Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Aight thanks for sharing breh.

It’s not as bad as I thought.

Yeah it’s fukked up, but it’s definitely more mild then I thought.

Everyone you’re dealing with is capable of lying and withholding information.

This happens all time imo. The degree to which it’s done varies.


Also googling a chick is standard practice.
 

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Aight thanks for sharing breh.

It’s not as bad as I thought.

Yeah it’s fukked up, but it’s definitely more mild then I thought.

Everyone you’re dealing with is capable of lying and withholding information.

This happens all time imo. The degree to which it’s done varies.


Also googling a chick is standard practice.
yeah but this was a little more than just withholding info. ive dealt with girls not telling the full story but she made a whole identity basically and everything was lies. I dont even know who this woman really is and she was sleeping in my bed with me :damn:. It was wicked how she got me to trust her lowkey.

scary thing is shes may try to come back. idk what her plan is but im going to be radio silent and if she pulls up out of the blue she getting shot :pachaha:.
 

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yeah but this was a little more than just withholding info. ive dealt with girls not telling the full story but she made a whole identity basically and everything was lies. I dont even know who this woman really is and she was sleeping in my bed with me :damn:

scary thing is shes may try to come back. idk what her plan is but im going to be radio silent and if she pulls up out of the blue she getting shot :pachaha:.
I hear you, but reformed hoes are a thing.

A woman lying about their history aint as far fetched as it seems. I actually expect it tbh, especially when it seems to good to be true.

The best ones are the open book women who’ll legit tell you everything about themselves upfront.


I was talking to a shorty like this recently and it was quite amenable for her not to put on the innocent good girl act. She legit would state how many nikkas she fukked.

How she cheat on a good dude when she was younger and haven’t been able to get into a serious relationship since.

She also gave the rundown about what it takes to smash. How soon she usually fukks. Let be know that she likes to fukk raw and doesn’t have kids right now because she knows the connection wouldn’t be genuine and she’d be stuck raising them herself.
 

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There's a reason I didn't want to post now im waiting for some dust to settle but since yall keep pushing ill give a short less detailed answer since idk if this demonic chick got fam lurking on here.

I got this urge in my gut after something happened to see if she is really sick. Eventually after searching around fb and Google (before u ask why i didnt already have her socials i asked for her ig early on and she said she doesnt have one but her profile pops up in my suggestions on fb. I dont use fb like that so only thing I did was look at her page once but it was private and I could only see pics I didn't think nothing of it but I never looked at her family member's pages.) I found out this chick had a baby at 18 told none of her family she was preg and she tried to hide it by killing it right after she had it. She got out of prison a decade later and met me a shortly after she got out. She then lied about her backstory and created a nice, innocent good woman persona like almost too good to be true(had me like she has no red flags besides me thinking how did a woman like this make it to her late 20s and not get swooped up asap but she lied and said she doesnt really date too often and hasnt had a ltr since college) to manipulate me and now is fading away because she got what she wanted. Her whole story about being sick is most likely a grandiose lie... like a sociopath would tell. I looked up sociopath symptoms and almost every symptom I recall situations that matched up. I dont want to put more details in public but if u have specific questions u can pm me

She was a legit demon. From here on out I'm googling every chicks name + their hometown to see if I find anything

Cool. I pretty much get the picture of the type of chick you were dealing with. She's beyond sick. She sounds like a psychopathic movie character.

I was gonna ask if she knows where you live, but you answered it. Hopefully you didn't go raw at any time and hopefully she doesn't show up at your front door, but if you have cameras that would be better. It goes without saying keep the fukk away from her but you already know it.

You know what they say, if anything appears too good to be true....
 

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What happened? Message me. Either way, good that you found out now, before it came to bite you in the ass, and like I said, all of them are the same, just different temperament.
So you don't think they are any Good woman. I mean everyone has flaws but to you there is no situation where it's worth marrying one of them?
 
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Bruh i was jus at the store getn my gf roses n shyt….and this old bytch infront of me is takn forver!!! Arguing about her stuff….so after mins i get visibly annoyed….

and this white hoe(probably 45?) with her daughter behind me is like “dont u hate when this happens haha” and i said yeah…than she start talkn superbowl,my hat,me being tall and what kinda work i do…if this bytch was super bad n if i didnt have roses(coulda lied n said they was for fam lol)
…i woulda just got a # n fukked..

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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There's a reason I didn't want to post now im waiting for some dust to settle but since yall keep pushing ill give a short less detailed answer since idk if this demonic chick got fam lurking on here.

