Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah you’re in over ur head here. I will say based on ur description of what went down, u should have no problem pulling other women. That woman said she’s legally married but is out fuccking u. Ur ego might tempt u to think you’re something special but better believe if u got into any serious relationship with her it’s only a matter of time before she’s bored and is out making the next n1gga feel just as special as u felt.

He should just keep fuccing with her for now. If she ever asks what are we just hit her back with a question like what you mean and keep it going until it falls off or you get tired of her.
 

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He should just keep fuccing with her for now. If she ever asks what are we just hit her back with a question like what you mean and keep it going until it falls off or you get tired of her.
His post suggest he’ll fall in love with her. He’s infatuated with her. I know this cause I’m evaluating the reasons a grown man would type a long ass post about a bytch.
 

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His post suggest he’ll fall in love with her. He’s infatuated with her. I know this cause I’m evaluating the reasons a grown man would type a long ass post about a bytch.

Lmao good observation then he should definitely just go ahead and cut it off.
 

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His post suggest he’ll fall in love with her. He’s infatuated with her. I know this cause I’m evaluating the reasons a grown man would type a long ass post about a bytch.
:russ:

I ain’t realize how long the post was until I hit send.

I’m Future outchea frfr - that bih bad tho

and the story was really about fuccin her friend
 
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I’m saying it here and now.

I will NEVER have raw sex without a condom.* Nor will I nut anywhere that ain’t her mouth.

Fukk all that. One wrong move and 18 years of your life and freedom are gone in an instant :wow:

Sex is not a game.

*unless I have concrete proof that she is indeed on birth control, she will need to show me her pills and schedule. And even then I’m still not nutting inside.
 

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Damn Brehs I fukked up! I left my smart watch at my girls house and she saw messages on there from other hoes.

What can I do to get her back? And to move past this shyt.
Realistically, just be upfront and don’t make a big deal out of it. Come clean, let her know what it was, and she’ll make the decision based on how much she fukks with you.

From then on you gotta make it firm that you will continue fukking other women and it really has nothing to do with her. She’ll either take it or leave it - at the end of the day you chose her to be your girl. But above all you gotta be willing to lose her. The worst thing you can do is placate and apologize. Stay firm.

A lot of dudes will tell you to lie, but all that’s gonna do is not solve the root issue and is only gonna get you trapped in a toxic relationship. If she’s not for you, she’s not for you. Leave it at that.
 

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No. :stopitslime:What's interesting about doing shyt that anyone can do? I'm a best selling author, mixed martial artist and guitarist. Those things require hard work and dedication. I can talk to anyone abou traveling and eating food. I could talk to my mom about that shyt. Ya'll settle for just anything. This is why women can get away with being fat, boring and having shyt attitudes. Man must have some standards if you ain't demanding some shyt in a woman you'll end up back here.
 

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I’m saying it here and now.

I will NEVER have raw sex without a condom.* Nor will I nut anywhere that ain’t her mouth.

Fukk all that. One wrong move and 18 years of your life and freedom are gone in an instant :wow:

Sex is not a game.

*unless I have concrete proof that she is indeed on birth control, she will need to show me her pills and schedule. And even then I’m still not nutting inside.
:skip:
 

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That is a real ass problem breh. Highkey I think overeating is a coping mechanism for black women.

There’s so many on these apps that I actually have to sift through the big girls to find the normal ones.


Breh you gotta get rid of them unrealistic expectations - that’s most people in general.

You expect her to say some shyt like “I’ve been to every Michelin restaurant in the tri-state area”

Where are you brehs getting this from? :dahell:

Its all women, a mixed bag of all races here in NYC, and all of them are entitled....even the 50+ obese birds. Deep down they know they're wasted or on the ropes of life(the wall), yet that vaginal pride always conquers them. I've heard the most ridiculous things from women who are pretty much whoring for rent money. I ignore em and feed em lies, pump and dump, they're not worth much more, unless they can give me free drugs or money.
 

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I’m saying it here and now.

I will NEVER have raw sex without a condom.* Nor will I nut anywhere that ain’t her mouth.

Fukk all that. One wrong move and 18 years of your life and freedom are gone in an instant :wow:

Sex is not a game.

*unless I have concrete proof that she is indeed on birth control, she will need to show me her pills and schedule. And even then I’m still not nutting inside.

