Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Don't budge on this, it's about respect. I would respect the woman I'm with enough not to still be talking to other women I used to fukk, and I would expect that woman to reciprocate.

If you respect most(modern) women the way you want to be respected, you usually come up on the losing end...

A female with no turmoil is like a pitbull who stays locked in the house all day...

You gotta create drama and competition for them
 

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How many best buddies became ex best buddies once they moved on with your girl?
Especially if the mutual is being tight-lipped about the girl or if the mutual and the girl knew each other first. It might be a test.

Or if you haven't made your move yet, you don't want the girl finding out you about to shoot your shot from the mutual you want her to know first from you.
 

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Thats the part that trip me out the most....

I asked her about it...she lied...

Then lied cause she said I knew I would have a problem with it....

Then made it seem like I was being jealous....

It doesn't make sense to ask...:francis:

You either get petty or leave the situation...

They have to believe that you got so much p*ssy after you, she has no choice but to be on high alert...:mjgrin:
 

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If you respect most(modern) women the way you want to be respected, you usually come up on the losing end...

A female with no turmoil is like a pitbull who stays locked in the house all day...

You gotta create drama and competition for them

or just cheat your ass off so you dont care what she does.
:mjlol::francis:
 

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I think something wrong with me brehs. With my weekend in Vegas I realized all I want from women is sex. My perfect situation is fukk...bounce...rinse repeat. Never had the inclination to want a gf, I know some brehs say that to sound like some cold blooded player but I really live the shyt:francis::yeshrug:idk what the fukk else to say
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Thats the part that trip me out the most....

I asked her about it...she lied...

Then lied cause she said I knew I would have a problem with it....

Then made it seem like I was being jealous....
Yikes. I remember dealing with something like this 6 years ago. I really liked this girl. She was gorgeous, knew how to dress and always smelled nice. I was smitten!

I didn’t find out she was talking to her ex until months into the relationship when I’d already invested time and money. I suspected she was shady but I needed proof. So I hacked her email and was able to justify everything. Don’t think they had sex during the time we dated cause dude was in another country. Needless to say, from the back and forth I read, she clearly still had feelings for dude.

I sat on this information for a couple of weeks because I just wanted to watch the behavior of a known liar who was under the impression she’d successfully duped me.

We had an unrelated argument one time in which I questioned her loyalty. I was like can u really look me in the eyes and honestly tell me you’ve been emotionally and physically faithful to me? U have not spoken to any of ur exes since we’ve been together? She answered with an attitude like no I did not talk to any exes. And even rolled her eyes for maximum effect. I paused then said don’t u know I know you’ve been talking to so and so? Telling him how much u miss him? How you got mad at him because he didn’t let u know when he came to the country to visit? Like u and I had met already and I had just spent a fucck ton of money for ur birthday and here u are telling another Man U miss him.

Man I tell u, the look on her face was priceless. She was copping so many pleas.

needless to say, the relationship had to end. But she did expose me to a very adventurous lifestyle, expensive on my dime, but adventurous nonetheless. This is why I’m an advocate of checking ur girls phones, emails etc. if you’re gonna get played it’s best u minimize how long it happens.
 

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Yikes. I remember dealing with something like this 6 years ago. I really liked this girl. She was gorgeous, knew how to dress and always smelled nice. I was smitten!

I didn’t find out she was talking to her ex until months into the relationship when I’d already invested time and money. I suspected she was shady but I needed proof. So I hacked her email and was able to justify everything. Don’t think they had sex during the time we dated cause dude was in another country. Needless to say, from the back and forth I read, she clearly still had feelings for dude.

I sat on this information for a couple of weeks because I just wanted to watch the behavior of a known liar who was under the impression she’d successfully duped me.

We had an unrelated argument one time in which I questioned her loyalty. I was like can u really look me in the eyes and honestly tell me you’ve been emotionally and physically faithful to me? U have not spoken to any of ur exes since we’ve been together? She answered with an attitude like no I did not talk to any exes. And even rolled her eyes for maximum effect. I paused then said don’t u know I know you’ve been talking to so and so? Telling him how much u miss him? How you got mad at him because he didn’t let u know when he came to the country to visit? Like u and I had met already and I had just spent a fucck ton of money for ur birthday and here u are telling another Man U miss him.

Man I tell u, the look on her face was priceless. She was copping so many pleas.

needless to say, the relationship had to end. But she did expose me to a very adventurous lifestyle, expensive on my dime, but adventurous nonetheless. This is why I’m an advocate of checking ur girls phones, emails etc. if you’re gonna get played it’s best u minimize how long it happens.


Accountant handles my money but I double check - cam’ron


the reason I found out I was being played like a decade ago was through a key logger and like you the chick would lie to my face.
 

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Been a while. Shoutout to all the brehs keeping this thread alive.

Might sound weird but what i want to say is, simping is a form of arrogance. Women's whole game is to make you believe that they are or that you and her together is special. What you need to realize is that there are no exceptions to the game. None. Once you start thinking your situation is special and therefore the rules of the game don't apply to it, that's the beginning of the end for you and you will only have yourself to blame. It doesn't matter if it's a friend you are crushing on, a girl you have been fukking for a while, 2 year relationship, married for 20 years,etc. Doesn't matter how close you are because she opened up to you and you have your corny inside jokes with her or whatever. There are no exceptions to the game.

The only reason you would think the rules don't apply to you and that you can start simping is because you are suddenly thinking you two are better than the game. That the love or affinity you share is above the game. It's a form of arrogance and you will learn eventually. Humble yourself and never put your affection for a woman above the game :ufdup:
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I think something wrong with me brehs. With my weekend in Vegas I realized all I want from women is sex. My perfect situation is fukk...bounce...rinse repeat. Never had the inclination to want a gf, I know some brehs say that to sound like some cold blooded player but I really live the shyt:francis::yeshrug:idk what the fukk else to say
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this fine and all but I'll just say don't squander these years being unproductive. Because if you're a bum at 30 we are going to roast you.
 
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