tolerate? Unless i misread, anyone talking sexually at work is a whole idiot, and you find yourself tempted by this?
signs of stupidity automatically disgust me and turns a chick into ugly for me
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tolerate? Unless i misread, anyone talking sexually at work is a whole idiot, and you find yourself tempted by this?
signs of stupidity automatically disgust me and turns a chick into ugly for me
Yes. But the animal in me as a man wants to fukk other women.
not only the talking breh, she looks good, plus during lunch conversations about hypothetical she said she would fukk with me.
What is she saying around the lunch crew?
When we have random combo around the table like “ if you were single would you smash…,” stuff like that.
How old are you breh? You gotta become more discipline, you shouldnt even be engaging with her.
we too old to be seeking new BFFs especially of the opposite gender.
It's fall. Debating whether I should start getting out there and trying to date again. I kinda wanted to do the single thing for a year so maybe I'll wait till next year since it will be a year in December.
Man's job is to subdue his lower nature. We are animals yes but men are creatures of logic as well.
She will fukk you alright, right in HR. Don't ruin your life over a lapse of discipline. You're a man, pull it together brother.
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If you're unsure about a woman should you communicate this to her?
I mean she went all out for my birthday(bought me sneakers and a cake), she pays for some of our dates and is the type that will tell me U don't have to spend too much or let's eat in some days to save money but to me the passion ain't there. Most of the time I have to initiate the sex and even aside from that something seems off. Can't really trust my gut cause I don't trust any woman but she said she loves me and I couldn't say it back. She is also weird about eye contact looking away and shyt like that. Another issue is she has a male friend she knew since high school that she used to string along during her college years but she didn't truly like him, she was just bored. He asked for her help planning his wedding and she is considering it but she asked me and instead of saying no yesterday I told her do what she wanted.
Part of me wants to just play shyt by ear and see how it develops but the other part is like talk to her and see if it changes anything and to especially tell her I don't want her helping him.
I mean she went all out for my birthday(bought me sneakers and a cake), she pays for some of our dates and is the type that will tell me U don't have to spend too much or let's eat in some days to save money but to me the passion ain't there. Most of the time I have to initiate the sex and even aside from that something seems off. Can't really trust my gut cause I don't trust any woman but she said she loves me and I couldn't say it back. She is also weird about eye contact looking away and shyt like that. Another issue is she has a male friend she knew since high school that she used to string along during her college years but she didn't truly like him, she was just bored. He asked for her help planning his wedding and she is considering it but she asked me and instead of saying no yesterday I told her do what she wanted.
Part of me wants to just play shyt by ear and see how it develops but the other part is like talk to her and see if it changes anything and to especially tell her I don't want her helping him.
Might as well be upfront about everything. Passion is wack tell her. Don't want her helping with dude? Tell her.
are you lonely or something? Sexual drought?
ask yourself “why am i about to deal with bird brains” and then you can say if its worth it.
the context of your post doesnt read you are looking for long term monogamous commitment (which will end in marriage), so I assume you want company.
Actually I am looking for a LTR ending in marriage. I hate dating. I haven't had sex since last year if that's what you mean by drought. This will be the first time I've been single in a long time.
Im only asking becuase often time men dont enter the market with a goal in mind. Setting a goal makes it easy to not waste time.
i hope during this time you have picked up hobbies you enjoy that puts you around other people. Because if you plan on club hopping or apps to acomplish this goal Im just gonna say good luck
Oh I started a black nerd group on meet up for Brooklyn nerds. It's going well we have another meet up this weekend pretty good mix of men and women. Might start a black musicians group too.Im only asking becuase often time men dont enter the market with a goal in mind. Setting a goal makes it easy to not waste time.
i hope during this time you have picked up hobbies you enjoy that puts you around other people. Because if you plan on club hopping or apps to acomplish this goal Im just gonna say good luck
cool. Thats the best way to meet folks outside of religious institutions and established social circles.
stay focused on your goal and dont tolerate nonsense