Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Most dude are generally attractive to enough females. The #uglygang movement on here is one of the dumbest things possible. Terrible mindset to have.

Yeah I've never gotten it. If you're a young breh, I get it. But If you're in your mid twenties and still on that time something else is seriously wrong.
 
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I've had a thing for this girl. We're close and have been for a year now. Where I'm living currently, she would be the person I would hangout with the most.

I told her I liked her more than just friends, but she hit me with the "I'm not looking for a relationship; I have to focus on me right now" bs.

Just for her to get a bf. :mjtf:

She's wondering why can't I be happy for her like she is with how successful I've been with the ladies recently.

I can't do it, though. :leostare:

She's hitting me with the, "but you mean a lot to me in my life. You're one of the people I'm closest to." Sad face :mjcry:, droopy eyes and all.

But I just can't do it, Coli Fam. Every time it's like, damn, you're in a relationship.:hhh:

Told her I was leaving the hang-out session early tonight.:banderas:

I'm ending that friendship.:dahell:


I know it's bogus for bouncing on her like that. In my opinion, it's bogus to friend zone a guy and wanting him to stick around.
 

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I've had a thing for this girl. We're close and have been for a year now. Where I'm living currently, she would be the person I would hangout with the most.

I told her I liked her more than just friends, but she hit me with the "I'm not looking for a relationship; I have to focus on me right now" bs.

Just for her to get a bf. :mjtf:

She's wondering why can't I be happy for her like she is with how successful I've been with the ladies recently.

I can't do it, though. :leostare:

She's hitting me with the, "but you mean a lot to me in my life. You're one of the people I'm closest to." Sad face :mjcry:, droopy eyes and all.

But I just can't do it, Coli Fam. Every time it's like, damn, you're in a relationship.:hhh:

Told her I was leaving the hang-out session early tonight.:banderas:

I'm ending that friendship.:dahell:


I know it's bogus for bouncing on her like that. In my opinion, it's bogus to friend zone a guy and wanting him to stick around.
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I've had a thing for this girl. We're close and have been for a year now. Where I'm living currently, she would be the person I would hangout with the most.

I told her I liked her more than just friends, but she hit me with the "I'm not looking for a relationship; I have to focus on me right now" bs.

Just for her to get a bf. :mjtf:

She's wondering why can't I be happy for her like she is with how successful I've been with the ladies recently.

I can't do it, though. :leostare:

She's hitting me with the, "but you mean a lot to me in my life. You're one of the people I'm closest to." Sad face :mjcry:, droopy eyes and all.

But I just can't do it, Coli Fam. Every time it's like, damn, you're in a relationship.:hhh:

Told her I was leaving the hang-out session early tonight.:banderas:

I'm ending that friendship.:dahell:


I know it's bogus for bouncing on her like that. In my opinion, it's bogus to friend zone a guy and wanting him to stick around.
Just gotta eat the L there. She didn’t want you so them be the breaks.

You got other chicks so just separate yourself from the situation and spend time and energy on the women that do want you.
 

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I’m just now noticing most cute black females are actually single. In and out of situations.. stuck on one nikka that’s really not hers & baby daddies n shyt smh they’re leaving decent nikkas left n’ right too just to go fukk on other dudes and take trips

not looking good for marriage unless you get a below average broad
 

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I've had a thing for this girl. We're close and have been for a year now. Where I'm living currently, she would be the person I would hangout with the most.

I told her I liked her more than just friends, but she hit me with the "I'm not looking for a relationship; I have to focus on me right now" bs.

Just for her to get a bf. :mjtf:

She's wondering why can't I be happy for her like she is with how successful I've been with the ladies recently.

I can't do it, though. :leostare:

She's hitting me with the, "but you mean a lot to me in my life. You're one of the people I'm closest to." Sad face :mjcry:, droopy eyes and all.

But I just can't do it, Coli Fam. Every time it's like, damn, you're in a relationship.:hhh:

Told her I was leaving the hang-out session early tonight.:banderas:

I'm ending that friendship.:dahell:


I know it's bogus for bouncing on her like that. In my opinion, it's bogus to friend zone a guy and wanting him to stick around.
You want two different things. It's only gonna become caustic if you stay so you're guarding your heart. If she can't understand that then she was never your friend.
 

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I've had a thing for this girl. We're close and have been for a year now. Where I'm living currently, she would be the person I would hangout with the most.

I told her I liked her more than just friends, but she hit me with the "I'm not looking for a relationship; I have to focus on me right now" bs.

Just for her to get a bf. :mjtf:

She's wondering why can't I be happy for her like she is with how successful I've been with the ladies recently.

I can't do it, though. :leostare:

She's hitting me with the, "but you mean a lot to me in my life. You're one of the people I'm closest to." Sad face :mjcry:, droopy eyes and all.

But I just can't do it, Coli Fam. Every time it's like, damn, you're in a relationship.:hhh:

Told her I was leaving the hang-out session early tonight.:banderas:

I'm ending that friendship.:dahell:


I know it's bogus for bouncing on her like that. In my opinion, it's bogus to friend zone a guy and wanting him to stick around.

Tbh you should have removed yourself from that situation the min you told her your feelings and she told you she didn't share them.

She knew what she told you was guff, you knew it.

But this is also the danger of hanging with a woman for a year and not making a move if you're interested in her like that. She got comfortable with your non sexual attention. By the time you finally talked she had already firmly put you in the no fukking list.
 
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Why must a man look thru this thread or/and follow a “dating coach” to actually be able to have something beyond sex?
 
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