YepDamn so expecting a women to maybe read, go to the gym, enjoy cooking.. or ANYTHING interesting is asking too much
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I don't feel like I'm missing out by not dealing with women I don't find interesting. It actually makes things a little easier. I see dudes in here wasting their time and energy for weeks on one broad or another. I want better for my brothers. Discernment is important. Knowing what you want and don't want to is also.You going about this COMPLETELY wrong
The keys to a good female is one who listens,cooperates, and learn...
All that other shyt can be worked on in time...
You gonna miss out on alot because of your rigid standards that I'm sure seeps thru your actual interactions with women
I'm sapiosexual so it's kinda hard to be interested to people that don't stimulate my mind. I just can't man.
this sounds just as silly as when birds say it
It's a great thing you're not trying to date me. So you don't have to worry about it.
BigE214
Future GOAT
I think I shared a story of this chick letting me know she had herpes before we fuced around. Ended up falling back and remaining cool with her. Then she pops back up trying to be consistent after some months over the summer.
First time, she invited me to the pool and it was like 8 of her homegirls, me and 2 other nikkas. Most of her homegirls look good, so I'm looking at them.
Next she invited me to a game night, I pull up with my homeboy - the girl I wanted from the pool party was there but she dipped quick as hell.
Fast forward and somehow me and the other girl are following each other on IG
I invited her to the gym to workout with me and she pulled up. Last week, we started texting and FT'n on some interest shyt. She mentions working out with her trainer and being sore, needing a massage. I googled massage techniques and was like, you probably could benefit from petrissage - long story short she came over that night for the massage.
I tell her her bra was in da way - she took it off. I gave her a massage with the 3 wick burning and some R&B. When I got done she didn't wanna leave, said it was cold and got under the blanket. I'm thinkin damn it's already late, I got to work but I ain't putting her out. Then she says she can't sleep with pants and asked if I had a big shirt to which I said, "I've been on my Euro fit lately, I don't.
She then tosses her pants on the floor. So I'm laying there with a woman butt naked in my bed, trying not to make a move, pause. Then I said fuc it and got naked and laid there too. We ended up fuccin.
Yesterday she pulled up on me after work brought a nikka something to eat - took a couple calls herself and we chilled - then she left late to go get clothes and come back. I beat again - but then that light bulb went off - "Is there anything you wanna tell me before we get deep into this" (thinking of her homegirl) and she said no.
Then she asked me (again) if I messed with her homegirl raw and that I could tell her she just wanted to know because - and I cut her off and said I already know and no, I didn't.
Then today she text me and says, "when you asked me if I had a secret I needed to tell you - Im still legally married"
I'm like
- I'm trippin but I ain't trippin trippin but I flipped it like you coulda told me and let me make a decision cause I don't mess with married women.
First time, she invited me to the pool and it was like 8 of her homegirls, me and 2 other nikkas. Most of her homegirls look good, so I'm looking at them.
Next she invited me to a game night, I pull up with my homeboy - the girl I wanted from the pool party was there but she dipped quick as hell.
Fast forward and somehow me and the other girl are following each other on IG
I invited her to the gym to workout with me and she pulled up. Last week, we started texting and FT'n on some interest shyt. She mentions working out with her trainer and being sore, needing a massage. I googled massage techniques and was like, you probably could benefit from petrissage - long story short she came over that night for the massage.
I tell her her bra was in da way - she took it off. I gave her a massage with the 3 wick burning and some R&B. When I got done she didn't wanna leave, said it was cold and got under the blanket. I'm thinkin damn it's already late, I got to work but I ain't putting her out. Then she says she can't sleep with pants and asked if I had a big shirt to which I said, "I've been on my Euro fit lately, I don't.
She then tosses her pants on the floor. So I'm laying there with a woman butt naked in my bed, trying not to make a move, pause. Then I said fuc it and got naked and laid there too. We ended up fuccin.
Yesterday she pulled up on me after work brought a nikka something to eat - took a couple calls herself and we chilled - then she left late to go get clothes and come back. I beat again - but then that light bulb went off - "Is there anything you wanna tell me before we get deep into this" (thinking of her homegirl) and she said no.
