Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silver Surfer]

my thing is from jump you gotta set your gameplan either you seeking someone real or a FWB. In all honesty we talk anout women hitting the wall so i cant blame a woman pulling back on a man after time who never made it clear he wants her for real.

That wasn't the case...at least from side

 

[Max.]

So im bored i make a tinder with my pics…but i put woman(as me its a filter but in my page its blank) and i only wana see women(bi or straight women) and im getting matches with hoes ive never seen in my area


And i see dudes tryna do the same thing as me(on tinder)

 

[Apollo Creed]

So im bored i make a tinder with my pics…but i put woman(as me its a filter but in my page its blank) and i only wana see women(bi or straight women) and im getting matches with hoes ive never seen in my area


And i see dudes tryna do the same thing as me(on tinder)

Cheat code

 

[Max.]

Cheat code

idk why i havent thought of this earlier!!!

 

[Rozay Oro]

I have done research if I become a paramedic I get good benefits and few years can make 6 figures. I’d happy to help folks in dire need too. Not just staring at a computer screen while getting fat or fukking people over. That being said. Let’s gas t forward a few years. Got a good career and shyt. How do I not fall for these whores nor get sweet talked by one for my resources. How do I become a cold hearted pimp?

 

[CW_1991]

What are y'all philosophies on females who know you, accept your friend request, but then leave you on read when you try to start convo?

How do you respond to things like that? Unfriend and keep it pushing or just leave as is?

Part of me feels like unfriending is a little bit weak in a way depending on how you look at it, but at the same time, If you don't fukk with me, then you just don't fukk with me and there's no need to be connected.

I understand people accept friend requests for a lot of different reasons. To be nosy, to be nice, to up their number of friends, etc.

Give me some of y'all thoughts

 

[MoveForward]

So we’re in bed after a nice session looking at TikTok on my phone. An alert from Bumble, Hinge, and a text from a chick came back to back to back. Sh*t was mad weird but she didn’t say a word, didn’t even flinch… She just came in closer and started rubbing my leg. Ummm… I just told her we could be official a couple of weeks ago …

I know she had to see it but she hasn't even mentioned it… What does this chick have in store for me?

 

[Killigraphy]

Update, again if anyone gives a damn

Kinda had a bump in the road earlier this week, she came over to watch the game and we cuddled up. She tells me how she doesn’t feel confident she’ll find a man who meets her criteria etc, naturally I hit the bc in my mind I’m like what have we been doing the last month?

Long story short we hash it out and she was trippen off the my relationship with God, that’s important to her. I had to explain where I was at etc and she came by for another movie the other night and I cooked for us. Air fryer and uncle bens riceit was edible.During the movie she laid up on me complimenting my cologne, feeling on my muscles and shyt

I think we in a good spot I think. She was telling me how she’s slow to open up to potential partners but once she’s open she’s wide open. Had a conversation about how we aren’t seeing anyone else, but we aren’t exclusive. Again no pressure

For the first time in a long time, brehs, I’m happy when I wake up in the morning. I like that. We speak every day damn near and kick it more often. I like where it’s going, I think that’s all of our goal, to get out the game

On a side note, bumble is jumping in Atlanta. Young professional black women who are looking for relationships

She's spinning those thot wheels, ultimately you're giving her the boyfriend without any kind of sex, that's a huge no-no in my book. Her wanting to find a stable relationship is her problem, not yours. Smash or tell her to kick rocks, though it seems like you want something serious as well, so stop playing the caterpillar game, and set some parameters.

 

[Killigraphy]

What are y'all philosophies on females who know you, accept your friend request, but then leave you on read when you try to start convo?

How do you respond to things like that? Unfriend and keep it pushing or just leave as is?

Part of me feels like unfriending is a little bit weak in a way depending on how you look at it, but at the same time, If you don't fukk with me, then you just don't fukk with me and there's no need to be connected.

I understand people accept friend requests for a lot of different reasons. To be nosy, to be nice, to up their number of friends, etc.

Give me some of y'all thoughts

How well does she actually know you? Ultimately no one is that busy, so if she's not replying, she's entertaining some other dude. Leave it as it is, if by week she doesn't reply with some kind of tired excuse, unfriend, you have nothing to gain with playing the waiting game.