I got this urge in my gut after something happened to see if she is really sick. Eventually after searching around fb and Google (before u ask why i didnt already have her socials i asked for her ig early on and she said she doesnt have one but her profile pops up in my suggestions on fb. I dont use fb like that so only thing I did was look at her page once but it was private and I could only see pics I didn't think nothing of it but I never looked at her family member's pages.) I found out this chick had a baby at 18 told none of her family she was preg and she tried to hide it by killing it right after she had it. She got out of prison a decade later and met me a shortly after she got out. She then lied about her backstory and created a nice, innocent good woman persona like almost too good to be true(had me like she has no red flags besides me thinking how did a woman like this make it to her late 20s and not get swooped up asap but she lied and said she doesnt really date too often and hasnt had a ltr since college) to manipulate me and now is fading away because she got what she wanted. Her whole story about being sick is most likely a grandiose lie... like a sociopath would tell. I looked up sociopath symptoms and almost every symptom I recall situations that matched up. I dont want to put more details in public but if u have specific questions u can pm me

She was a legit demon. From here on out I'm googling every chicks name + their hometown to see if I find anything

Pass the Mayo pls my nikka :feedme:
 

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BLK really full of fat bytches :francis:
Bro blk was decent a yr or 2 ago in atl.

Now it's filled with weirdos prostitutes and trannies

After my last situation I'm recommending brehs to get off all the low quality hookup apps and approach in person and just use hinge if u want to do online dating. for some reason there's at least some quality on there.
 

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After doing some reflecting I'm going back to approaching heavy.

Before covid I was out at bars and clubs approaching every weekend and using apps during the week

After covid I mainly used apps and approached occasionally. Was definitely getting a lot of play online but I've met some strange chicks on there along the way.

I had a trip already planned so I'm out here trying to knock off some rust. Approached about 5 women yesterday got rejected by all of em. It felt good to be back in the hunt though :ehh:. I didn't have any approach anxiety either. In my mind it was like breh I was just dating a legit psycho. These girls cant say shyt to me to top that:mjlol:. I'm using this bad situation as fuel.


Maybe will try to approach 2-3 women a day to knock the rust off. Wish me well.
 

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After doing some reflecting I'm going back to approaching heavy.

Before covid I was out at bars and clubs approaching every weekend and using apps during the week

After covid I mainly used apps and approached occasionally. Was definitely getting a lot of play online but I've met some strange chicks on there along the way.

I had a trip already planned so I'm out here trying to knock off some rust. Approached about 5 women yesterday got rejected by all of em. It felt good to be back in the hunt though :ehh:. I didn't have any approach anxiety either. In my mind it was like breh I was just dating a legit psycho. These girls cant say shyt to me to top that:mjlol:. I'm using this bad situation as fuel.


Maybe will try to approach 2-3 women a day to knock the rust off. Wish me well.

breh you need to sit the hell down by yourself for 30 days minimum and reflect.

You already going into the field still worried about ol girl. It's not going to end well.
 

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After doing some reflecting I'm going back to approaching heavy.

Before covid I was out at bars and clubs approaching every weekend and using apps during the week

After covid I mainly used apps and approached occasionally. Was definitely getting a lot of play online but I've met some strange chicks on there along the way.

I had a trip already planned so I'm out here trying to knock off some rust. Approached about 5 women yesterday got rejected by all of em. It felt good to be back in the hunt though :ehh:. I didn't have any approach anxiety either. In my mind it was like breh I was just dating a legit psycho. These girls cant say shyt to me to top that:mjlol:. I'm using this bad situation as fuel.


Maybe will try to approach 2-3 women a day to knock the rust off. Wish me well.
breh you need to sit the hell down by yourself for 30 days minimum and reflect.

You already going into the field still worried about ol girl. It's not going to end well.
 

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breh you need to sit the hell down by yourself for 30 days minimum and reflect.

You already going into the field still worried about ol girl. It's not going to end well.
I feel that

I'll try to but I know my personality. If u cant tell from my post im stubborn and take failure/bad situations as a challenge :mjlol:.

I'll think about what I want to do next. Maybe I'll take some time off and sign up for muay thai like I've been talking about get back in the game around spring. I'll figure something out.

Edit: u right I'll take some time off and focus on getting this aws cert, trying to get to 10% bf instead of 13% and signing up for muay thai
 
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I definitely think focusing on any goals you got to give yourself a better life should come first, but imo you playing the game the exact way you should be.


Lawrence Taylor came and hit you with a qb sack that had you puking your guts out. You got back up and back in the huddle and was ready to call the next play :obama:


Sometimes the best solution to a bad relationship like that is to put yourself right back in the game and keep playing.

Brehs with long skin in the race will tell you that if you ain't getting rejected, then you ain't playing the game right :manny:
 
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