Then she asked me (again) if I messed with her homegirl raw and that I could tell her she just wanted to know because - and I cut her off and said I already know and no, I didn't.
Then today she text me and says, "when you asked me if I had a secret I needed to tell you - Im still legally married"
I'm like
- I'm trippin but I ain't trippin trippin but I flipped it like you coulda told me and let me make a decision cause I don't mess with married women.
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Crazy thing this chick I met in london in april 2019 and never saw again is meeting up with me on my first day when i land
Even letting me use her address to ship my covid day 2 test too
Even letting me use her address to ship my covid day 2 test too
I think I shared a story of this chick letting me know she had herpes before we fuced around. Ended up falling back and remaining cool with her. Then she pops back up trying to be consistent after some months over the summer.
First time, she invited me to the pool and it was like 8 of her homegirls, me and 2 other nikkas. Most of her homegirls look good, so I'm looking at them.
Next she invited me to a game night, I pull up with my homeboy - the girl I wanted from the pool party was there but she dipped quick as hell.
Fast forward and somehow me and the other girl are following each other on IG
I invited her to the gym to workout with me and she pulled up. Last week, we started texting and FT'n on some interest shyt. She mentions working out with her trainer and being sore, needing a massage. I googled massage techniques and was like, you probably could benefit from petrissage - long story short she came over that night for the massage.
I tell her her bra was in da way - she took it off. I gave her a massage with the 3 wick burning and some R&B. When I got done she didn't wanna leave, said it was cold and got under the blanket. I'm thinkin damn it's already late, I got to work but I ain't putting her out. Then she says she can't sleep with pants and asked if I had a big shirt to which I said, "I've been on my Euro fit lately, I don't.
She then tosses her pants on the floor. So I'm laying there with a woman butt naked in my bed, trying not to make a move, pause. Then I said fuc it and got naked and laid there too. We ended up fuccin.
Yesterday she pulled up on me after work brought a nikka something to eat - took a couple calls herself and we chilled - then she left late to go get clothes and come back. I beat again - but then that light bulb went off - "Is there anything you wanna tell me before we get deep into this" (thinking of her homegirl) and she said no.
Then she asked me (again) if I messed with her homegirl raw and that I could tell her she just wanted to know because - and I cut her off and said I already know and no, I didn't.
Then today she text me and says, "when you asked me if I had a secret I needed to tell you - Im still legally married"
I'm like
you hooked up with the girl who had the herp or the friend you really wanted?
Right. Couldn’t really follow the structure of his story.
BigE214
Future GOAT
My b - the one I really wanted.
We had an exchange last night and I said something like, "You dropped a heavy one on me and I just need time to process it." She was acting like a descison needed to be made right away. I get on IG last night and she had unfollowed me - but I had a missed FT from her this morning. Lil bih bad, black and rican and can fucc like a mf but I'm finna call it quits
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Yeah you’re in over ur head here. I will say based on ur description of what went down, u should have no problem pulling other women. That woman said she’s legally married but is out fuccking u. Ur ego might tempt u to think you’re something special but better believe if u got into any serious relationship with her it’s only a matter of time before she’s bored and is out making the next n1gga feel just as special as u felt.My b - the one I really wanted.
We had an exchange last night and I said something like, "You dropped a heavy one on me and I just need time to process it." She was acting like a descison needed to be made right away. I get on IG last night and she had unfollowed me - but I had a missed FT from her this morning. Lil bih bad, black and rican and can fucc like a mf but I'm finna call it quits
A better question should be whether or not you should forgive her. Obviously if you are out juggling women, you’ve arrived at the conclusion that’s the lifestyle u wanna live. And that’s ok. So make ur actions and words congruent with it. Unless this girl was thoroughly devoted to u, I’d troll the hell outta her. No begging. Be mad at her for having the nerve to read ur messages.
be careful though, if executed properly you can damage her mentally for good. Wield this power with wisdom.