Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rozay Oro

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Idk if it’s epiphany but I feel free knowing that intimacy/affection isn’t for me. I just want to get in shape to have better pics when I make a new tinder profile.

Not that I am nor look fat. I’m skinny but I want to be visibly lean so bad. I want that more than sex right now.

I’ve been so inconsistent in working out and my diet. Plus I need to buy some protein powder.
 

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Breh you're in the hospital focus on your health and just let go of her.

She is toxic and no good for you so I suggest you block her and focus on self. No woman is worth all that headache and besides all of that she is married now. That's her husbands issue! Just speak to your folks about what happened if you need to clarify anything and how you've been feeling but letting this heffer drive you into a depression ain't it. She's not even worth it!

All the best and speedy recovery. Take this as a lesson not to let people take advantage, yourself comes first.

I'm saying, but the thing is if you had the power to expose a bytch that put you through all that with just a few snapshots and one e mail, wouldn't you take it? Don't you think her husband should know?
 

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You'd feel better if you stopped trying to get revenge on her breh.
shyt will take a load off ya shoulders

shyt i used to work with my girl at walgeeens and i cosigned on a car for us.
I drove that shyt twice and she stopped fukkin with me and had her baby daddy driving to pick her up from work in a car with my name on it while im having to wait on the bus.
:francis:
 

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I'm saying, but the thing is if you had the power to expose a bytch that put you through all that with just a few snapshots and one e mail, wouldn't you take it? Don't you think her husband should know?
No but clearly you do. Just don't get too consumed by all that mess and let her go completely.
 

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I'm saying, but the thing is if you had the power to expose a bytch that put you through all that with just a few snapshots and one e mail, wouldn't you take it? Don't you think her husband should know?
No and women get blasted all the time for doing this- take your l and keep it pushing. You just want revenge because she got one up on you, let her go back to her husband in peace and charge it to the game.
 

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Date #5 Wednesday, could have done it tomorrow but I got church, she lives right across from my work so just made it Wednesday.

Attack :banderas:
 

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No and women get blasted all the time for doing this- take your l and keep it pushing. You just want revenge because she got one up on you, let her go back to her husband in peace and charge it to the game.

yea @Dr.Omega , I know it’s not easy because remembering is so much more a psychotic activity than forgetting..

but your best move is to forget this chick bro
 

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I’ve met 4 single childless beautiful Black women since last Wednesday

1st one - got one text after the date replied but never heard from her again :ehh:. Didn’t really care.

2nd one - Jamaican she was drop dead gorgeous, she’s 32 never had a relationship longer than a year and. Never messaged her after the date and neither did she .

3rd one - Canadian black girl she was gorgeous but Muslim nothing wrong with that but I’m a Christian wouldn’t work never messaged her, she messaged me but no need to waste time but had a good date


4th one - great date convo flowed, also she’s an arsenal fan :noah: prob the least attractive of all the four women but her accent, love for arsenal also a Christian


Working on a few more chicks the saga continues
Sometimes I wonder if you lived in Florida, how much your options would change.

Like instead of flying to the UK or Nigeria, would you be flying to the dr, Colombia, Brazil, etc more often.
 

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My ex broke up with me …mostly my fault I got too comfortable wasn’t treating her right…big fight begged her stay she moved out …about two weeks later she hit me up saying she miss me yardda yadda…


We be kicking it for the past couple weeks I tell her I want us to be serious again she says no she doesn’t want a relationship now


I tell her cool we need stop hanging out and dating then if we not going to be exclusive I need my space and give my key back


She calls me selfish
Am I wrong ?I am going miss her but I’m not waiting on nobody
She says she wants to stay connected to me because she likes being around me which I think is selfish sorry for the vent lol
I think she doesn’t care I think she is mad that I broke it off first
Breh…..


Leave her alone
 

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Sometimes I wonder if you lived in Florida, how much your options would change.

Like instead of flying to the UK or Nigeria, would you be flying to the dr, Colombia, Brazil, etc more often.

Probably i mean its a 12 hour flight to brazil :picard:, i can get to uk in 7 hrs

I hate toronto women but surprisingly out of the 4 i recently met they haven't been too bad. I still get on better with overseas women.

Literally the longest women in my life that I talk to are chicks I met in nigeria and UK. Like chicks in nigeria I met 3 years ago, still call me, invited me to their weddings etc.
 

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Forgot I wrote this in another thread but it still remains

as time goes on its better to be the final leg the usain bolt with these chicks.

Many brehs are the first, second and third leg. Building up a chick but not having what she desires to take it home.
Careful because older women do tend to have emotional baggage.
 

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My ex broke up with me …mostly my fault I got too comfortable wasn’t treating her right…big fight begged her stay she moved out …about two weeks later she hit me up saying she miss me yardda yadda…

Never beg a woman to stay, secondly never blame yourself if you never cheated or abused. If a woman doesn't want to be with you it doesn't matter what you do. It's like racing against usain bolt doesn't matter how much you train etc. you're not going to win. If a woman doesn't want to be with you it doesn't matter what you do or could have done

We be kicking it for the past couple weeks I tell her I want us to be serious again she says no she doesn’t want a relationship now

She enjoys the memories and good ol company, basically having you as a friend, but that relationship nah , you still around she'll start dating other guys and you're just going to get angry

I tell her cool we need stop hanging out and dating then if we not going to be exclusive I need my space and give my key back

Good cut your ties now and never look back

She calls me selfish
Am I wrong ?I am going miss her but I’m not waiting on nobody
She says she wants to stay connected to me because she likes being around me which I think is selfish sorry for the vent lol
I think she doesn’t care I think she is mad that I broke it off first

Nah she's selfish, imagine your job telling you hey lamont614 we have no more money to pay you but you can still show up daily like before and continue to work. And you're like hell no this isn't going to work until i get paid

and then they call you selfish because you don't accept their terms?

It's basically the same thing, she doesn't want a relationship with you but wants all the benefits your time, your making her feel safe
:camby:
 

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Probably i mean its a 12 hour flight to brazil :picard:, i can get to uk in 7 hrs

I hate toronto women but surprisingly out of the 4 i recently met they haven't been too bad. I still get on better with overseas women.

Literally the longest women in my life that I talk to are chicks I met in nigeria and UK. Like chicks in nigeria I met 3 years ago, still call me, invited me to their weddings etc.

UK, USA, and Canadian women are all the same breh lol. The aspect of being a traveler lowers emotional expectations thus cooperation seems better since both parties know its just “fun” while the person is in town.

every complaint you have anout a Canadian chick, a UK breh has the same complaints on avg abouT UK women.

i say just enjoy the ride vs thinking one western chick is better than the other. They all the same
 
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