 

[Killigraphy]

Lol I wish I would pursue somebody who flaked or respond to my texts hours later consistently. Hold this block

As I always say, no one is ever that busy, if she's not replying, im not entertaining, now if she's shown me pics and talked about how she wants to dress up for me, it's a different story, even then, my petty is on MJ status, and I will make her jump through hoops.

 

[CW_1991]

How well does she actually know you? Ultimately no one is that busy, so if she's not replying, she's entertaining some other dude. Leave it as it is, if by week she doesn't reply with some kind of tired excuse, unfriend, you have nothing to gain with playing the waiting game.

Well enough. We used to work together years ago.

There's a few other females that I used to work with as well, but not anymore, who pull the same shyt.

I'm not really the type to add strange women that don't know me or I don't know and then try to start talking. It's always somebody I'm familiar with.

I feel like a lot of people just want to be friends on Facebook just off of gp. They'll add you or whatever but if they see you in public they won't say a word.

 

[Killigraphy]

I have done research if I become a paramedic I get good benefits and few years can make 6 figures. I’d happy to help folks in dire need too. Not just staring at a computer screen while getting fat or fukking people over. That being said. Let’s gas t forward a few years. Got a good career and shyt. How do I not fall for these whores nor get sweet talked by one for my resources. How do I become a cold hearted pimp?

Firstly, your happiness and fulfilment come from within, don't look for whores to love you or make you better. The izm is a hard thing to talk about since so many squares want all the p*ssy without learning the game of being stoic/cold. You're never there to listen to their problems, you move onto the next subject and propose any opportunity to fukk or get something from them.

Secondly, your time is valuable, even if it's to jerk off or sleep extra hours, from the big to the small, your time is gold to their copper ambitions. You don't owe these birds a damn thing, become unavailable, you're busy because it matters, not for her needs. Build bonds with like minded individuals, grow, read, and work out. Become a better version of yourself everyday.

I would also insist you read the Book of Five Rings by Musashi. Stoicism and the way in all things, should be your mental state. Get to the point with every bird, move on if they're not willing to give you anything. Become an island, have them jump through hoops in order to get your attention. If you feel your inner simp crawling up, suffocate it with porn, and reading some Iceberg Slim. Watch pimps up hos down, always refresh/create a mantra of being the rockstar to their groupie demeanor.

 

[Killigraphy]

Well enough. We used to work together years ago.

There's a few other females that I used to work with as well, but not anymore, who pull the same shyt.

I'm not really the type to add strange women that don't know me or I don't know and then try to start talking. It's always somebody I'm familiar with.

I feel like a lot of people just want to be friends on Facebook just off of gp. They'll add you or whatever but if they see you in public they won't say a word.

Send her the "we used to work together right? " Text, that should be a simple enough lure/opener, if she still leaves you on read, just unfriend/block. If she's not willing to entertain any comment, then she's for the streets. Don't waste your time.

 

[Killigraphy]

thats the complex dynamic with “rosters”. We are humans, naturally if someone is cool and you have a good time with them you will like them unless you have some kind of clinical mental issue. But still im the back of your head you gotta be real and treat anyone that isnt your damn parent as someone who will look out for themselves first so you must do the same

Fair enough, for me it's easier to use them down the line since I'm a bit of a sociopath, so I understand both the need to manipulate and catch feelings...however, from a logical standpoint, I come first, I build and grow for me, so even if the person is cool, they'll never be cool enough for me to drop developing myself as a man. Especially not a woman.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Firstly, your happiness and fulfilment come from within, don't look for whores to love you or make you better. The izm is a hard thing to talk about since so many squares want all the p*ssy without learning the game of being stoic/cold. You're never there to listen to their problems, you move onto the next subject and propose any opportunity to fukk or get something from them.

Secondly, your time is valuable, even if it's to jerk off or sleep extra hours, from the big to the small, your time is gold to their copper ambitions. You don't owe these birds a damn thing, become unavailable, you're busy because it matters, not for her needs. Build bonds with like minded individuals, grow, read, and work out. Become a better version of yourself everyday.

I would also insist you read the Book of Five Rings by Musashi. Stoicism and the way in all things, should be your mental state. Get to the point with every bird, move on if they're not willing to give you anything. Become an island, have them jump through hoops in order to get your attention. If you feel your inner simp crawling up, suffocate it with porn, and reading some Iceberg Slim. Watch pimps up hos down, always refresh/create a mantra of being the rockstar to their groupie demeanor.

Bought the book. Aite I’m check the other shyt too.