Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Got this message out of the blue whilst I was at the gym.

No telling me their name or sending a picture like I'm supposed to remember.

I ask for a pic to refresh my memory. They see the message and don't send one.

Gonna guess they don't look how they used too.



EDIT: They sent a recent pic and they look good.

So this chick invited me out for drinks last night. And Brehs!



Very happy I went. Just fine as hell. Chinese Filipino mix. Body very on point.

I felt good vibes from her as soon as she turned up. chat. After a while we started getting touchy feely on each other in the bar and ended up making out heavily. She paid for the drinks then we went for a nightcap at another bar and made out there as well.

As horny as we both were by that time. It was almost 1.30am when we left the last bar and we both had an early start, so we're meeting up later this week to do it properly. She's going to come to my place.

 

[Auger]

@VertigoKnight You Asian right? cause I just figured because I be reading that you hooking up with them heavy

Either that or you live in Vancouver

 

[CW_1991]

What are some of y'all's opinion on strictly dealing with women that are like 35+? 40+?

About ready to give up on these young hoes. Too much emotional immature bullshyt.

I'm 30.

 

[Hagendas]

What are some of y'all's opinion on strictly dealing with women that are like 35+? 40+?

About ready to give up on these young hoes. Too much emotional immature bullshyt.

I'm 30.

You asking for trouble prepare for dates that feel like interviews

or constant pushing for marriage/ kids

plus my dude if they decent looking at that age and single there’s a reason and usually not a good one

 

[CW_1991]

You asking for trouble prepare for dates that feel like interviews

or constant pushing for marriage/ kids

plus my dude if they decent looking at that age and single there’s a reason and usually not a good one

I'm talking about just from a casual level. I'm just out here living my best life. Back in my mid twenties I was smashing a bunch of milfs and cougars. Then I slowed down with it and tried to deal with the ones in my age range.

Not really trying to get locked down. In my experience older women are much more receptive to that. A lot of them just be looking for a good time themselves.

 

[The ADD]

What are some of y'all's opinion on strictly dealing with women that are like 35+? 40+?

About ready to give up on these young hoes. Too much emotional immature bullshyt.

I'm 30.

Might be rough. Worked fine for me but I’m early 40s. Unless you are serious about a long term relationship then I don’t see a lot of wins.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm talking about just from a casual level. I'm just out here living my best life. Back in my mid twenties I was smashing a bunch of milfs and cougars. Then I slowed down with it and tried to deal with the ones in my age range.

Not really trying to get locked down. In my experience older women are much more receptive to that. A lot of them just be looking for a good time themselves.

if you arent a bum they may try to lock you down so the FWB thing may not last long

 

[Rell Lauren]

So this chick invited me out for drinks last night. And Brehs!



Very happy I went. Just fine as hell. Chinese Filipino mix. Body very on point.

I felt good vibes from her as soon as she turned up. chat. After a while we started getting touchy feely on each other in the bar and ended up making out heavily. She paid for the drinks then we went for a nightcap at another bar and made out there as well.

As horny as we both were by that time. It was almost 1.30am when we left the last bar and we both had an early start, so we're meeting up later this week to do it properly. She's going to come to my place.

You got the juice now breh.

 

[Max.]

Posting this here to vent cause I don’t know where else to..basically 8 year relationship all but over with someone I wanted to be with forever ignored the signs for 6 months and now we got 6 more months on this lease together and she already gone emotionally, cold winter incoming.

1. Biggest red flag that I let slide: following everything opening up after the pandemic - she starts hanging out with new friends who are all single, previously her friends were all in relationships, started off they were just going to get coffee and shyt but then..

2. Starts wanting to go out with them every Friday night, acting like it’s a girls only night but now it’s going to clubs with just them.
3. I find out other guys from their jobs are out at these outings, especially on nights where I’m busy at work or don’t have an option to go..oh forgot all these girls bi too

4. Girlfriend discovers after 8 years that she bi too, when I’m with her and her friends they all talking about how hot both girls and guys they are are now.
5. She starts saying she’s either too broke or too busy to to do stuff with me but got money for drinks and ubers when out with her new girlfriends, and went on two vacations this year with her cousins.
6. Her gay friend from work always talking to her about how hot their coworkers are.
7. When we hang out with my friends or alone she goes out of her way to act like a different person emotionally detached .
8. Spending 2+ hours in bathroom every night when that’s talking/intimate time in the past. Then when I try to initiate she says I only do when she’s half asleep, cold ass plan by her not gonna lie

Just the tip of iceberg. This a girl where we just got a dog together this year, been living together for years, and were having serious plans with buying a house/marriage in the very near future and it’s about to be thrown all away.

Swear I’m a goddamn idiot not seeing the early signs with the new friends and letting shyt spiral, I thought we had an understanding with each other but she just confiding in her friends now and I’m cut out emotionally, she still come home acting like it’s all alright I’m sure to ride it out til the lease is over.

If anyone reads this novel and are dumb like me, don’t be and fix shyt as soon as there’s a potential problem. Once she’s gone she’s gone

yikes bruh,,,

is she black? And are her friends black

 

[Max.]

Man matched with a 2 bad bytches on apps….my fukkn bmw transmission light comes on


fukk!

 

[Rell Lauren]

Obviously, I have no game. How should I move forward? I don't want to jump out the window and ask for her number out the blue. I do plan on it though or being more straightforward and giving her mine.

 

[The ADD]

Obviously, I have no game. How should I move forward? I don't want to jump out the window and ask for her number out the blue. I do plan on it though or being more straightforward and giving her mine.

Ummm get the number and set up meeting. All the chatting back and forth on an app……naw

 

[The Radiant One]

Any of you reading Brehs can recommend me material to read or listen to on Leadership?

I'm not talking about that weak passive leadership that's promoted today but the leadership thats required in a relationship,

Leadership that will have your spouse willingly submit and follow

Kevin Samuels has some great material in his men series.

 

[The Radiant One]

Ummm get the number and set up meeting. All the chatting back and forth on an app……naw

Yeah get the number it gages get interest also it prevents you from wasting time. If she doesn’t give it to you then you know right there and then she isn’t interested

 

[The ADD]

Yeah get the number it gages get interest also it prevents you from wasting time. If she doesn’t give it to you then you know right there and then she isn’t interested

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