Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

jay83

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This girl I’m seeing has a twin. Not identical though. After we hooked up a few times she started bragging to her friends and sister about me. I met her sister and damn. Body is nice, looks good, voice is sexy, and she’s more chill than her sister. They are very close though. But i definitely be checking out the sister on the low.
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The ADD

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nah there are some gems , does it take some time but yeah

Most single people will try apps nowadays its not as weird as it was once. Same people offline for the most part are online, the only thing is yes some women on these apps are crazy. You can see a chick today, delete teh app come on next year and the same chick is on the app same profile same everything

Many single women don't want to give up the attention, the weekly dates with different dudes
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Apollo Creed

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Most women are damaged breh.

all humans are flawed, but when i say damaged i’m talking about a specific thing.

damaged people have toxic outcomes which is funny how soooo many folks say they just got out of a toxic relationship (vs simply saying the relationship didnt work out because no relationship is perfect).
 

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So we’re in bed after a nice session looking at TikTok on my phone. An alert from Bumble, Hinge, and a text from a chick came back to back to back. Sh*t was mad weird but she didn’t say a word, didn’t even flinch… She just came in closer and started rubbing my leg. Ummm… I just told her we could be official a couple of weeks ago :snoop:

I know she had to see it but she hasn't even mentioned it… What does this chick have in store for me?

Come on breh, you know a chick is coming over that you care for. Make sure notifications are off on your phone for anything that could cause you issues if it flashes up on your screen.

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What are y'all philosophies on females who know you, accept your friend request, but then leave you on read when you try to start convo?

How do you respond to things like that? Unfriend and keep it pushing or just leave as is?

Part of me feels like unfriending is a little bit weak in a way depending on how you look at it, but at the same time, If you don't fukk with me, then you just don't fukk with me and there's no need to be connected.

I understand people accept friend requests for a lot of different reasons. To be nosy, to be nice, to up their number of friends, etc.

Give me some of y'all thoughts
How well do you “know” them? Seems like if you know them well then starting a convo on social media should hold a lot of weight to you and probably doesn’t to them.

Ultimately you sent the request so just let it ride. If she comes around great, if not :manny:
 

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Come on breh, you know a chick is coming over that you care for. Make sure notifications are off on your phone for anything that could cause you issues if it flashes up on your screen.

:lolbron:
Always make sure notifications are off when you see others. Put the other women in your phone on the same thing.
 

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What are y'all philosophies on females who know you, accept your friend request, but then leave you on read when you try to start convo?

How do you respond to things like that? Unfriend and keep it pushing or just leave as is?

Part of me feels like unfriending is a little bit weak in a way depending on how you look at it, but at the same time, If you don't fukk with me, then you just don't fukk with me and there's no need to be connected.

I understand people accept friend requests for a lot of different reasons. To be nosy, to be nice, to up their number of friends, etc.

Give me some of y'all thoughts
What was your initial message? "Hey how have you been?" :jbhmm:

Some women will just accept requests for more likes and followers. Sounds like shes treating you like a subscriber.
 

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all humans are flawed, but when i say damaged i’m talking about a specific thing.

damaged people have toxic outcomes which is funny how soooo many folks say they just got out of a toxic relationship (vs simply saying the relationship didnt work out because no relationship is perfect).
Oh the relationship not working out means that both people are culpable.
 

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shyt used to be popping now its trash. I get matches but these women can't hold a conversation and take days/weeks to respond back :francis: EVERY SINGLE ONE

Rule of thumb. If she likes you, she'll reply in a timely manner; usually within the same day. These women are on the apps for a dopamine boost.
 

Uno Venova

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I already see how being in a relationship can easily turn you flabby n sick, :flabbynsick:

already gained 8 lbs but she and her family cooks so fukkin well :ohlawd:and even pays when we brunch god damn I need to refocus
 

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Her: I wanna go to Vegas for my b day.
Me: Cool…I’ll roll, I haven’t been lately.
Her: Okay, you book the trip and I’ll buy the tickets to the activities while we’re out there.
Me: Hell nah, you pay for your half and I’ll pay mine.
Her: :blink:
Me: Yo let’s put some space between us shorty.
 
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