail on the pail when he said,


"Why are all the good girls.. taken err time!".


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[CrossBones]

The Marquis de Sevigne was inexperienced in the art of love. He confided in the infamous courtesan of seventeenth-century France, Ninon de Lenclos, to instruct him on how to seduce a difficult young countess. She made him follow a plan over a number of weeks, where the Marquis would be appearing in public always surrounded by beautiful women, in the very places the countess would be expected to see him. He was supposed to assume an air of nonchalance. This increased the jealousy of the young countess, who was not sure of his interest in her. One day the Marquis, unable to control his passion, broke from Ninon’s plan, and blurted out to the countess that he loved her. After this admission, the countess no longer found him interesting and avoided him.


The whole premise of dating is based on games, wild moves and being unpredictable. If you display your feelings too soon it becomes an artless show of passion. A door closed that would never open again. In seduction, set up conflicting^ signals, such as desire and indifference, and you not only throw them off the scent, you inflame their desire to possess you.

 

[sixsixtwo]

REX PATRIARCH: When They Say Man Up You Better Man Out

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Lure Of The Golden p*ssy « Paradigm Shift

 

[winb83]

One thing I've noticed is when you don't have a girlfriend around your money is much better. I noticed I don't really need that much money to live. I make an average wage but with no girlfriend and no kids and no responsibilities I live a life where anything within reason I want I can have. I just dropped $1700 on a big screen TV and financially it doesn't even effect me at all where as when I had women in my pockets my paper was never right enough to buy something like that.

Seriously one day I just woke up and realized there's nothing in this world a woman can provide that I actually need or can't at some level provide for myself or get elsewhere.

I've come to accept that if you want women in your life you're gonna have to pay a price. Women aren't free they come with direct and indirect cost both financially and mentally. When I get my life in order I'll get back to dating but my attitude is gonna straight up be woman I don't need you for nothing and I'm not doing shyt if you don't like it there's the door and you won't be missed. I won't be your man, I won't meet your family or friends and you won't meet mine. We can chill, fukk, and enjoy each others company but that as far as this is going an the moment you can't accept that I'm out.

 

[CrossBones]

One thing I've noticed is when you don't have a girlfriend around your money is much better. I noticed I don't really need that much money to live. I make an average wage but with no girlfriend and no kids and no responsibilities I live a life where anything within reason I want I can have. I just dropped $1700 on a big screen TV and financially it doesn't even effect me at all where as when I had women in my pockets my paper was never right enough to buy something like that.

Seriously one day I just woke up and realized there's nothing in this world a woman can provide that I actually need or can't at some level provide for myself or get elsewhere.

I've come to accept that if you want women in your life you're gonna have to pay a price. Women aren't free they come with direct and indirect cost both financially and mentally. When I get my life in order I'll get back to dating but my attitude is gonna straight up be woman I don't need you for nothing and I'm not doing shyt if you don't like it there's the door and you won't be missed. I won't be your man, I won't meet your family or friends and you won't meet mine. We can chill, fukk, and enjoy each others company but that as far as this is going an the moment you can't accept that I'm out.

whats good is when youre straight out the gate with the truth, you let everything be known up front so you can always walk without having to explain yourself, or have any stress over her not getting it or misleading her. if she wasnt down, then she never had to get down with you. she knew beforehand what it is

 

[DaRealness]

Check out the manginas in this thread:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...ntly-relationship-woman-kid.html#.UQwZ597EQ_c

It's always interesting that men are supposed to just accept a woman's mistakes and take on her brood and all the baggage that comes with it, but when it's us it's another story.

You're a single man with no children and managed to avoid that "mistake" yourself and have everything going for you, but somehow you're not a "real man" because you don't want to play second fiddle and take on a woman (who probably would have never checked for you BEFORE the kids came along) with her children while her other man just lays in the cut...yet somehow YOU are a part of the problem of single parenthood in the black community.

145 I don't want a man with kids, I need a REAL man to take care of mine (by RexxSeven) - YouTube

Exactly my point.

