Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ok guys my girl is furious she has been dating me since November and went through my phone when I was sleeping. Saw i meet a stripper during the summer. made a few 100 payments on cash app because I was sexually frustrated. She went through my phone Friday

We have sex like once a month (with condoms) and she has never been able to get me off without me jerking. She is also mad that I met a female friend of mine without telling her. I eat her out frequently but she doesn't reciprocate so hence I paid like 120 for condom head.

She says I don't love her and I should die alone.

I do a lot for her on my birthday she just got me a birthday card and didn't hand it to me a month later. I help her financially roughly 2k a month not including the 6k I paid for her birthday.

I feel awful but I feel like im not getting what I should be getting compared to what some of my friends get out of their relationships.

She says that I'm such a liar and a piece of shyt but we were not engaged and its not like we have kids. I've been doing the dating thing but it leaves me unhappy.

Okay, so I'm gonna need you to actually listen to a stranger online....because at this point, me and many others on here, though strangers, are your fukking, life line. Firstly, don't worry about the c*nt girlfriend, we'll get to her in a minute. You need to find a reason to love yourself, because it seems like you're suffering from either, depression or some sort of childhood trauma. I would seek help. No, I'm not being funny, nor posting for likes on a forum. You need therapy, while in the process of getting it, you need to focus on yourself. Read, workout, eat meat, become a renaissance man or sorts. Stop looking for happiness from someone else who wouldn't understand true happiness if it flew inside their rotten cesspool of a vagina...

Speaking of your girlfriend, drop her. She's scumbag Stacy at this point and is literally bringing you down and manipulating you to the highest degree. She's a cancer, cut her off. Ask yourself "What would I miss if she left?" The answer sounds like it would be nothing, since she's not even willing to touch your dikk anymore. She's worthless, however she knows how to project that onto you and make you feel like you're the useless one. You're a man, show us all your radiance, because as of now, it just sounds like you're a void, null of any happiness and glory.

You're young, work on yourself, a good woman is a byproduct of great life well lived....not the goal, build a proper support group, love yourself as a man, but more importantly, as a human being. Stop being used by some soulless harpy who's more content in being a c*nt, than an actual lover. You need to steer your own ship, currently you're a buoy, floating behind her rust laden boat, desperately hoping for some sign that she'll pull you in....you're lost at sea kid, you gotta cut her off and get a little lost chasing excellence.
 

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alright that's it I'm bout to try this online dating shyt, hinge bumble pof whatever. which apps should I go for and which ones should I avoid


You have to be honest with yourself;

If you're not team handsome - PoF, this should help however, learn what NOT to do.

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Okay, so I'm gonna need you to actually listen to a stranger online....because at this point, me and many others on here, though strangers, are your fukking, life line. Firstly, don't worry about the c*nt girlfriend, we'll get to her in a minute. You need to find a reason to love yourself, because it seems like you're suffering from either, depression or some sort of childhood trauma. I would seek help. No, I'm not being funny, nor posting for likes on a forum. You need therapy, while in the process of getting it, you need to focus on yourself. Read, workout, eat meat, become a renaissance man or sorts. Stop looking for happiness from someone else who wouldn't understand true happiness if it flew inside their rotten cesspool of a vagina...

Speaking of your girlfriend, drop her. She's scumbag Stacy at this point and is literally bringing you down and manipulating you to the highest degree. She's a cancer, cut her off. Ask yourself "What would I miss if she left?" The answer sounds like it would be nothing, since she's not even willing to touch your dikk anymore. She's worthless, however she knows how to project that onto you and make you feel like you're the useless one. You're a man, show us all your radiance, because as of now, it just sounds like you're a void, null of any happiness and glory.

You're young, work on yourself, a good woman is a byproduct of great life well lived....not the goal, build a proper support group, love yourself as a man, but more importantly, as a human being. Stop being used by some soulless harpy who's more content in being a c*nt, than an actual lover. You need to steer your own ship, currently you're a buoy, floating behind her rust laden boat, desperately hoping for some sign that she'll pull you in....you're lost at sea kid, you gotta cut her off and get a little lost chasing excellence.
Breh this nikka is a doctor to top it off. He already makes enough money salary wise to pull a top tier chick that will suck and fukk with little resistance or izm. Idk if duke is ugly, overweight, or just lame but salary wise it shouldn’t be this hard.

