Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Probably i mean its a 12 hour flight to brazil :picard:, i can get to uk in 7 hrs

I hate toronto women but surprisingly out of the 4 i recently met they haven't been too bad. I still get on better with overseas women.

Literally the longest women in my life that I talk to are chicks I met in nigeria and UK. Like chicks in nigeria I met 3 years ago, still call me, invited me to their weddings etc.
I know it’s just something I keep in context when I’m reading your posts. Because where you live does dedicate your experiences and what you access to. Like if you lived in Florida you’d be able to hit anywhere in the Caribbean Sea within 2-3 hours.

That my friend is the gateway to fukkery, because of the infinite amount of possibilities.


Best of luck on your journey though :salute:
 

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UK, USA, and Canadian women are all the same breh lol. The aspect of being a traveler lowers emotional expectations thus cooperation seems better since both parties know its just “fun” while the person is in town.

every complaint you have anout a Canadian chick, a UK breh has the same complaints on avg abouT UK women.

i say just enjoy the ride vs thinking one western chick is better than the other. They all the same

Of course women are the same breh, lemme enjoy my fantasy :blessed:
 

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I know it’s just something I keep in context when I’m reading your posts. Because where you live does dedicate your experiences and what you access to. Like if you lived in Florida you’d be able to hit anywhere in the Caribbean Sea within 2-3 hours.

That my friend is the gateway to fukkery, because of the infinite amount of possibilities.


Best of luck on your journey though :salute:

it does it does. Hell I'm still playing catchup, I wasted the years of 16-30 just canoodling and cavorting with white women now I can't even stand them or even find them attractive.
 

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Yesterday I had plans with a girl I'm somewhat seeing. We were both off and planned to spend the day together.

We didn't really set a time. She said she would hit me up after she ran some quick errands in the morning.

I didn't hear from her for hours :ehh:so I ended up hitting my boys up when they got off work and ended up chilling with them.

Its now 6:30 in the afternoon and she is blowing my phone up and is mad that I'm no longer free.

Told her she should've hit me up during the day if she wanted to chill:yeshrug: was I in the wrong?
 

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No and women get blasted all the time for doing this- take your l and keep it pushing. You just want revenge because she got one up on you, let her go back to her husband in peace and charge it to the game.


Her husband should know tho right? And he'll yeah I want some sort of get back. It was a shyt ton of years getting over that slump in my life. Thats another thing, i could expose her ass, the one person responsible for causing the whole shyt sort. The only thing holding me back is her kids watching losing their parents. But now I'm thinking, that home must not have been very happy in the first place.
 

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Yesterday I had plans with a girl I'm somewhat seeing. We were both off and planned to spend the day together.

We didn't really set a time. She said she would hit me up after she ran some quick errands in the morning.

I didn't hear from her for hours :ehh:so I ended up hitting my boys up when they got off work and ended up chilling with them.

Its now 6:30 in the afternoon and she is blowing my phone up and is mad that I'm no longer free.

Told her she should've hit me up during the day if she wanted to chill:yeshrug: was I in the wrong?
Nah shyt happens. Don't even trip, you avoided potentially having your time wasted. If you were serious about kicking, you would have agreed on a set time.

The room for interruption allows for bs like to occur because its unclear. She could have been kicking it with someone else, she may not having been feeling you like that, or she could have just been slow as hell, with running errands.

Never underestimate how long it takes women to get ready and run errands though.
 

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Her husband should know tho right? And he'll yeah I want some sort of get back. It was a shyt ton of years getting over that slump in my life. Thats another thing, i could expose her ass, the one person responsible for causing the whole shyt sort. The only thing holding me back is her kids watching losing their parents. But now I'm thinking, that home must not have been very happy in the first place.
Fukk no he shouldn’t know, what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him.

You’re doing this out of ego not moral righteousness. If it were on the other foot you’d be calling her all kinds of scorned. Let it go man.

Some of y’all can’t take the ego blow from being used as a side dude-for dikk and/or attention and lied to. It happens. Let it go. Don’t be a hurt home wrecker. You’ll be okay.
 

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Her husband should know tho right? And he'll yeah I want some sort of get back. It was a shyt ton of years getting over that slump in my life. Thats another thing, i could expose her ass, the one person responsible for causing the whole shyt sort. The only thing holding me back is her kids watching losing their parents. But now I'm thinking, that home must not have been very happy in the first place.
You don't know how to be a side dude.

Yeah I know it's fukked up, she's morally in the wrong and blah blah blah, but you're simply too invested. This scumbag life ain't for you. Don't worry it's not for everyone. It's not for me either.

Point of advice, just leave her alone.
 

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No but clearly you do. Just don't get too consumed by all that mess and let her go completely.
So her husband don't need to know?
Fukk no he shouldn’t know, what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him.

You’re doing this out of ego not moral righteousness. If it were on the other foot you’d be calling her all kinds of scorned. Let it go man.

Some of y’all can’t take the ego blow from being used as a side dude-for dikk and/or attention and lied to. It happens. Let it go. Don’t be a hurt home wrecker. You’ll be okay.

Let it go? So she can continue to manipulate people out here thinking shyt is okay?
 

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You don't know how to be a side dude.

Yeah I know it's fukked up, she's morally in the wrong and blah blah blah, but you're simply too invested. This scumbag life ain't for you. Don't worry it's not for everyone. It's not for me either.

Point of advice, just leave her alone.
It's not about that, it's about we have history and all this shyt i found out about her. How she wanted to start some shyt knowing damn well I'm fukked up as well. I tried to leave the first time when I saw where it was headed but she gasssed me up. Yet she hurts me and tosses me aside. AGAIN.
 

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Nah shyt happens. Don't even trip, you avoided potentially having your time wasted. If you were serious about kicking, you would have agreed on a set time.

The room for interruption allows for bs like to occur because its unclear. She could have been kicking it with someone else, she may not having been feeling you like that, or she could have just been slow as hell, with running errands.

Never underestimate how long it takes women to get ready and run errands though.
You right :ehh: I've always been nonchalant when it comes to these things tho.

It drives women crazy but it makes them want me more in some ways:lolbron:.
 

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So her husband don't need to know?


Let it go? So she can continue to manipulate people out here thinking shyt is okay?


tbh I don't know the story between you and this chick. Is it that you were fukking her while she was married and didn't know she was married or what? I know you had history, rekindled it and then what.
 
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Oh I will, it's just I've got the rare chance to easily put this triflin bytch in her place before I do.
Just move on. If anything this should be an eye opener that even if married a woman still can be untrustworthy.

I’d personally would never get married. All the shyt I’ve read on the coli.
 
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