Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do women ever approach you? How do you know the signs?


You first have to understand that women don't know how to flirt, at least in America, in France its a fukking art form for both sexes, but here in the states, women are spoiled, and as usual, want something they can't possibly give back. To put it simply, remember when you were a kid at the playground and you liked that girl so you playfully hit her? Well that's turned around on you as a man dealing with women. Since they can't flirt and or fear rejection, women, tend to shyt test, neg, and do everything in their nature to "bully" your persona. Since they aren't charming or witty, they need to grab your attention in the most obvious ways.

For me its always the typical lines; "I don't date men with long hair" (I'm Hawaiian), "Do you go to the gym?" (Her version of do you even lift), and the classic "Do you have a smoke/light?". Women sit in a pond of capricious fluid atop a bucket of cognitive dissonance, so you have to immediately overturn her little "boat" with your wave of greatness, but if shes coming onto you, its like an ant trying to kill a rhino, with all the grace of a pigeon on the bodega ac. The only sign that matters is that shes even there to begin with, if she approaches you at all, its a green light.
 

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You first have to understand that women don't know how to flirt, at least in America, in France its a fukking art form for both sexes, but here in the states, women are spoiled, and as usual, want something they can't possibly give back. To put it simply, remember when you were a kid at the playground and you liked that girl so you playfully hit her? Well that's turned around on you as a man dealing with women. Since they can't flirt and or fear rejection, women, tend to shyt test, neg, and do everything in their nature to "bully" your persona. Since they aren't charming or witty, they need to grab your attention in the most obvious ways.

For me its always the typical lines; "I don't date men with long hair" (I'm Hawaiian), "Do you go to the gym?" (Her version of do you even lift), and the classic "Do you have a smoke/light?". Women sit in a pond of capricious fluid atop a bucket of cognitive dissonance, so you have to immediately overturn her little "boat" with your wave of greatness, but if shes coming onto you, its like an ant trying to kill a rhino, with all the grace of a pigeon on the bodega ac. The only sign that matters is that shes even there to begin with, if she approaches you at all, its a green light.
Ah. Aight. I've got zero prospects. But I'm trying to be better with my approaches.
 

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Ah. Aight. I've got zero prospects. But I'm trying to be better with my approaches.


Your best bet/tactic is the age old; time + proximity = sex. If you can find a way to spend time and closeness with a bird you like, then shes already yours. Ever wonder why you see some fat short slob with a pretty girl? He either has money or is broke and found a way to be around said girl for a long enough time. T=PS has been working since the beginning of time, and its the best way to snag any broad, however in this current "climate" its almost impossible to do so in a public setting, so you have to fall back on being mysterious and using their vanity against them.
 

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Your best bet/tactic is the age old; time + proximity = sex. If you can find a way to spend time and closeness with a bird you like, then shes already yours. Ever wonder why you see some fat short slob with a pretty girl? He either has money or is broke and found a way to be around said girl for a long enough time. T=PS has been working since the beginning of time, and its the best way to snag any broad, however in this current "climate" its almost impossible to do so in a public setting, so you have to fall back on being mysterious and using their vanity against them.
Gonna be honest. A lot of these hoes don't interest. Me I'm actually trying to find a woman I find interesting.
 

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What y’all think of breh?


Probably up there with the other dumb bro science myths like if you don't use it, you lose it...virility is genetic, not relative to action. Hence why some guys can go again after a few minutes, and some simply cannot. How much sperm you keep trapped in your balls is irrelevant to both virility, and confidence. I stopped listening/watching Elliot years back, since he just came off as a roided up low rent Hodgetwin wannabe....which is ironic, since they all three, give bad advice. Again scientifically speaking (more than a 3 minute google search), your lack of masturbating strengthens nothing but your discipline to not masturbate. Its always been proven that masturbation is both healthy and all around good for stress.

Then there's the fact that we already have markers that make us attractive, hairy arms, pheromones, deep voice, low brow, etc. These are actual genetic markers that women find attractive.....they're not honey bees tracking our sperm with antennae that can sense barometric wind changes


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Gonna be honest. A lot of these hoes don't interest. Me I'm actually trying to find a woman I find interesting.


Same tactic applies, you just need to surround yourself with them. In my area (NYC) we call that 5th and 1st Avenue. Sure I can try Central Park, but you get a mixed bag, but if you hang around 5th you get snobby whores with deep pockets, or even some pretty girls with degrees, either way, find the location and practically live in it.
 

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Same tactic applies, you just need to surround yourself with them. In my area (NYC) we call that 5th and 1st Avenue. Sure I can try Central Park, but you get a mixed bag, but if you hang around 5th you get snobby whores with deep pockets, or even some pretty girls with degrees, either way, find the location and practically live in it.
I'm in Brooklyn. So I'm sure I can find some.
 

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Gonna be honest. A lot of these hoes don't interest. Me I'm actually trying to find a woman I find interesting.
Best tactic I recommend everyone to do is lower your expectations, just get in the habit of dating just to date. Eventually you’ll start to carry yourself in certain ways that will make it so other women are attracted to your aura. I had a chick put me up on game regarding how to fix my profile, how to adjust my conversation and what pictures to posts, brehs I was doing aight, now almost every dime I swipe matches and I know how to close deals. :wow:


I got too many prospects, dates and no time for all this shyt now. I’m taking a break, and working on two - 3 at a time.


Tldr: take a chance with someone who may not fully be your type, then make the adjustments to your game, soon you’ll be able to shoot for what you really want. Truth be told, I actually kinda of like the chick I took chance with, more so than the shallow dimes, I’ve been out with.
 
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Been off the grid for a bit trying to just focus on me and getting into a good place mentally and physically. Check my phone and my ex has text me tryna be all flirty and shyt. It's toxic as shyt but I don't know if I can resist :mjcry:
Same thing happened to me in Jan.

I was done done though and told her keep it pushing. Ironically, It was the girl I was talking to then who told me to not be so cold to her.

shyt went smooth & perfect for 2 months then she started up with her same bullshyt again :snoop:
 

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Best tactic I recommend everyone to do is lower your expectations, just get in the habit of dating just to date. Eventually you’ll start to carry yourself in certain ways that will make it so other women are attracted to your aura. I had a chick put me up on game regarding how to fix my profile, how to adjust my conversation and what pictures to posts, brehs I was doing aight, now almost every dime I swipe matches and I know how to close deals. :wow:


I got too many prospects, dates and no time for all this shyt now. I’m taking a break, and working on two - 3 at a time.


Tldr: take a chance with someone who may not fully be your type, then make the adjustments to your game, soon you’ll be able to shoot for what you really want. Truth be told, I actually kinda of like the chick I took chance with, more so than the shallow dimes, I’ve been out with.
This sounds a little exhausting. Where do ya'll find the time and energy? Between, work, writing, mma and guitar practice I have very little energy people I don't like. How do I navigate that?
 

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Same thing happened to me in Jan.

I was done done though and told her keep it pushing. Ironically, It was the girl I was talking to then who told me to not be so cold to her.

shyt went smooth & perfect for 2 months then she started up with her same bullshyt again :snoop:
Don't listen to women since they are going to go to bat for their gender.
 
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