I have never been one to talk down on dudes cause I have been there. But some ppl havent made any progress.
I remember being 19-20 years at a PWI going through my first break up, distraught (crying to my mom on the phone like a
bytch due a lack of moms sympathy), feeling ok just getting residual white p*ssy from my white roommates bytches' friends and shyt.
Then eventually i had to look around me, see all the beautiful women around, look at myself in the mirror, realize i was wasting my potential and take matters into my own hands. All of a sudden i started participating in school clubs, going to the gym with my roommates who were rugby players, talking to random shorties / customers at work, got an internship, got another gf off cold approaching while commuting home from said internship, graduated, saved money, moved out my parents crib to Toronto, and wreaked havoc. As crazy as it may sound, 10 years later I as well as other posters in here have gone from being the students to the teacher.
shyt isnt going to happen overnight. You can either sacrifice, step out your comfort zones and put in the work. Or you can let life pass you by and be a decrepit loser in the future. Its really that simple.
It's either in you or it isnt though. For the few in the former, reading this might actually motivate you. For most in the latter group, it unfortunately wont do shyt. It's the pyramid/totem pole of society I guess.