 

[CrossBones]

you need to be very careful about what a woman wants to advertise out there. the more pronounced she is about getting that point across, the more likely shes bullshytting you.

a woman might say that she is "drama free" "classy" "down to earth" or even "looking for a good man" when really all you see is that she is full of drama, crass/argumentative, head in the clouds, and steading fukking with the players who dont want to settle with her ass. at first, when getting to know someone, look at their actions and believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear, word to hov.

real folks dont have to advertise theyre real all the time.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Sandy_Cheeks]

Take ecstasy, save your relationship - Salon.com

"Women naturally product oxytocin bursts during sex which promote long-term emotional attachment to the man she's banging. This is nature's way of promoting an ideal two-parent family structure that is likely to endure at least until the children are able to start taking care of themselves.

But what we see now is that women spend so many years riding the cock carousel and fukking dozens of men that their brains become less sensitive to the oxytocin bursts they receive from sex. So over time, women gradually lose the ability to emotionally pair bond with the man they're having sex with. So the poor b*stard who settles down with the early-30s veteran carousel rider has no chance. As soon as she pumps out a couple of kids, her brain has no more use for the guy. Her emotional bond with him was so shallow from the get-go because she spent an entire decade getting pumped and dumped by a string of alphas. Her oxytocin receptors are shot from the constant highs and lows she received with every new pump and subsequent dump.

This is another reason why virginity was so highly valued in the past (and still is today by some). Beyond the guarantee of paternity, marrying a virgin greatly enhanced family stability. In the old days, the idea of marrying today's average carousel rider would have been as absurd and disgusting to most men as marrying a prostitute. But that's basically what men are doing now.

It's terrifying to realize that the average Western girl today has the emotional brain chemistry of a prostitute, and is so emotionally damaged from years of carousel riding that she needs ecstasy therapy to even have a chance of remaining emotionally bonded to the father of her children."

This is cray

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

One thing I've noticed is when you don't have a girlfriend around your money is much better. I noticed I don't really need that much money to live. I make an average wage but with no girlfriend and no kids and no responsibilities I live a life where anything within reason I want I can have. I just dropped $1700 on a big screen TV and financially it doesn't even effect me at all where as when I had women in my pockets my paper was never right enough to buy something like that.

Seriously one day I just woke up and realized there's nothing in this world a woman can provide that I actually need or can't at some level provide for myself or get elsewhere.

I've come to accept that if you want women in your life you're gonna have to pay a price. Women aren't free they come with direct and indirect cost both financially and mentally. When I get my life in order I'll get back to dating but my attitude is gonna straight up be woman I don't need you for nothing and I'm not doing shyt if you don't like it there's the door and you won't be missed. I won't be your man, I won't meet your family or friends and you won't meet mine. We can chill, fukk, and enjoy each others company but that as far as this is going an the moment you can't accept that I'm out.

We bear your children.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

We bear your children.

He said things he needs. Children don't fall under that category.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

He said things he needs. Children don't fall under that category.

true.

He needs Love though :inlove:

 

[young3000]

The ratchness of some of these women just have me some men too but its widely known that some of us only think with 1 head

So I'm at this diner with this chick and we're eating and talking...we start discussing our friends. She tells me none of her female friends are faithful Then she tells me about one of friends who is 31 and has a kid that her mother keeps, met a dude on POF. Nothing wrong with that except for ol girl had a man in the military who is good and faithful to her. She meets this dude off pof and its strictly sex and she lets dude bust in her a few times (no birth control either) and ends up pregnant.

Chick is like 3 or 4 months pregnant and gets an abortion and pof dude doesn't help pay or go for support. After she has the procedure the pof dude text her saying when can they have sex again

She ends up telling the military dude and he wants nothing to do with her. She supposely got his name tatted on her to prove her loyalty to him. All this was back in mid Dec. So today I go on to pof to see if any new fish are on there and I see this harlot on there with the headline “I'm Back on Here Again” These hoes man

 

[Turbulent]

true.

He needs Love though :inlove:

men don't "need" love the same way women "need" love. and it's not the same type of love either.

if you want to truly learn how guys think and feel on a very basic level, listen to the Black Phillip series.