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I'm always amazed at people who can date multiple people at a time. It's healthy to date rotationally and have options and I try to do that but I meet one person I like and want to give them my soul and shyt lol........then I forget about everyone else.
You can rock with one shorty and date but don’t focus on making anything more out of it then what it is
 

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I'm always amazed at people who can date multiple people at a time. It's healthy to date rotationally and have options and I try to do that but I meet one person I like and want to give them my soul and shyt lol........then I forget about everyone else.

I use to be like that but unfortunately in this day and age women change like the wind and are juggling multiple options. That girl you like so much is talking to 4-5 other dudes and going out on dates. Until we are officially committed I'll continue to go out with different chicks.
 

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It's like a job to me, you're unemployed (single) looking for a job (girl), going to apply to numerous places (swiping on apps, hollering at chicks etc.), sometimes you'll get interviews (dates). Even if the interview goes well (date is amazing), no guarantee you'll hear from them again. Sometimes you'll get 2nd and third and fourth interviews (numerous dates), but they are also interviewing other people (dating other folks). Until an offer is made and agreed upon by both parties (committed relationship), you'll apply to other jobs (holler at other chicks), get interviews (dates) and so will they.
 

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It's like a job to me, you're unemployed (single) looking for a job (girl), going to apply to numerous places (swiping on apps, hollering at chicks etc.), sometimes you'll get interviews (dates). Even if the interview goes well (date is amazing), no guarantee you'll hear from them again. Sometimes you'll get 2nd and third and fourth interviews (numerous dates), but they are also interview other people (dating other folks). Until an offer is made and agreed upon by both parties (committed relationship), you'll apply to other jobs (holler at other chicks), get interviews (dates) and so will they.

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Yeah I couldn't have put it better myself. You may love one job a lot better than the other jobs your interviewing for, but as long as you don't get offered the contract, you will have to keep applying for other jobs even if your heart is set on the one. :manny:
 

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Yeah I couldn't have put it better myself. You may love one job a lot better than the other jobs your interviewing for, but as long as you don't get offered the contract, you will have to keep applying for other jobs even if your heart is set on the one. :manny:

Yup few weeks ago went out with this chick she was damn hot had a great time, even the whole she messaged me the next day, called cant wait to do it again etc., Haven't heard from her since then :heh:, christmas came, new years came nothing just washed my hands no biggie. If that was all I had I would have been starting from scratch , but was talking to another nigerian chick and shes already invited me over twice. Also got three other chicks on stand by :yeshrug:
 

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I use to be like that but unfortunately in this day and age women change like the wind and are juggling multiple options. That girl you like so much is talking to 4-5 other dudes and going out on dates. Until we are officially committed I'll continue to go out with different chicks.


Yeah, that's the fukked up thing. I feel like I'm forced to be someone I'm not just to operate in this world.

Meanwhile I'm so focused on my businesses, my money, juggling different women is just too much.
 

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You can rock with one shorty and date but don’t focus on making anything more out of it then what it is


I use to be like that but unfortunately in this day and age women change like the wind and are juggling multiple options. That girl you like so much is talking to 4-5 other dudes and going out on dates. Until we are officially committed I'll continue to go out with different chicks.


Yeah I realized how quickly women can change up. I was dating a chick for like 8 months and it was like she woke up one day and was just done with me, got super distant and it totally fukked me up.

I haven't really been the same since honestly. I have a few chicks I'm talking to now but I don't see myself getting attached the way I used to.
 

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2010 after she was found guilty of one count of causing grievous bodily harm and two counts of attempted bodily harm and given a two-year suspended sentence. The charges stemmed from Benaissa having unprotected sex with people who were not aware of her HIV-positive status.

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Sometimes when u meet a hot chick who won’t give u play. Don’t get wound up about it. She may be saving u from health disaster.
 

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It's like a job to me, you're unemployed (single) looking for a job (girl), going to apply to numerous places (swiping on apps, hollering at chicks etc.), sometimes you'll get interviews (dates). Even if the interview goes well (date is amazing), no guarantee you'll hear from them again. Sometimes you'll get 2nd and third and fourth interviews (numerous dates), but they are also interviewing other people (dating other folks). Until an offer is made and agreed upon by both parties (committed relationship), you'll apply to other jobs (holler at other chicks), get interviews (dates) and so will they.

yall gotta be careful with pushing this rhetoric lol.

The reason dudes are screwing themselves is because they never ask themselves (or are honest) why they are even entertaining a woman.

Answering that should dictate the rules of engagement. If a breh only wants to smash chicks doing all of that is a waste of a damn time. If a Breh is looking for a wife, ok maybe, but if he is serious, there are more efficient ways to do this. If a Breh just likes going out and being around women then cool do your thing.

The issue with this advice dudes with different goals will see it and think it's acceptable, and end up confused and their time ultimately wasted.
 

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yall gotta be careful with pushing this rhetoric lol.

The reason dudes are screwing themselves is because they never ask themselves (or are honest) why they are even entertaining a woman.

Answering that should dictate the rules of engagement. If a breh only wants to smash chicks doing all of that is a waste of a damn time. If a Breh is looking for a wife, ok maybe, but if he is serious, there are more efficient ways to do this. If a Breh just likes going out and being around women then cool do your thing.

The issue with this advice dudes with different goals will see it and think it's acceptable, and end up confused and their time ultimately wasted.

:ehh:
 

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Yeah I realized how quickly women can change up. I was dating a chick for like 8 months and it was like she woke up one day and was just done with me, got super distant and it totally fukked me up.

I haven't really been the same since honestly. I have a few chicks I'm talking to now but I don't see myself getting attached the way I used to.

Women do this in long term relationships too.
 

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If you were a guy 25 years old and had 2 kids under 4 years old, but you’re well off financially. Would you date a woman 34 years old with 3 kids that make ends meet?

Her kids ages are 15, 12, and 7.

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