Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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try hiking instead. Its free and actually fun, and if chick doesn't want to do that imo its a red flag that she's lazy + trying to juug a free meal. If a woman is into you she will go anywhere to be able to be infront of you and connect. Dates outside of the home are just for safety on both sides.

He in NYC I believe...Ain't no hiking out here:pachaha:
 

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Damn just got blocked by a girl I thought I was getting somewhere with out of nowhere. Talked on the phone, FaceTimed, whole shyt. Then she ghosted me on a date then blocked me :dahell:

shyt can shake even the most solid brehs reserve :wow:


I'm used to it really, women are extremely capricious, one moment they want salad, the next, a big mac. Your only problem; You took too long. Nothing is free, I'm not a casual conversationalist, so she has to pay me in something. Once there's some kind of chemistry, dive in for the (cheap) date.
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
Im thinking of outright blocking my ex. We had a long distance relationship. She broke up with me three times and now she wants to get back to me even though its been over a year since we last met. She also has been engagged to another man but broke it off .

She has ended all of her relationships. We facetimed and told her im not interested she wanted to do long distance for 4 year while she is in residency.

Know she texted "It's like you want nothing to do with me." Left on read


She already simped you three times, move on and don't look back. If you're weak, you must block, but block in general. No woman is worth that kind of fukkery.
 

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Can't stand some of these broads sometimes. What's the point of messaging somebody for nothing if you just gonna be acting funny from the jump? Don't fukking message me at all then.
 

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I'm used to it really, women are extremely capricious, one moment they want salad, the next, a big mac. Your only problem; You took too long. Nothing is free, I'm not a casual conversationalist, so she has to pay me in something. Once there's some kind of chemistry, dive in for the (cheap) date.
I only knew ol girl for about 2 weeks, so I wouldn’t say that but you gotta just charge it to the game. I already got another one lined up, tryna fukk. We out here :wow:
 

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Can't stand some of these broads sometimes. What's the point of messaging somebody for nothing if you just gonna be acting funny from the jump? Don't fukking message me at all then.
Bro these girls are WEIRD. Like dude said, if it’s looking funny, try to casually smash and spend that time and energy elsewhere. They have way too many options for you to be chasing one you’re feeling funny about
 

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Bro these girls are WEIRD. Like dude said, if it’s looking funny, try to casually smash and spend that time and energy elsewhere. They have way too many options for you to be chasing one you’re feeling funny about

I don't "chase" or try to smash chicks I get bad vibes from anyway. bytch already got bushed. It's just annoying when it happens.
 

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Can't stand some of these broads sometimes. What's the point of messaging somebody for nothing if you just gonna be acting funny from the jump? Don't fukking message me at all then.
If u talking dating apps... idk what thats about either

They'll even message me first ill say something simple back like whats going on and they vanish.. I chalk it up to them being weirdos
 

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Third Date Ideas?

Tinder ting, we really hit it off matched and we had a date Friday and it went well so we went out again Sunday, then to Trader Joes then her crib, we made out on and off for like an hour and I got some feels in, she climbed on top of me and was grinding on me, but she wasn't "ready yet".
Mind you im on no fap, zinc, maca and seamoss :wow:

We're linking tomorrow so I'm like idk how to play it.

She likes spontaneous things too

I paid for Friday, Saturday she offered to split, then I paid the uber. She lives close to me too, I'm thinking quick cheap meal, maybe wine then forward to her place. Idk though, I spent over $100 by now and I'm not no simp but I do like her.

Like part of me is like she might be playing me but then again even when I was leaving she kept kissing me and outside she's doing pda holding my hand, head on shoulder etc
 

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Third Date Ideas?

Tinder ting, we really hit it off matched and we had a date Friday and it went well so we went out again Sunday, then to Trader Joes then her crib, we made out on and off for like an hour and I got some feels in, she climbed on top of me and was grinding on me, but she wasn't "ready yet".
Mind you im on no fap, zinc, maca and seamoss :wow:

We're linking tomorrow so I'm like idk how to play it.

She likes spontaneous things too

I paid for Friday, Saturday she offered to split, then I paid the uber. She lives close to me too, I'm thinking quick cheap meal, maybe wine then forward to her place. Idk though, I spent over $100 by now and I'm not no simp but I do like her.

Like part of me is like she might be playing me but then again even when I was leaving she kept kissing me and outside she's doing pda holding my hand, head on shoulder etc

Either cook for her or watch a movie at your crib or invite her to somewhere really close to your crib

3rd date is smash time so you need to go for it because if you dont get no action its time to throw her to the bushes :ufdup:might as well just tell her to pull up you shouldnt even be over thinking it. its either time to smash or bushes

4th date is optional and that one is definitely at the crib and only if u get really close on the 3rd date but she wouldnt give up the goods
 

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Third Date Ideas?

Tinder ting, we really hit it off matched and we had a date Friday and it went well so we went out again Sunday, then to Trader Joes then her crib, we made out on and off for like an hour and I got some feels in, she climbed on top of me and was grinding on me, but she wasn't "ready yet".
Mind you im on no fap, zinc, maca and seamoss :wow:

We're linking tomorrow so I'm like idk how to play it.

She likes spontaneous things too

I paid for Friday, Saturday she offered to split, then I paid the uber. She lives close to me too, I'm thinking quick cheap meal, maybe wine then forward to her place. Idk though, I spent over $100 by now and I'm not no simp but I do like her.

Like part of me is like she might be playing me but then again even when I was leaving she kept kissing me and outside she's doing pda holding my hand, head on shoulder etc

yep 3rd date should be where you take the lead to take things to their natural conclusion.

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Find something you can both cook together at your place or hers. One I find works great is getting 1 duck breast as it can serve 2 people and is not bad price wise, usually $13 a breast, serve with some fried veggies and rice or sweet potato

She gets the alcohol and dessert, you do the food. Even better way to get her involved is, if you know what you're cooking. Get her to find a wine that pairs with the dish.

Then just set the right non pressure mood and take charge.
 
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