what does “messing with” even mean? Sounds like you playing boyfriend but dont want to admit it lol.
Fair enough. I said I wasn’t looking to be exclusive with her but you might have a point. Lol
what does “messing with” even mean? Sounds like you playing boyfriend but dont want to admit it lol.
Fair enough. I said I wasn’t looking to be exclusive with her but you might have a point. Lol
Fair enough. I said I wasn’t looking to be exclusive with her but you might have a point. Lol
Lol has a kidSo many red flags. But good night. This Joint had a crazy body.
medical field, BM is an athlete in my city, travels a lot (which I think she gets flown out, unless BM is on child support), likes a luxury lifestyle, has kid (8 month)
Younger me would of never vetted this much into this, but older me (late 20s) + watching KS helped me vet & analyze better.
I think she’s thinks I’m a “Russell”
Farrrr from it.
I said before majority of dudes play boyfriend in order to get sex. Most dudes arent attractive enough or have enough clout to TRUELY do FWB situations because they fear droughts (since they aint clouted enough to keep a consistent flow).Why have you been with a woman you don't intend to be exclusive with for 8 months? What does she bring to the table that warrants keeping her around?
Lol has a kid
Only way i will ever settle with a single mom is if i had a child of my own
In a perfect world single fathers should date single moms
I said before majority of dudes play boyfriend in order to get sex. Most dudes arent attractive enough or have enough clout to TRUELY do FWB situations because they fear droughts (since they aint clouted enough to keep a consistent flow).
same dudes tend to be anti tricking but are committing a “worse” act.
Dudes fear rejection (realistically yoo will get an overwhelming number of rejections but i rather no confusion then being on pins and needles for the inevitable drama blow up cause i played boyfriend but didnt want anything serious).They just have to be straight up. It’s not that hard.
You also gotta be careful of smashing three times. Then it becomes a relationship.
Dudes fear rejection (realistically yoo will get an overwhelming number of rejections but i rather no confusion then being on pins and needles for the inevitable drama blow up cause i played boyfriend but didnt want anything serious).
this is why dudes need lives so sex becomes secondary lol. When you just sitting in the crib all day or in the club all the time you not gonna do anything but think about sex
Exactly. Tell upfront, “this is what I’m looking for, this is why I’m on the app, etc, if that’s not what you’re into, We can part ways, I don’t want any confusion”
Yup. Gotta be busy, focus on yourself, and enjoy the process. You can slip a few sexual innuendos here and there, but just enjoy the process, learn something new.
A girl at work was sending choosing signals so I got her number on Saturday. Found out she just works weekends and is actually a HR manager in the week, just working at my job for a few months to get extra cash to move in January. Had to lie a bit too about a few things when she went through that checklist (car, goals, children blah blah yall know)
This is gonna be a bit difficult to navigate
Abort
How do you intend to traverse your web of lies?
My logic with this is if there hasn’t been a discussion of what the relationship is then you free to do what you wantwhat does “messing with” even mean? Sounds like you playing boyfriend but dont want to admit it lol.
So is this a coworker fam?Another quick update on this one
Took her out about 2 weeks ago, stayed at hers and fukked first date. Said she was on the pill
She real cool, good head on her shoulders and good career. Needs to lose some weight tho so ima try bring her to my gym and work out together. This the kind of girl that can be leveled up easily appearance wise
If I was to breed her up I wouldn't even be mad