I always made sure all the birds I've fukked, have taken the pill right in front of me, even then, I get her into anal, and boom, two holes I can deposit into other than her vagina. Dudes get too thirsty, and in the moment....give up 18+ years of their lives. If I do creampie, she doesn't know my real name or my address, so shes gonna be a single mother for a long time. :win:
 

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Realistically, just be upfront and don’t make a big deal out of it. Come clean, let her know what it was, and she’ll make the decision based on how much she fukks with you.

From then on you gotta make it firm that you will continue fukking other women and it really has nothing to do with her. She’ll either take it or leave it - at the end of the day you chose her to be your girl. But above all you gotta be willing to lose her. The worst thing you can do is placate and apologize. Stay firm.

A lot of dudes will tell you to lie, but all that’s gonna do is not solve the root issue and is only gonna get you trapped in a toxic relationship. If she’s not for you, she’s not for you. Leave it at that.

You already know me, lie, lie, lie.....however, I agree with you completely, tell the truth and move. If she sees all the birds on the phone, she'll realize how high your value is, while also creating dread game. Ultimately she'll realize that shes letting go of a trophy.
 

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I think I shared a story of this chick letting me know she had herpes before we fuced around. Ended up falling back and remaining cool with her. Then she pops back up trying to be consistent after some months over the summer.

First time, she invited me to the pool and it was like 8 of her homegirls, me and 2 other nikkas. Most of her homegirls look good, so I'm looking at them.

Next she invited me to a game night, I pull up with my homeboy - the girl I wanted from the pool party was there but she dipped quick as hell.

Fast forward and somehow me and the other girl are following each other on IG :mjgrin:


I invited her to the gym to workout with me and she pulled up. Last week, we started texting and FT'n on some interest shyt. She mentions working out with her trainer and being sore, needing a massage. I googled massage techniques and was like, you probably could benefit from petrissage - long story short she came over that night for the massage.

I tell her her bra was in da way - she took it off. I gave her a massage with the 3 wick burning and some R&B. When I got done she didn't wanna leave, said it was cold and got under the blanket. I'm thinkin damn it's already late, I got to work but I ain't putting her out. Then she says she can't sleep with pants and asked if I had a big shirt to which I said, "I've been on my Euro fit lately, I don't. :steviej:


She then tosses her pants on the floor. So I'm laying there with a woman butt naked in my bed, trying not to make a move, pause. Then I said fuc it and got naked and laid there too. We ended up fuccin.

Yesterday she pulled up on me after work brought a nikka something to eat - took a couple calls herself and we chilled - then she left late to go get clothes and come back. I beat again - but then that light bulb went off - "Is there anything you wanna tell me before we get deep into this" (thinking of her homegirl) and she said no.

Then she asked me (again) if I messed with her homegirl raw and that I could tell her she just wanted to know because - and I cut her off and said I already know and no, I didn't.

Then today she text me and says, "when you asked me if I had a secret I needed to tell you - Im still legally married"

I'm like :mindblown::mindblown::mindblown: - I'm trippin but I ain't trippin trippin but I flipped it like you coulda told me and let me make a decision cause I don't mess with married women.


A little bit of advice....EVERYONE LIES. Women more than men, don't be fooled, they redefine and move the goal posts, more than some scumbag men I know. Assume every bird you run into, is a compulsive liar, they just make it seem like they're honest by revealing the truth after....which is just the purest rat tactic. Keep fukking her if you want, just make sure you get something out of it, whether its money, gifts, rides, etc. Shes working for you now.
 

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No. :stopitslime:What's interesting about doing shyt that anyone can do? I'm a best selling author, mixed martial artist and guitarist. Those things require hard work and dedication. I can talk to anyone abou traveling and eating food. I could talk to my mom about that shyt. Ya'll settle for just anything. This is why women can get away with being fat, boring and having shyt attitudes. Man must have some standards if you ain't demanding some shyt in a woman you'll end up back here.

You and I will always get along. Without making us sound like we're in an echo chamber, the main problem is that men are so thirsty, so hopelessly inured, that they'll do anything for some attention or conversation from women. Post nut clarity is the true red pill, I advise all men; jerk off before you meet her, jerk off after talking to her, and so forth. The need to want to have sex, blinds a lot of these boys. Then there's the spineless bunch, who rather pay with money or happiness to shut birds up...they need to practice saying no.
 

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So im bored at work…past year i was banne don bumble and hinge…tryna get my accounts back i hear if u go on facebook(dummy account) and remove permissions n wait 24 hours u can get ur account back

shyt well see
 
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