Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I won't lie and I won't do it but its kind of hard sometimes when you've been feeling a chick and everything going well then they get all cold. You know its done and over but them old remnant simp dna cells trying to rise and "reach out" :beli:
I hate to say it but this will always be the case with women u meet online.

I’ll put it to u like this, most of the women I’ve had long lasting relationships with are those met in person.

Online women have no incentive to be faithful to anyone guy unless that one guy has a combination of things hard to come by...ie good looks, clout, money. U may have one or two of those things but very very few have all 3. Add to that simps gassing their heads up making 4s believe they’re Beyoncé’s. Online women are strictly for entertainment. That doesn’t mean u can’t find a good woman thru it. But u know what they say...needle in a haystack.
 

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I hate to say it but this will always be the case with women u meet online.

I’ll put it to u like this, most of the women I’ve had long lasting relationships with are those met in person.

Online women have no incentive to be faithful to anyone guy unless that one guy has a combination of things hard to come by...ie good looks, clout, money. U may have one or two of those things but very very few have all 3. Add to that simps gassing their heads up making 4s believe they’re Beyoncé’s. Online women are strictly for entertainment. That doesn’t mean u can’t find a good woman thru it. But u know what they say...needle in a haystack.

This is the main issue with COVID, plenty of prospects, and shes eating her feelings while binge watching Netflix. So not only are they trying to get you to jump through hoops online, they're getting fatter. Down in NYC I'm noticing this a bit too much. I'm working out, walking , etc.....and I see chunky to complete whales of women come out and buy something real quick, then go back upstairs....when push comes to shove, women are too agreeable even for their own good.

I've kept telling guys, work on yourselves, women have shown their hands plenty, they're fat, lazy, and mediocre...be great on your own, let them be the byproduct of a good life well lived.
 

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How do you enjoy not talking to anyone? I’m not talking to anyone because I’m tired of the nothing coming from it or just getting curved. So it’s pretty much a defense mechanism now. “Can’t get curved, if you don’t shoot your shot.” But I wouldn’t say I enjoy it. Any advice?
You gotta take breaks.
 

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I hate to say it but this will always be the case with women u meet online.

I’ll put it to u like this, most of the women I’ve had long lasting relationships with are those met in person.

Online women have no incentive to be faithful to anyone guy unless that one guy has a combination of things hard to come by...ie good looks, clout, money. U may have one or two of those things but very very few have all 3. Add to that simps gassing their heads up making 4s believe they’re Beyoncé’s. Online women are strictly for entertainment. That doesn’t mean u can’t find a good woman thru it. But u know what they say...needle in a haystack.
But aren't there real women that you actually meet on person agyer sliding in the DM? Yall out here having fully cyber relationships? :picard:
 

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I fear that hinge will get greedy and make like searching by race a paywall and ish
I don't really see a problem with this tbh. I'd pay for other apps to have the feature. Its just too much work to swipe no on all these white women. The GOAT feature would be filtering out fat chicks but of course that won't ever happen
 
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man I woke up and was like why I post that.
But fukk it. Lemme post some content for the fam.

this is what happened.

I spent like an hour looking for my wallet just to find it on the counter. Then I lost my keys and that took a t least half an hour to find. I was so heated that I decided to go out and grab a drink.

now usually I clean the place up no matter what. But no one ever comes over when I do clean it expecting to get some. The mindset was to grab a few drinks at this specific bar no one goes to because of Covid. (I live by myself and no family is around so I go out sometimes)


I guess when I’m slapped I just become a super confident funny dude. Im talking to this 30 year old and I get her number. I told her if she goes out again this week I want to as well. Out of nowhere some younger chick is talking to me then we get to hitting it off.

the younger chick tells me she has a man. Now By this time I’m drunk af so i try to do a little of self-control for myself because sober me would obviously stop the convo. Drunk me said fukk it we’re only chatting at the bar and nothing will come of it. (She’s with female friends by the way)

I’m socializing with them and out of nowhere she gives me her phone. Of course she wants straw hat to add her on snap. I do. Obviously I see the signs and my drunk ass is ready to make bad decisions. I amp up the confidence and we talk.

I’m so smacked she offers to take me home. We get there she’s like I want to come in and check the place out.

inside my emotions are like :shaq: time to sin.


We walk in and my confidence disappeared

:ohhh::mjlol: I forgot my place was a mess


Entire living room tore apart because I tried looking for my wallet and keys.

She’s like it’s okay I want to check your room.

she just walks in and I’m like :stopitslime: damn draws books and socks all over the bed and floor.

We go back in the living room and she turns on the play station 4 and goes directly to HBO Max. I’ve been watching courage the cowardly dog and Dexter lab :russ::russ::russ::russ::russ: she’s like really?

I try to make a move and she’s reminds me that she has a boyfriend. I ask for a kiss then and I get a couple of them. But now that I’m sober I think my breath was fukking funkyyyy :russ::russ::russ:


I try a few more times and she’s like yeah I gotta go. I work super early.

She snaps me once she’s home talking about I’m an aggressive kisser. I’m pretty sure I kept asking her the same questions over and over because she kept saying “I already told you” . Don’t even remember the convo after tbh. I stopped talking to her because my drunk ass could think coherently again.

I wake up happy that I didn’t smash. Kind of embarrassed I couldn’t control myself in that lust.


I go to the bathroom and I look at my toilet

:hhh::hhh::hhh::hhh:


Spots all on the toilet walls.


So pissed man :francis::hhh:


Place was a fukking mess





:picard:
 

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I won't lie and I won't do it but its kind of hard sometimes when you've been feeling a chick and everything going well then they get all cold. You know its done and over but them old remnant simp dna cells trying to rise and "reach out" :beli:

It happens. Just yesterday I experienced the same thing a dude in this thread did a few days ago - a chick I was fukking a while back who I been in contact with every now and again switched out the blue and blocked me on WhatsApp when I said something sexually suggestive when SHE was doing the same shyt and was reaching out to me before.

I wouldn't reach out regardless, but they're just weird like that. The old me probably would have been asking what I did wrong or apologising, but fukk it. Delete and move on to the next.
 

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This is the main issue with COVID, plenty of prospects, and shes eating her feelings while binge watching Netflix. So not only are they trying to get you to jump through hoops online, they're getting fatter. Down in NYC I'm noticing this a bit too much. I'm working out, walking , etc.....and I see chunky to complete whales of women come out and buy something real quick, then go back upstairs....when push comes to shove, women are too agreeable even for their own good.

I've kept telling guys, work on yourselves, women have shown their hands plenty, they're fat, lazy, and mediocre...be great on your own, let them be the byproduct of a good life well lived.

this is true don't trust these photos women are using online many are 2-3 years old. The last few chicks I facetimed with were FAT while their pictures using they were slim
 
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