Action Mike
All praise..
If you're unsure about a woman should you communicate this to her?
I mean she went all out for my birthday(bought me sneakers and a cake), she pays for some of our dates and is the type that will tell me U don't have to spend too much or let's eat in some days to save money but to me the passion ain't there. Most of the time I have to initiate the sex and even aside from that something seems off. Can't really trust my gut cause I don't trust any woman but she said she loves me and I couldn't say it back. She is also weird about eye contact looking away and shyt like that. Another issue is she has a male friend she knew since high school that she used to string along during her college years but she didn't truly like him, she was just bored. He asked for her help planning his wedding and she is considering it but she asked me and instead of saying no yesterday I told her do what she wanted.
Part of me wants to just play shyt by ear and see how it develops but the other part is like talk to her and see if it changes anything and to especially tell her I don't want her helping him.
You better nip everything now you don't like or it'll just get worse, and things you want train her overtly and covertly were required.
I made the mistakes you mentioned and learned a lot but painfully. Don't go with flow, control your relationship, she wants you to.





cause her dude is legit on the other side of the room. This is of course followed by her bragging about giving good "mouth massages", which she insists are purely non sexual and therapeutic