:mindblown:
 

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Damn I might get this date but I ain’t got nowhere to take her cause I live back home rn :francis:

Imma just call it off, looks like no fukking until 2022 unless I can get hired and tf up outta here by the end of the year :francis:
 

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Breh this nikka is a doctor to top it off. He already makes enough money salary wise to pull a top tier chick that will suck and fukk with little resistance or izm. Idk if duke is ugly, overweight, or just lame but salary wise it shouldn’t be this hard.

:mindblown:

I know I met this girl through a match maker. I feel guilty but this girl hair spent about 900 on the card I stopped the card and we had a huge argument at my place. I feel bad for cheating but she brought a taser to my place.
 

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Ok guys my girl is furious she has been dating me since November and went through my phone when I was sleeping. Saw i meet a stripper during the summer. made a few 100 payments on cash app because I was sexually frustrated. She went through my phone Friday

We have sex like once a month (with condoms) and she has never been able to get me off without me jerking. She is also mad that I met a female friend of mine without telling her. I eat her out frequently but she doesn't reciprocate so hence I paid like 120 for condom head.

She says I don't love her and I should die alone.

I do a lot for her on my birthday she just got me a birthday card and didn't hand it to me a month later. I help her financially roughly 2k a month not including the 6k I paid for her birthday.

I feel awful but I feel like im not getting what I should be getting compared to what some of my friends get out of their relationships.

She says that I'm such a liar and a piece of shyt but we were not engaged and its not like we have kids. I've been doing the dating thing but it leaves me unhappy.
Your woman is selfish. Bush her now.
 

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Breh this nikka is a doctor to top it off. He already makes enough money salary wise to pull a top tier chick that will suck and fukk with little resistance or izm. Idk if duke is ugly, overweight, or just lame but salary wise it shouldn’t be this hard.

:mindblown:


Shes probably hot, but a degree does not dictate power. All he did was pay for schooling, he's still a square. Game, confidence and the izm come from experience. The main problem with squares like him, is that they fear confrontation, they rather pay for avoidance, via money, their time, health, etc. And women, being the children they are, will take everything given, even worse, will try to control and berate the simp men in their lives. He just needs to learn the word no and "bytch", berate her down to nothing, stay calm,and move on.
 

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well I'm #uglygang so pof it is:mjcry:

Be honest with yourself, don't kill yourself over looks. Every guy has something, unless you look like Quasimodo, then it's all fukked. I'm not the prettiest dude, but I do get called handsome plenty, I use everything to my advantage and work on it double time. Be funny, witty, well read and a renaissance man of sorts. You can get more from life with a silver tongue than a handsome face...

Socials are slightly different, but these birds already know, cute does not equal a good time. Exude excellence with your profile, and you'll be fine. Don't assume that you seeing yourself as "ugly" is a downfall, a lot of these "hot" women are all makeup and the model diet of a meal a day. We as men will always be better than them on our worse day.
 

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Guess I'll have to go to POF. #teamaverage.

Go for it all, a silver tongue/wit is far more attractive than a pretty face, and these birds know it...hence why they're still on POF and everything else. Look at the stat sheet that guy dropped...homie was paying $78 per date...that's a major no from me, idc how much money I have, irs coffee or bust.
 

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Idk if it’s just me.

But do women even like being approached while clubbing/bar hopping anymore?

Or is my game just trash :francis:

These women tonight had me out there like a nikka with full blown aspergers

Depends on the bar and time. If you're approaching broads who are still sober, you're not gonna have a good time. Liquor helps you by disarming them. Yes your game may suck, but I'd have to know how you come at them. Every guy thinks they're Don Juan De la p*ssy, when in reality they perform on a mediocre blueprint.

They know they're gonna get approached if they're at a bar, but if you're a cornball and they're not lubricated proper, you might as well play the corner.
 

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I swear these women nowadays gotta be either gay or asexual with the way they move

And I’m not hating either, it’s like men aren’t even on the radar when they out. I wasn’t the only dude getting rejected left and right:gucci:

For many they haven't rejected anyone since covid, so of course they're gonna sharpen their swords again. Ultimately they're losers who will talk to themselves on their fb status, always approach knowing rejection is multiplied by environmental conditions.
 

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Where y’all go to meet 19-22 year old women? All I do is work, gym, maybe grocery store or the mall to buy a fit for the club, and obviously the club. There’s only so many top tier hoes even at Hollywood spots:patrice:

Many have to work now even more so, try baristas or clothing stores. Many birds are on their losers streak and they know it.
 
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